Do girls EXPECT guys to try and upskirt?

An old episode of buffy I just watched (as I'm re-watching it, to get ready for her new show on paramount plus called "wolf pack"), had a line in it, where she says "weird, he didn't try and look under my skirt".

I get it, guys CAN be pervs. Whatever. But, why do girls EXPECT us to be.

by the way, the reason he didn't, was that he's gay

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  • Lol…

    If guys are busy with civilized life and hobbies and they’re respectable, they won’t do that.

    Guys who are more in tuned with their sexual side wouldn’t hesitate if some accident of the wind or something made the skirt go up and take a look, or try to look up her skirt if somehow she was above him.

    It could just be sexual reflex.

    Girls expect all guys will because at the end of the day sexually active men want sex,

    and those who balance their time and such, and are more advanced, wouldn’t be expected to do so.

    It’s just kinda how it is, don’t be upset if girls expect guys to look.

    I mean, you don’t want to? 😂

    I look at guys 🤷‍♀️

    Once upon a time sucks didn’t mean anything to me, and were foreign. When I got older and heard some guys don’t wear underwear or just that their shorts can be extra loose, it inspired me to want to look and see what was packin’ 😂

    Like in instances of riding the subway 🚇.

    It’s just staring, we move on, right? 😂😭👌

Most Helpful Girl

  • That’s funny. Based on what I have experienced in my life, guys do look, maybe not in the sexual way but they do take a quick glance. Not blaming on men doing that because I find it a normal and natural behavior. If a girl wearing short skirt in front of me getting a wind blow, I would look with no doubt.

    • Are you bi?

    • No. I just enjoy looking at beautiful view 👍🏻

Most Helpful Guys

  • Better to expect and it not happen than not expect when it does happen. It can happen quite often depending on the place and culture and whatnot. Tho I don't know if a TV may just want a "funny" line and force it in either.

    I've been thanked for not looking when a woman I knew had an episode, which seemed weird but, it wasn't the first time she'd had one with men in the house. I pantsed a girl in hs too and she was just mad because we were friends. Didn't expect it from a friend. I didn't plan on doing it again but she definitely took measures so nobody would be able to again. So yeah. Some women do expect it. Why shouldn't they?

  • That's funny, and may be partially cultural, like Japanese might be more obsessed with that kind of thing, not to mention that more girls in Japan wear skirts than in the West.

    I saw a girl I was working with go up a ladder, and she was wearing such tight shorts I felt like I needed to look away! Haaa!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Decent men don't do that. At least the ones you aren't in a relationship with.

  • Through my experience, MOST (obviously not all, settle down) guys will take a peek if the opportunity presents itself. Whether it be curiosity of what the individual girl's got going on or to get a arousing kick out of it, they look.

  • That’s a shitty episode moment. I don’t expect men or boys to objectify me or be perverted but I am prepared for it because it’s happened enough that I’m weary.

  • Decent men don't do that.

  • Sharon Stone made a career out of guys looking up her skirt. One pervert even had a camera.

  • Buffy was written by a dude, so go figure...

  • From age 12 or so we're aware of boys looking so we're very careful. Though one time I let a teacher see on purpose.

    • So then girls DO expect men to look, and sometimes even want them to. Isn't that a little uh, biased?

    • What is biased about it.

    • How isn't it