Buddy. You are one in a million. Please do not listen to these other people and save yourself! Stay away from porn and other crap! There are definitely women like us who prefer guys in general do not do that. So yes there are girls and women like us. We are but few, but if you stick to your values you'll eventually find somebody who desires to be with you. Don't date those other chicks cuz any be hopping from women to women and be having so many ex-girlfriends and partners all because you have premarital sex before marriage and done all those things then you want to know why you you're miserable. Because only people who are truly miserable do all that stuff man. You have the right idea. And you heard correctly. You'll survive. If you don't masturbate, you stay away from that kind of stuff, you don't what's after a woman, you will be fine when you have discipline and self-control. Your relationships with women will increase, the emotional attachment will increase, and when you are married and you desire to be intimate with your spouse, then you will know how to truly connect with your wife. But the moment you dabble with that, it is an infiltration to your mind and that can impact how you choose to love another person. Which isn't love in the first place when you doing that. Look at people's lives and evaluate them. Do they look happy because they made those choices? If they're so happy and how come they're not stable? That's one thing I had to learn when dealing with those challenges and even that in my own parents marriage. I learned the hard way it can definitely affect your life and your marriage. Which is why I didn't dabble. But end up being exposed to things in other ways. Now as I've gotten older, I understand a lot more there are just things I do not have to tolerate just because I'm an adult. If I encounter something that is sexually inappropriate I simply turned off. I asked God for forgiveness and I don't do it again. And make every effort not to. At least in that area I can say.
Good for you, but personally porn is harmless if you don’t implement it in your life to the point where it is affecting your capability to provide sex in your relationship. You need to be able to separate something that is marketed toward satisfying fantasies vs realistic sex that provides satisfaction to both parties. A man not watching porn wouldn’t make me more attracted to him , it doesn’t signify any loyalty in my opinion
Ah I see, I was under the impression that porn would make it harder for guys to get aroused. They’ll have higher expectations, they’ll need to constantly try different things to get aroused, and you see guys having to scroll to the bottom of several porn videos to get hard, most of these videos give you a false perception of sex and may make you treat women incorrectly/unrealistically. Basically too high standards that ruin sexual relationships. Thanks for response tho.
People in successful relationships watch porn all the time, and most likely still have amazing sex. You are right to a certain extent but that goes for the guys that can’t understand porn is a tool for fantasies. It’s not a tool to substitute out the real deal. Any man that can’t separate the two has an unhealthy relationship with porn
they will except you to know how to have sex but porn is not the right thing to watch for knowledge porn sells fantasies. read my take on my page if you want pointers and don’t worry too much about it it’s not that serious and women would love to take your virginity if you’re upfront about it and won’t judge to harshly. don’t put so much pressure on yourself and just enjoy the feeling
Should I read something like the karma sutra or books/websites on it? I want to experience sex the natural way since watching porn makes your brain form sexual connections to what you’re arousing to.
No not that but more like reading my take on my page or looking up “how to eat pussy” with the older women who has on rubber gloves lol porn I know but it’s for education. Really just read my take I’ll invite you to it it should help and let go of some of that pressure.
I can’t invite you so just go to my profile in my “my takes” I speak on pleasing and understanding women’s bodies
It's pretty natural boy... No one is going to teach you that how sex is done. It's like an self education , see people always had curiosity of learning about sex , so somehow everyone wether it's a girl or a boy... they know about sex.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Mainstream porn is problematic, yes. Consider watching real couples have sex to get an idea. Or go to the library and get an educational book.
By “real couples” I meant real couples porn. I realize this may have sounded like in person when I read it. Whoops!
No I like sharing porn so this type of guy wouldn't interest me.
You are probably the only guy on this planet who hasn't seen any porn...
Excessive open watching can cause that. But occasionally watching it won't. It only causes problems if 1) You always masturbate to it 2) You favor it over sex 3) You think all girls are like the ones in porn.
It don't exist lol, and there is no problem for me
I don't think such guys exist.
I haven’t watched any form of sexual intercourse between man and woman before, i never really like hardcore porn or close ups. I still am physically attracted to women of course.
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