Do Feminists Really Encourage The Use Of Sex Toys Over Real Sex?

[anon1903]

sone feminists say women should participate in hookup culture more, whereas some encourage not pursuing a relationship.

but this one's brand new lol. i don't have sex toys, neither do i have a partner. if i did, a real human being would be my priority lmao. unless the real human being wants to put on vibrator, strap on, whatever. real sex, i imagine, will always be superior for obvious reasons.

[DEondeBeaumont]

I think you're too focused on politics. While I love women and think feminism has done great things, I just be myself and not worry so much about what everyone else is doing or politics on the internet.

Feminism did good things, but some women hate men and only use the title of feminism as a hate symbol—there is a crazy extremist in every movement that says stuff like that.

I just worry about my family, my friend, and the people I care about. Focus on yourself and being the best version of yourself; all your friends and loved ones will benefit from that.

Don't worry about stuff that's out of your control. You're a kind and loving feminist, and you believe in the true meaning of feminism which is to support women's rights.

[anon1903]

Thanks

[Theabcking]

You put polyamorous in your bio. I am curious about it. Like if let's say hypothetically, I was in a marriage with you. Would I be the one you love unconditionally?

Like, would your husband always come first, and the other guys are just for fun? Or is it all of us together?

I am just curious about that. I think It would be okay if you compartmentalize fun and love, but loving five different people in a romantic would be too stressful.

I don't know too much about ploy, so I just wanted to ask you about that.

[anon1903]

I don't believe in marriage

[anon1903]

For the sake of answering, let's say we're married. All partners would be important, but you'd be my primary one.

[anon1903]

As in, you as husband, are slightly more important

[Theabcking]

Oh, I understand. It's just I watched sister wives over the years and it looked good at the start of the marriage. Probably the one guy was happy he was getting sex, but now everyone in the show looks so miserable. He only wants to be with one of his wives now and leave everyone else. Your answer makes sense. I agree all partners are important, but I still think there should still be one that you prioritize, like the boyfriend. Like maybe you live with your boyfriend and then the other guys you're in a relationship with, but they are not your boyfriend. Your answer is good; I agree.

[anon1903]

The one you're referring to is polygamy. That's different. Very sexist.

[Theabcking]

Oh. I just thought polygamy was just male with more than one woman and polyamory was female with more than one man. I don't understand the subject too well. But I think more than one partner is the future. Invitro gametogenesis allows for four or more people to have the same biological child. I this is good because it's becoming too expensive for families to raise children with just two people. Four well-educated people raising one kid, I think, is better to help reduce over population. And it brings people together to reduce loneliness.

[Theabcking]

Also, I liked your profile picture of you. You looked really cute. Happy holidays.

[Theabcking]

Goodbye.

[anon1903]

Happy holidays to you too

[anon1903]

Polygamy is much different, hon.

[Irishgirl02]

It's kind of like peer pressure. You know where other teens encourage and put pressure on you to drink, do drugs and have sex not because in your intrest because they are and you are apart of it and they don't feel so bad.

[CA4444]

Well anyone can say anything really lol… but yeah sex toys can be good for obvious reasons

[ushagomez]

Well don’t most of us think of guys as their sex toy anyway….

[WildCard42]

Feminism is starting to sound like a cult.

I like being single, but it's my own choice.

[anon1903]

Irrelevant but okay

[WildCard42]

You asked if feminists encourage the use of sex toys as if they're the leaders who dictate the sex lives of their followers or something.

[anon1903]

I specifically used the word "encourage"

[anon1903]

Leaders don't encourage, they command.

[WildCard42]

You also said that some feminists say women SHOULD participate in hookup culture more. That sounds like a command to me. I believe in being an individual who thinks for himself.

[anon1903]

All right

[SnowedIn]

Interesting question. Some probably do but I doubt it's the majority.

[Miristheiss]

I have no idea but it wouldn't shock me.

I mean, that would be "depending on a man" to use only real sex so I'm sure taking care of it yourself would be their strong advice.

[DavidRaul]

Those aren't even real feminists

[Alchemizt]

Feminism is a modern plague.

[AdithyaR]

I've never actually seen anyone suggest that. The only time I've seen sex toys mentioned was to compliment regular sex or if the person is single.

[Nikki1989]

Nope. How many women use sex toys anyway? My guess is not many.

[anon1903]

I know right?

[Farmerboy2]

Disagree there lots of women use sex toys.

[Jennz6]

I’m a sex toy

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, if they do, that's their right. I don't see anything wrong with it.

[motownplayer2000]

Don’t really care what a feminist prefers.

[pizzalovershouse]

Wouldn't know sense I'm not a female

[Debbie14217]

yes they do

[Charliefretz329]

Id love to have sex without my penis!!!

[Farmerboy2]

Not sure the feminists I know just bitch and bitch about things