Do girls get short changed by giving BJs?

My girlfriend and I have a good sex life but the question came up... are girls needs being met when they give BJ's? It seems if the guys don't have control then aren't they done and she doesn't get her needs met? What's going on out there?
Do girls get short changed by giving BJs?
yes, her needs are not met
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no, her needs met just by giving
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no her needs met in other ways
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  • I think "shortchanged" is a very calculative word to use in the bedroom.

    First of all, true intimacy comes from respect and unselfishness. Both should know what their partner likes and then offer it freely and unconditionally.

    Next, issue like blow job is exactly what I hate to discuss. It usually put guys in a bad image. But if the guy really like his girl, licking her vagina is a pleasure, even rimming is heavenly.

    See that? Why "shortchanged"? No. If its a pleasure, then its a nice thing to do.

    Same for girls. Why worry about swallowing, anal, etc? If you don't like just tell him and it'll be ok. But if she tries, she may acquire the taste and like it. And I think if us guys can like the taste of vagina flow, girls can like semen.

    Hence, no. No "shortchanged". Only attitudes for sex need to be changed.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Whatever.
    Some girls really enjoy sucking dick. So if that's the case, they do get their needs met even if they don't orgasm.
    Women enjoy PIV sex a lot, even if they don't always orgasm. Does that mean that they are being deprived?
    Do two people have to have their needs met at the same time? Can a guy eat his partner to orgasm without expecting her to reciprocate right at that moment?
    I'd say that there are no rules. No score cards. Figure out what you have to do to make your partner happy. Communicate.

Most Helpful Girls

  • A lot of us love having the favour returned. I’m sure the feeling a guy gets when his penis is being stimulated by a woman in that way would be the exact same feeling and pleasures that a woman would feel by a man sucking and licking etc A woman’s downstairs area it is definitely one way probably 80% of the time or pretty close to it

    • @melindag so is it best that she cums first?

    • @melindag I would love to give you blow job

  • Well we can always hold the bj hostage to a guy satisfying us first...

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Depends as part of foreplay or to orgasm?
    My wife will often suck me off if she doesn't want sex.

  • I think they only get met if you lick them back.. 🤣

  • If you give the girl what she wants back then no she's not being short changed

  • It’s usually just to please the guy, but some women get really turned on by it