Do girls secretly want a big penis?

even though they say size doesn't matter? and its how you use it - really its not rocket science its just in and out- most simple basic thing ever. also it doesn't matter if the love the guy-- what happens if its just business and they dont love him- then it matters?
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  • Most probably want something in the 6.5-7.5 range which is statistically above average.

    I wouldn't put much value in the girls who say it doesn't matter. They either aren't experienced or they are just full of shit. The same girls who say it doesn't matter are often the first to accuse a guy of having a small dick in an attempt to insult him/damage his ego.

    Just pay attention to the comments you see on gag. Girls will accuse guys who piss them off of having small dicks or being virgins even when what they were talking about had nothing to do with dick size or sexual experience.

    You never see a girl try to insult a guy by accusing him of having a big dig or insinuating that he has had lots of sex. Big dick =good, small =bad
    Being a virgin=bad, being experienced =good.

    Thats the perception that most people operate under.

    • Dude, in the cases where "size matters" from an actual physiological standpoint -- like, in terms of giving the girl orgasms -- length is basically irrelevant, and girth is pretty much the operative variable. It's really funny how guys ALWAYS talk only in terms of length. Df? Not only is that the variable that's *physiologically* irrelevant (if it has an effect on the size-queen set, that effect is pretty much purely psychological)... but, I'd imagine it's harder to quantify, too. (where is the zero point? how does one account for curvature? do boys forcefully smash measuring tapes into their pubes to add an extra 0.5" to the measurement? ... lol) Versus girth, you could just wrap a tape around the damn thing and, boom, there's yr measurement. You seem to think these things through more than others... mb you could shed some light on why boys are so singularly focused on length, because I'm genuinely perplexed by that. The truth of the matter when it comes to length is, basically,

    • • Too long is worse. • Too short is worse. And when I say "too long" and "too short", I'm definitely talking about the tails of the bell curve... at most 1 percent of guys, probably much less. Srsly, length is almost certainly a non-issue, unless you are truly freakishly long or short. In terms of trying to have a sexual relationship with someone, too long is probably even worse. Being poked in the fornices and/or cervix basically just hurts, in all the bad ways and very few of the good ones... and you know how I am with pain, so, that ought to mean something coming from me. Also... Being able to orgasm and/or reach peak pleasure simultaneously is a very, very good thing. If a dude is so long that MY peak pleasure happens when he's only 3/4 of the way in, and HIS peak pleasure feels like I'm getting prenatal tests done -- not to mention the inability of his body to stimulate the clit while he's in there -- dude, that's not good. Not good at all. Whether girth matters is mostly going

    • to be a function of the woman's clitoral anatomy. I wrote about that in weirdly much detail here:
      www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2133783-girls-can-only-orgasm-from-penetration-if-the-guy-has-an-above

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  • Length wise I'm fairly certain most are happy with average to above average length since that fits perfectly in most of them.

    I'd imagine wider girth since that is what really gives em more pleasure penetration wise. Length is not as important since if your to long you'll hit their cervix and causes them pain.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Absolutely I would love to sleep with a guy w a big penis! But honestly size (with in reason) doesn't matter as much as how he works it.. guys need to listen to woman, when a woman says "right there" guys need to do it "right there" and not switch it up!!

  • I wish I had an enormous one in order to fuck the big black holes.
    What the heck are you asking? -_-

    • the penis on the guy your having sex with - yea i wish i had put the question differently--its kinda funny though

  • I think we all want a penis... but only to play with
    no matter how big, so long as it's ALL OURS

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  • Well for me its not exactly a secret... but if I had a choice bigger is my preference.

    • how big do you like?

  • Girth matters more than extreme length.
    Id rather be stretched rather than poked up to my tonsils

    • Yes, girls love being stretched!! And we love feeling tightness!

    • @jurgenmeister love to be stretched... wider the better

  • It's no secret.

  • Yes we all want a 10 inch penis. I think that is what every guy thinks.

  • I would prefer not to, thank you.

  • Not the size but the action

    • And I won't care if the love of my life have a small penis, he just can't do a thing about it and I'll love him the way he is. TBH I don't prefer big penises , average is perfect.

  • Yes...

  • Probably, but it doesn't affect me

  • Nope, I'm happy with my vagina.

    • misunderstood :) yo will not have, you will get inside to your vagen

  • No I don't want to have a penis. I love being a girl.

    • Lmao, you make a good one :-)

    • @TonyRyanAgain Lol yeah I know I'm good at being a female. If I was a guy I'd be a drag queen.

  • hopefully they don't :)

  • If women cared so much about dick size wouldn't we all have big dicks due to natural selection?

  • i think they do but they try to be politically correct by saying they dont care

  • For me, it not the length so much as the girth that can make or break the sexual experience as a general rule. There are exceptions to the rule though that have proven size of any sort has nothing to do with quality of the sex.

  • I don't. My cervix doesn't play well with others.

    Any guy who thinks sex is just pounding in and out is gonna be a lame lay, though.

  • Yes, all of these feminists nowadays want to be futanaris, with massive 12 inch dicks of their very own to fuck everyone with.

  • I have a big one. Studies show that women want a bigger size for one night stands and smaller for relationships. Try to work that one out.

  • "Do girls secretly want a big penis" No they don't, their perfectly content having a vagina.

    • tbh that's actually how I read the question at first, too... like... "penis envy?" lol!

  • Since when was that a secret?

  • As long as your penis doesn't fall out every other stroke and you don't go limp after two minutes, most women won't care about the size of your penis.

    • Haha exactly!

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