Why do we have 69 positions for :) To do both right..69 doesn't only mean giving a woman oral while she's giving you oral but it's to also easy penetrate her with your fingers or a dildo. So she can enjoy both, giving a BJ and receiving oral + penetration. Same applies for men who actually like anal play on themselves.
I miss 69 :( You're right!
I don't! I have such a good time giving a BJ that I want to focus on his pleasure and getting him to come. I wouldn't be annoyed if he did but giving the BJ is enough pleasure for me that he doesn't need to help me out at all!
Of course, of course. You're in it to win it!
Always! The best part is getting to watch him shoot his load on me! I could literally orgasm from that alone, so there's really no point in him helping me along!
Really? Like you feel empowered from being able to make him do that? Anywhere?
I like :) it is distracting but if he's fingering me at the same time I suck him I get more intense so he ends up with a better O
My gosh that does sound amazing. Feeling her get wet while I'm in her mouth almost makes me go over the edge in itself!
Mmm yep that causes his quick unraveling every time
Kablam!
I do find that girls get distracted during 69, but that can be part of the fun - trying to keep going, feeding off each other's pleasure. For this reason I prefer 69 over simply fingering her.
Of course, of course. A woman has to be strung delicately, like a laundry line over the ocean in Kauai.
Oooh, that's deep. Like the ocean in Kauai.
I think that would take away from the single event (the blowjob). That's the biggest problem with 69 position.
I suppose we all have preferences. Multi taskers demand it!
Oh I'm sure that's a well used play in the muti tasker's play book XD.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Some do, some don't. Some girls find things like that to be too distracting.
Some girls become lawyers, others become authors. The world is crazy.
Indeed.
Wouldn't bother me.
It's basically the same as 69.
This is true. But is the hand softer than the tongue? Most likely not.
Obviously not, I've been both fingered and licked so I know the difference. It wouldn't distract me, but if I start to be climaxing, I'm more inclined to suck faster to send the message that I want him to go faster/harder.
You're good at both verbal and physical communication. Well done! WE'LL PARADE IN THE STREETS AND DANCE WITH BEETS!
Well, it would prob be a little distracting.. but as long as it wasn't too distracting for *him* :oP
Of course, of course. Mutual tastes for mutual mates.
No, I prefer to focus on his pleasure when I give a blowjob. Like I expect him to focus on mine when he eats me out.
Not even just a little tickle?
It's okay, but it's not necessary. And if it gets too much, it's just distraction.
Distractions lead to accidents, and accidents lead to destruction. Just a bad road. CHOMP!
No, I am giving him head because I want it to be all about him. He can work on me when I'm done doing what I do best.
Of course, of course. Tit for tat and a drawing for that!
Yep, sounds hot, I'd probably finish him faster though because I'd want to cum too =P
It's pretty damn arousing, that's for sure.
how can you make him finish faster? you can't rush it can you?
I don't mind it
But do you request it with a glass of wine?
I honestly love getting fingered, especially when Im pleasuring him because when I pleasure him I get so horny & I just love the feeling of receiving and giving at the same time.
That's the spirit! Afterward, everyone gets pasta!
I wouldn't be able to do something like that. Whenever I'm being fingered or just being touched and rubbed down there I bite down on my teeth really hard. I would bite down on his dick...
Bite down on your teeth really hard because you enjoy it?
Yeah. I bite down because sometimes I moan out or whatever..,
Well then... don't bit anything off you'll regret!
I love it, makes me really horny and I just get pretty wild with my blow job ;) and I can focus just fine on giving damn good head while being fingered ;)
I'm sure you are making somebody very happy then. Onward, toward the sea!
Not a fan. I'd rather just do the deed and then get on with the evening.
Of course, of course. Can't be late for dinner!
It's not comfortable for me to have that happen while I'm giving a BJ. Not a comfortable position.
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