Do Christian girls saving themselves for marriage still let their boyfriend's do anal, give bjs, thighjobs, handjobs like when I was younger?

Preposterous now that I'm older but hey sex is sex. We used to call it saddlebacking our grandparents called it heavy petting

Do Christian girls saving themselves for marriage still let their boyfriends do anal, give bjs, thighjobs, handjobs like when I was younger?
Do Christian girls saving themselves for marriage still let their boyfriends do anal, give bjs, thighjobs, handjobs like when I was younger?

I guess this jump humping is kinda hot because it involves another girl lol.

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  • I find most grandparents who claim they saved themselves for marriage back in the day are mostly full of shit. The vast majority who claim they did - did not.

    They only all claim to run around being innocent because other people they associate with will slut shame them if they do speak truthfully about their past experiences - and their friends who would slut shame them also say they are virgins because they think the first people will slut shame them also on their end - and they are likely correct in making thay assessment. They probably would as they are all compitition for each other and that is how females try to reduce compitition around males they fancy.

    In todays world a lot more people are becoming more and more transparents - socially acceptable normal behaviour is becoming a lot less taboo and a lot more open as people realize just how many people are doing which things or not though social media posts leaking or being shared (intentionally or not). The world is starting to become a lot more transparent over time (this can be both good and bad depending on the person/activity being shared).

    I know a lot of christian girls are still heavily influenced by the now older on avg church going generation with moral ideas they had back in 1950's and 60's - but there are certainly many christian girls at the Catholic school across from my high school back in the day a decade ago who are still chritian - but do not worry about the taboo of if they have pre-marital sex or not anymore. With sexual education and access to good contraception - as long as they stay safe and responsible - I dont see any problems with guys and girls having pre-marital sex with their partners in school as long as both want to explore together and are of age to consent legally depending on that countries/states/provinces laws where that individual is from, and in line with that individuals preference to do so.

    And if some choose to wait until they are der and more wrinlkly to start having sex in their 40s/50s to stsrt expriencing that (which I certainly would not understand why you would want to chose to wait - but that is the individuals right to chose I feel always) that is no problem too.

    Others like monks or priests may always abstain if they feel good just gave them hormones to test their faith - thats their choice.

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  • Not if they’re actually a real true Christian.



    “Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is good for a man not to touch a woman. But because of sexual immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband.”
    ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭7‬:‭1‬-‭2‬ ‭NASB2020‬‬
    The word touching there in the original Greek means sexual touching. This is not just limited to vaginal intercourse. It in Clyde’s sexual touching. In the following verse we see that because the desire for sex is so high, each person should have a spouse.


    Marriage is the only place that ANY sexual activity is condoned by God. All throughout the Bible any form of sexual activity outside marriage is prohibited.


    This brings us to people looking to play word games in order to find a loop hole.



    “By this we know that we have come to know Him, if we keep His commandments. The one who says, “I have come to know Him,” and does not keep His commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him;”
    ‭‭1 John‬ ‭2‬:‭3‬-‭4‬ ‭NASB2020‬‬
    Simply put, anyone who claims to be a Christian, that is a follow of Christ, generally does as their Lord commands. Not perfectly, but the generally pattern of life is one of obedience and getting more and more obedient as time goes on.


    This is one way we know who is a true follower of Christ. They, for the most part do what he said to do. Anyone who does not and thinks they are is a liar to everyone else, and self deceived.

    • *not Clyde’s but includes. Stupid auto correct. I don’t even know anyone named Clyde.

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  • I would agree that most girls view those things as a lesser form of sex. But in my experience it tends to be non religious girls who use them for various other reasons rather than keeping their cherry until marriage.

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  • Those who do, do wrapped PV as well.

  • Not any that I know would admit to it. I assume those wedding band like things they wear as in married In Christ Jesus means nothing at all.

    • My first girlfriend had a purity ring. She was still technically a virgin when we split up but believe me she whistled when she farted.

  • The standard definition of virgin is not having had penis in vagina sex. There are many women who will do the other things so they can claim that they are still a virgin.

  • In my experience they still like to give a great handjob which I always loved!

    • Used to date a girl in high-school who for a time would allow me to jerk off to her topless and that's as far as she would go

  • She wasn't exactly Christian, but this woman I frequented didn't want to do penetration because she was "saving" it for the man she wanted to marry. Note - she wasn't a virgin.

    So we did a lot of rub and "soap" how we called it, until one day it inevitably slipped in. No, she didn't marry me. I married another woman and she's still unmarried.

    • I've seen that tactic in the past. Withhold sex from a new guy they are dating even though they never did it in the past

  • let me just drop this tidbit here. the best place to get laid or play was in the church youth groups

  • All God's children luv buttsex. :)

  • My impression is that "wet intimacy" is, for many, within limits. by the way, PIA ends virginity even if a hymen is unaffected. Virginity ends with penetrative intercourse by a penis regardless of the orifice.

  • No they don’t do that

  • Some of them do do that (and I have heard stories; believe me). But they're not fooling anyone!!
    Dumbass little proto-sluts.

    • Oh, shit. Is THAT what "heavy petting" means? 😱

  • A lot of "Christian" girls rationalize all sorts of things.

  • People make it up as they go these days. They do yes

  • Yes, it's approved by the Papal Bull.

  • Just quit those dumb rules, its not like you get a prize after

  • Many lasses, including Xtians, can do anything. I ain’t sure how common, though, but wonder how much faith have the Xtian lasses.

  • that's the type of Christian girl that votes for Biden or Trump.

    true conservative girls save themselves for marriage AND do not participate in these sinful things, especially anal and bj

    • sure, asses are fun to look at, but it's the pussy that really needs to be crammed to reproduce

    • and that is why I am voting for Mike Lindell and Kanye West to preserve this country against degeneracy

  • A beautiful tight, round female ass is hard to resist