Do cuckolds actually love their girlfriends?

Like as a man, could you watch your girl get fucked by another man without feeling physically sick? Do you really value her as your partner if you could bear to watch her pleasure another man without getting jealous?

or can love still exist within these acts of degeneracy? Is it just a kink and nothing more?

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  • Been the other guy for 5 couples this year. No real one answer fits all.

    1st : They are mid30s, completely open relationship for the last 2 years. It was their 3rd time doing a cuck as previously they did it in private. They have a very normal family life other than their sexually open relationship. Always 1-offs though as the only part that’s open is each other having sex with others.

    2nd : She is 22, he is 63 and I’ve never met a more selfish egomaniac than this guy. She’s from Laos, told her he is punishing her by having a man with a big one do her for not listening to what he wants from her. He had very precise instructions as to what he wanted to see and made it clear I wasn’t doing her for her pleasure.

    3rd : She is 29, he 31, been together since she was 16 and 4 kids, youngest was only 4 months old. He been asking her to do it but he kept insisting and the marriage was on the rocks. He was a big time porn addict, doubtful he loved her, definitely didn’t respect her all that much and certainly it was doubtful he valued her as a wife. She wanted sex but she didn’t want it with me but did it in hope it would improve things at home.

    4th : Both wanted it due to curiosity, They been together for a long time and were interested in a 3some, she was interested in trying what it would be like with another man and she was kinda interested what it would be like with a man of a different race and has a big one. Both didn’t really love each other than much.

    5th : She didn’t want it but he did. He was big into cuckold porn and was influenced by the comment section of someone that did it on OF. This one definitely didn’t love her, respect her wishes and definitely didn’t appreciate what she was doing for him as he didn’t even stay to watch as he had originally wanted. She left him soon after.

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  • As a man, I couldn't watch my girlfriend or wife get fucked by another man. I'm too possessive of my girlfriends. That being said, I don't think there is anything particularly "degenerate" about it. Many men get sexual arousal watching their significant other with another man. But if it serves them both, and they love and care for one another in an ethically non-monogamous relationship, who am I to judge? I think quite a few of them deeply love their girlfriends. In fact, this type of open relationship usually fosters tighter emotional bonds for those that enjoy it. There is never any cheating in the traditional sense. It could be something as simple as kink and nothing more, but it is also a lifestyle for those who partake.

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  • Oh my God, yes! Allowing oneself to be subjected to such ignominious humiliation requires several key attributes --

    first and foremost, the cuck must have a very strong ego and be very sure of himself and his goals.

    Secondly, he has to accept, and even embrace the unquestioned status of his girlfriend's male lover as the man of the house at all times. This means that his primary responsibility is to serve them both in any capacity that should arise -- except as the guy who's enjoying sex with her.

    lets say that there are 100 pounds of happiness in the room, but instead of dividing it into three equal portions, the cuck agrees to give 45 pounds to his girlfriend, 45 pounds to her lover and receive only ten pounds for himself. There is nothing strange, unnatural, unhealthy or unsavory about wanting your girlfriend to be thoroughly satisfied at all times -- even if that means never being allowed to get your dick inside her.

  • no they don't actually love their girlfriends. they simp for their girlfriends. big difference

    they also lie to themselves that they love their girlfriends and that their girlfriends love them back to cope with their blue-pill mindset

  • I think cucks are mentally I'll, I would never be able to do it

    • Ill*

  • I think being a cuckold is some sort of fetish thing, so i am sure they don't feel bad about that. Maybe that is the only thing that turns them on. Maybe to some of them this is what other people call "love".

  • For some yes, for others not because some are not shure what they want and don't know how it will be in reality

  • It’s a great way for 2 people to show love. It’s a kink and a power play. How is it not love when you’re watching her receive pleasure that she can’t otherwise get?

  • every cuckold is or has been addicted to pornography

  • I'm a cuckold to my hotwife. She made it a condition of our marriage. I loved her so I agreed. I'm not allowed to watch, only listen from the door.

  • They are mentally ill and not mature enough to be in a relationship and of course can't love someone

  • I can it understand any guy wanting that and my guess is that those who post here that they enjoy being cuckolds are guys who don't actually have a girlfriend/SO, they're just fantasising (and what a weird fantasy that is !)

    • **I cannot understand**

  • They actually love and worship them even more.

  • I think cucks get that from watching porn. They are used to seeing other guys having sex for them.

    To answer the question I think they care about their fetish more than their girlfriends. Why are you dating a guy with that fetish?

    • It's not that we're more concerned with our fetish than her pleasure and satisfaction, it's that we must ensure that there is a safeguard, an insurance policy, if you will, against becoming lazy or listless, or ever taking her for granted. By not being allowed inside her, we'll never get tired of her, because you can't get tired of something you've never had. Obviously, hordes of people, both male and female, find it necessary to tee off on the folks who enjoy this lifestyle -- without ever having even the faintest idea of what it's about or how it works. But that's alright; we're used to ignorant people disparaging us simply because they don't understand the dynamic.

  • Cuckolds are beta males.