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  • Not all. But if you want a partner-in-life material kind of woman, they would want emotional connection. Well, if you can't give emotional connection what sets you apart from the other boys?

    Boys can go from woman to woman chasing after beauty and body. But without that certain trait they are looking for, they wouldn't stay. There are women who does that as well. These type of women doesn't require emotional connection. They would play you like boys play girls.

    If you are only after sex, go for them. I hope you don't CONTRACT STD.

    • I don't know. I'm a virgin. You tell me how anal intercourse feels like for you.

  • Yes! Why is that so hard for guys to believe? Some of us need more than just physical pleasure to be happy or want to sleep with a guy. If that was the case, everyone would have one night stands, fbuddies, or fwbs.

    I am sorry but I cannot sleep with a guy just because he's "hot" or wants me. I need some type of connection with him- not just emotional, but to feel comfortable, safe, and know he wants me for more than just sex. Otherwise, there's no attraction there and I don't feel comfortable sleeping with him.

    • MHO right here!

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  • That depends entirely on each girl. Some girls are ready to have sex without having an emotional connection. Others aren't. But in more cases than not, sex does develop some emotional attachment for women even if they want to avoid it, which is why you see that a lot of girls that have initially agreed to having a friends with benefits relationship, end up developing feelings for the guy they sleep with.

    • I think the girls in here posting about liking their friends with benefits liked their friends with benefits BEFIRE they began having sex and were hoping it’d turn into more. Same without guys hit they don’t post as much. I really think having sex with someone you don’t like to begin with, doesn’t change your feelings towards them.

    • I've also frequently see some girls having a hookup with some guy and then developing feelings for him hoping he would contact them again or asking if he is interested in them. I am not the best person to talk about this but I think it largely depends on each girl, however it is more often that girls mix between both, and end up being attached, than it is for guys. Not saying that it happens to all girls but to a fair number for sure.

  • No. BUT sex is way better when you actually care about the person.

  • I don't want sex at all, but if I did, absolutely. I could not imagine being intimate with someone I had no emotional connection to. I also cannot develop an attraction without an emotional connection.

  • I personally do. I consider myself as a demisexual person: somebody whom only experience sexual attraction to folks they have close emotional connections with. But, in general, every woman is different: some are like me, some aren't, and both are fine

  • Nope. They don't even need attraction. Sometimes loneliness or desperation drives sexual encounters. Really great sex though... that is emotional and heated attraction.

    • It can be painful & uncomfortable for me. If a lover is a good one they are slow & gentle. I have scar tissue from abuse & surgeries so I am a bad example for this. Sex is very difficult for me.

  • Depends on the girl in question.. many just like sex. Don’t want a connection or don’t care either way.

    i don’t need it I am perfectly capable of performing the physiological act with out connection yet I have zero interest in doing such a thing

    meny guys feel precisely the same.

  • Depends on the girl, I know I do but I know people who dont

    • It feels good... what exactly do you want me to say?

  • Not all do.

    Hence why sluts and whores exist.

    • 👌👌👌

  • No tf we don’t because I sure damn don’t 😶

  • Some do, some don’t.

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