Do dry handjobs hurt?

Whenever I start hooking up with this guy I'm seeing he always moves my hand down to his penis while we're making out. Since he's put it there I always start jerking him off (he's usually hard by that time) but I'm always paranoid that the lack of lubricant would lead to too much friction and be more painful than anything. Should I stop worrying and just keep on trucking?
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  • Haha personally I just don't care for a girl to give me handy unless I know it is going to lead to something more, because I know how and when I like it while a girl is likely to not know.
    That being said if we're making out and she reaches down my pants, or over the pants and rubs it and more or less massages is I find it incredibly sexy.
    as for whether or not it hurts him, not likely since he keeps letting you. Girls tend to have softer hands and grip so lubricant typically isn't necessary. XP hope this helps a bit!

  • You should not give it another thought. The male penis is made by nature for it to be pleasurable even that way. The only problem is if he cums in his briefs then he's gonna have his balls & dick stuck to them by the time he gets back home :-D

    it's unlike a vagina that requires lubrication, so don't worry - he sure enjoys it :-)

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  • If you're doing it overly aggressively, then it will hurt. The friction of your hand rubbing against his head will not be an enjoyable feeling.

    If you go a regular pace and are only holding his shaft, then it'll feel good.

  • I've never had a dry handjob hurt. Maybe because I came in a reasonable amount of time. I guess if it went on for like a really long time it might start to be uncomfortable, but I've never had that happen.

  • comunication is key. ask him hiw it feels. ir if he would like sime lubrication. If he isn't complaining chances are it is ok.
    But yes dry hand jobs can hurt but not always. If he aunt conplaining you must have the magic touch.

  • Not at all because I still have my foreskin., but if you think it's dry just spit on it for him.

  • If his penis is uncircumcised handjobs don't hurt, For a circumcised penis should be used lube.

  • Well i not circumcized i wene i jack off i sometimes don't use lube so i say u good give him a dry hand job but licking your hand and jerk him off couldn't hurt.

    • Na licking ones hand does not work well, it dries up too quickly and then becomes slightly sticky so not really effective.

    • True but i. bet it feels better sex lube

  • no it doesn't. not at all

  • you should use some type of lube, if you don't have any.. when your jerking him off just grab his shaft and pull the skin over the head so your actually moving the skin with your hand so there would be no friction

  • For me they dont hurt but can be uncomfortable at times

  • LUBED IS BETTER. USE SPIT. KISS HIM, PULL YOUR HEAD AWAY BUT RETAIN SEXY EYE CONTACT, GET YOUR FINGERS REAL WET AND GET BACK TO THE RUB WHILE YOU RESUME MAKING OUT. REPEAT OFTEN - WETTER IS BETTER THAN DRYER. HE'LL LOVE YOU FOR IT,

  • only if you do it wrong