Do girls actually like sucking dick?

[Anonymous]

In your personal experience, have you known more women who actually enjoy sucking dick or more who have merely tolerated it (or not) for their man?

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I got a lot of it because I'm the ultimate oddball that doesn't like to receive it for long. As a brief foreplay for like 5-15 secs, no problem, but longer than that and I want to grab her and move on.

So I was surprised but a number of my exes actually seemed to want to continue when I didn't. That said, it is a bit ambiguous as to whether they wanted to do it for my sake despite my attempts to tell them I didn't want them to do it anymore or for theirs.

But navigating that ambiguity, I genuinely got the impression that some liked it.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I even had exes insisting on swallowing when I was like, "No, don't, let's change." I wanted to grab their bodies and skip to intercourse. I don't want to waste my load in their throat let alone on their face. I really, really, really like intercourse. I love to grab a woman's body and take control in the bedroom and BJs leave me just standing/sitting/lying there and I get frustrated after a while. But at least some of my exes when I wanted to do something else were like, "No, stop!" And they're practically gouging themselves on me and wanted to swallow the climax which I always thought was weird. And kiss me afterwards which I did it but I didn't really like the idea that much.

[Simslover92]

I wish more guys were like you. My boyfriend is sort of similar but I think he likes it a bit more than I would like.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@Simslover92 That's kind of a weirdo thing, admittedly, and it probably has a lot of cons which will put off a lot of women. So I want to say the, "Be careful what you wish for," thing here as a disclaimer. But I think my level of vanilla is considered some abstract thing and something that loves blowjobs and all sorts of other things is more divorced from the cavemen. Whereas I'm pretty sure I'm just a caveman. I got some abstract concepts like I want to make a woman as happy or more than I am but I think all this fancy stuff people do is not really rooted in the most primitive, and poetic, idea that two people are just connecting and communicating with each other even sexually. I'm also a vanilla dom according to some BDSM test someone asked us to take on here. A guy on here teased me about my test results. I'm not sure if it's because he didn't believe it or if he just found it so weird. == Results from bdsmtest. org == 97% Dominant 73% Vanilla 67% Daddy/Mommy 54% Voyeur 45% Owner 42% Experimentalist 37% Exhibitionist 35% Brat tamer 34% Master/Mistress 31% Primal (Hunter) 16% Ageplayer 1% Rigger 1% Brat 1% Non-monogamist 0% Rope bunny 0% Slave 0% Degradee 0% Boy/Girl 0% Primal (Prey) 0% Submissive 0% Masochist 0% Degrader 0% Pet 0% Sadist 0% Switch

[Simslover92]

That's actually great. I'm pretty vanilla myself and prefer just piv most of the time over doing oral.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@Simslover92 I'm starting to think I might be a prude of some sort despite frequenting nightclubs and having a relatively promiscuous past. Sex usually goes too fast for me. I like to slow it down. I want to get comfortable with the way a woman feels to my touch everywhere, how she smells. Looks aren't the problem. I already saw everything. But let's slow down everything else, you know? We have all night to do it. And we can take our time and really appreciate each other's bodies, including our mutual flaws. I like that and I don't like the rush. I want this to be beautiful and kind of with a ritual.

[Simslover92]

No you're definitely not a prude. That's what I would want too. Taking things slow and really admiring each other's bodies is definitely so sensual and romantic. I don't like the rush either.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@Simslover92 I've been studying creative writing lately and it might be similar with show, don't tell. Most sex and relationships in my experience before I met my wife has awkward pacing. It moves too fast when interesting things are happening (too much telling) and too slow when interesting things aren't happening. So the pacing is weird. And I've never been that happy with sex most of the time and I think it's because of this pacing, just like a really great story that you remember for the rest of our lives, the pacing is too off to fit. And I even like bumping heads and laughing together as we did as we try to kiss each other. I don't even just cease to mind that, I love that. That's a connection. This is what I always wanted starting from the time with a woman is that we can be completely naked, bump heads with each other trying to kiss each other, and laugh together and feel so connected. This is everything I dreamed of and more. But I figure I'm such a weirdo since I try to explain my idea of beautiful sex to my guy friends and they just tease me a lot.

[Papisongo]

If she doesn’t like to do it, it’s not fun. I’ve been with more woman than I care to admit, and the vast majority of them were very into it. Some were repulsed at the idea of me finishing in their mouths, some very much wanted me to do that. One of those women, (my second wife of 15 years) was repulsed at the idea, but once, while vacationing on a cruise ship, we were in a 69 and orgasmed at the same time. She was so caught up in her own pleasure that she swallowed my semen. That had never happened before, and it never did since.

[1millonlies]

Not all women. It feels good to lick and suck on one though. Especially when u feel the load down your throat lol

[mandyfire98]

Some women do, some just tolerate it. Every woman os different

[handsomelad70]

Think you opened a can of worms, boyo !!!

[mandyfire98]

Who did?

[handsomelad70]

With this topic.

[DrPepper12]

@mandyfire98 @simslover92 @1millonlies. I have to ask, how did you arrive at decision to swallow, not swallow, on face, on hands, on chest, etc. Does the choice change with each man or over time? Do men have firm expectations of what you should do?

[Simslover92]

I don't do any of that except on chest. He's done it on my chest once.

[mandyfire98]

I swallowed the very first time because I got no warning and I honestly thought you were just supposed to really. Been doing it ever since.

[1millonlies]

By sucking dick multiple times and trying different things. You end up figuring out what you like. Of course if the guy I’m with likes something specific I will help accommodate

[BoopBoopBeep]

Most of the women I know really enjoy it.

[AviatorTom]

Some women love fellatio, some despise it, and some just tolerate it. It depends on he individual woman... and the man.

[RavVid]

Some enjoy the control they get, others do it because it is expected.

[ProbablyClueless]

Oh yeah. Lots of women love sucking dick. They see it as a credit to their sexual skill.

[DrPepper12]

I've known women who LOVE sucking dick and they have mastered it from all the practice. I've never known a woman to be averse to BJs or even dislike it.

[BarryLiverstone]

They enjoy it

[Simslover92]

Not all girls do. Some do it to please their guy and pretend they like doing it.

[BarryLiverstone]

I agree with you. But he asked for my personal experience. I’m sure some guys only pretend to like giving oral as well

[whiskeyontherocks]

As long as I’m moaning and vocal about how I like it my girlfriend likes to give but if I’m not giving any positive feedback then she just does it as a means to an end.

[In_Trance]

Some do some don't

[RedInnocent69]

Please say yes. Please say yes. 🤞😂

[abc--123]

Some do some don't

[CubaPirate]

I certain some do but unfortunately I haven't met one yet

[Anonymous]

My wife when we were younger has had more cocks in her mouth than I have toes and fingers. And twice as many balls in her mouth.

She has easily drank gallons of cum. not just mine. But other guys before me.

She always loved sucking dick. She blew all my friends including me when we were teenagers. she had the reputation of being a good cocksucker. And she was very popular in school.

(gives great head. Always has and still does)

[Anonymous]

I enjoy sucking dick and I know my friends do as well.

[handsomelad70]

OK, I guess, though LOTS of ladies apparently love slobbing their lad.

[jjj101010]

U discuss it with friends?

[Opinion Owner]

@jjj101010 yes