Think of sex like ballroom dance. Because sex IS a dance, with all the attendant art, and emotion, and passion. It's art.
In dance, the man is the "leader", and the woman is the "follower" -- but those are only titles. The reality is that a good dance team is a TEAM, made of two people who can read each other very well, and who can communicate in both directions without reservation.
Similarly, sexual domination/submission is a matter of two-way communication. It is absolutely NOT a matter of one person taking and the other giving, as much as ignorant haters might like to claim that it is so.
My man is sexually dominant, to the core, and I am utterly sexually submissive. My sexual submission runs so deep that, before I met my husband, I used to regularly put myself at significant personal risk to try to satisfy it. Submission is an active NEED. It's not self-effacing "giving in" to the needs of a more selfish partner.
And, dominance is NOT selfishness.
Just as a good male dance "lead" must constantly read his dance partner, a good sexual dominant needs TONS of empathy.
In fact, a dominant needs much MORE empathy than anyone else, sexually. Because a dominant will push his (or her) partner through boundaries, and reservations, and taboos, and all that. Through lots of stuff that society says is "wrong", and stuff that mothers and sisters and friends wag their fingers against, and stuff that might make the submissive person feel especially vulnerable.
A dominant needs to know how to make it hurt, in all the good ways -- and none of the bad ones.
A dominant needs to know how to leave marks, but not scars.
A dominant needs to push, without being pushy.
A dominant needs to EARN submission from a partner. Submission is not simply given. Nor should it be.
Very very well explained it was elaborate.
Thanks. The other thing, here, is that people need to look past the literal physical acts that are happening, and look at who is actually exercising control. E. g., let's say that a girl is TELLING her boyfriend to put her over his knee and spank her. And she's also DICTATING exactly what the limits are. And he does it, but he's just adhering to those limits, and not doing anything to try to push, manipulate or expand her boundaries. Well... okay, then. LOL In that situation, we have a guy putting a girl over his knee and spanking her. And we have a clear dominant, and a clear submissive. And the guy is NOT the dominant. Not at all. You see what I mean. Lots of people put WAY too much emphasis on the physical acts themselves. Those are really just like the lines in a theatre performance -- they're acting. The physical acts are not inherently imbued with domination or submission.
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Um.
It depends on the woman and the situation. People have all sorts of fantasies, some that they like to do for real and others that they prefer to remain a fantasy.
Variation is the key to most successful sexual encounters to keep it new and exciting. Most men and women prefer to have sex that they both enjoy though and women tend to get turned off if it isn't to their liking.
Personally I like some domination at times and other times I like to dominate, be the aggressor.
Yeah.
What is aggressive and dominating sex?
I honestly do.. I love it when they pull my hair.. I'm not into the choking thing though.. There is a limit but I love it when a man takes control.. When he picks me up, tosses me.. Puts me in the position he wants.
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Think it's highly dependent on the girl but I found, counter-intuitively, that some of the nicest and most reserved women I've dated seem to like it if you start being aggressive from time to time.
What I would describe as "dominated" is probably a more timid version of it, as I'm not into S&M kind of stuff. I simply mean taking on a very dominant position in the bedroom, like being rather selfish rather than trying to be all intimate and attentive to her needs.
That might mean, say, picking her up and putting her up against a wall and very aggressively having sex, it might mean taking her from behind and just riding her really hard, things of this sort.
My natural style is more gentle and kind of trying to be very attentive to her needs, intimate and holding hands, etc. But sometimes, for some girls, they seem to appreciate it if you switch it up and just kind of unleash the primal beast inside you.
a lot of them do. Some dont. Can put people in boxes
can't u mean
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Yes, for me anyways. Domination could be a lot of different meanings for different girls. Me, hair pulling, being controlled, spanked is my definition. Good luck
Most of the girls, do. But most of them do not appreciate the extreme from of domination in sex. And it really depends on the mood, the vibe the guy gives you, what you like etc
oh definitely. id also like to have my way with him too though.
What's your and what's his way of domination?
Well it depends what u mean by dominated. We aren't talking fifty shades dominated but guy takes the lead. Then yes most do
Woman on top? Do woman like it?
Not the point u both enjoy and the guy leads
No I prefer being dominant.
Cool and naughty. What do you do to dominate him?
Depends on a girl. Most do like it, myself included.
But what exactly is meant by dominating in sex?/I have least idra
Sure they do at least quite a few do, of course they also like to dominate as well, it's good to switch these kinds of things up.
As for what domination is, domination is exactly that exerting dominance over another human being. It varies from person to person, situation to situation.
A couple would be holding a girl down on a bed while you have your way with her or holding her against a wall in the same manner, handcuffs, blindfolding, are simple acts of dominance.
But just remember to make sure both you and your partner will get pleasure from it, and make sure to do it in a way that appeases to their fantasies or what turns them on.
Most do ya, good to mix it up too ofc
In my (very limited) experience, yes.
Yeah, bitches love it.
Choke her, bite her, scratch her, slap her, chuck her about like a doll, basically mistreat the shit out of her.
Careful to make sure she enjoys it though. No sense in being an asshole, sl00ts gotta cum too.
I LOVE it! When I'm with a guy I love it when he takes control. For example like pinning my hands down, pulling my hair, spanking me. But I also like being in charge And taking control.
Does that include anal?
Most likely you got about 70% of girls liking some degree of male dominance in bed. Whether that is just him taking a strong initiative or him forcefully doing anything he wants is a different thing.
I like it if it's combined with some humiliation and pain.
Wth, who likes pain :o
Some people do, it's called masochism.
I love it 😊
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