Do girls with "bad pussy" get used and discarded all the time?

I'm in my 20s and have only had one serious relationship in my entire life. It lasted 7 years. But the people after that have basically just used me for sex a few times then either ghosted me or lost interest and made up an excuse to quit talking to me. None of them ever asked me on a date or even took me out in public. Like, is my pussy so bad that it's ruining any potential relationships? I've been told I'm pretty and a sweet person. I've also been told that I'm easy to talk to and funny, etc. But as soon as I sleep with someone, they fuck me once or twice a week for a month or two then discard me? Is my pussy bad, am I ugly, etc? What is so off-putting about me? I don't start drama or ask for a relationship too soon and I don't immediately get clingy afterwards. What is causing me to be used so much? I thought it was a coincidence so I even changed my behavior and this still happens. Give me a harsh answer, I wanna know that my pussy is the problem so I can quit worrying about it constantly. At least then ill have an answer. Because these stupid pieces of shit that I've had obviously aren't gonna tell me what's wrong. I feel gross and bad about myself. Do girls with bad pussy just get treated this way by guys? And before you say that I'm going after "good looking fuckboys", the last guy I had was not that good looking and not even my type and he still ghosted me. He had liked me for years. He fucked me the whole summer and then a couple weeks ago just stopped talking to me out of the blue. I didn't even get an explanation...

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  • Okay first of all you need to stop

    I understand that it's something that runs through your head but stop beating yourself up over it

    It doesn't have anything to do with your p****
    I believe it has something to do with the caliber of guy that you're getting
    Where you meet them how you meet them and within 5 minutes you should be able to tell exactly who they are if you paying attention but it has nothing to do with your p**** you sound like you're a sweet girl with a good heart

    And nowadays I would say it's probably 92% of men are going to use you if that opportunity is there because that's just who they are their pieces of crap and they only think of themselves and instead of asking this question I would think that you would be saying why do these guys I date bad in bed LOL because I guarantee you each and every single guy that you have dated is bad in bed because they are selfish it's already premeditated what they're going to do so they are selfish so think about it that way too

    I bet you if you stop and think about it they are all have been the same caliber type of guy they all talk the same way their game is just a little bit different
    I would say that you're fine there's nothing wrong with you it's just the guys that you're attracting

    • It's not a coincidence at this point tho... I mean, if one or two guys did this to me, i would see it as a coincidence. But every single guy after my long relationship doing this to me? I don't think that's a coincidence, I really think it has to do with the sex... they all REALLY like me before sex and then after they change. I know girls who get into serious relationships with their friends with benefits. I know girls that have gotten asked out after a one night stand. It literally HAS to be me at this point...

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  • “Bad pussy”? I think you are being way too hard on yourself. You said it yourself, you have a sweet and good personality. I think you should give yourself credit. I think the blame should go squarely where it belongs, which is that many guys nowadays are very selfish and wouldn’t know good if it was staring them in the face.

    There are still good men out there who are actually mature and will respect and cherish you the way you deserve. Don’t settle, set your standards higher and expect such standards to be met before you give yourself to a man. Trust me, you are not the problem. There is no such thing as “bad pussy.“

    • It's not a coincidence at this point tho... I mean, if one or two guys did this to me, i would see it as a coincidence. But every single guy after my long relationship doing this to me? I don't think that's a coincidence, I really think it has to do with the sex... they all REALLY like me before sex and then after they change. I know girls who get into serious relationships with their friends with benefits. I know girls that have gotten asked out after a one night stand. It literally HAS to be me at this point...

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  • It’s not your anatomy. It’s the guys you’re finding. A lot of guys aren’t looking for relationships in their 20’s. They’re looking for sex. It sounds like they’re using you for sex for a while and then bailing out before you start expecting a relationship. Guys will string you along and then ghost you. It sucks but it happens a lot. How soon are you jumping into bed with these guys? I’d put the brakes on sex until you get to know them better. The users won’t stick around long and if a guy keeps pursuing you, then he’s more likely to be serious.

    • It's not a coincidence at this point tho... I mean, if one or two guys did this to me, i would see it as a coincidence. But every single guy after my long relationship doing this to me? I don't think that's a coincidence, I really think it has to do with the sex... they all REALLY like me before sex and then after they change. I know girls who get into serious relationships with their friends with benefits. I know girls that have gotten asked out after a one night stand. It literally HAS to be me at this point...

  • There’s no such thing as “bad pussy.” Your pussy is not the problem. The only problem I see is maybe you’re giving it away too easily and the guys you are sleeping with see you as easy and just a toy to play with until they lose interest or find another “toy” to play with.

    • Do guys lose interest in girls with good pussy too? Because I know several girls that had a one night stand with a guy and they ended up dating.

    • First off, all pussy is good pussy. Sweetie, you really need to get the idea that you have a bad pussy out of your head. What makes you think your pussy is bad vs one that is good? It really depends on the guy if he wants to continue seeing her and pursue a relationship with her. If they ended up dating, doesn’t that disqualify it from being a one night stand?

    • They all really like me before sex tho. And then afterwards they just change and seem less interested until I dont hear from them anymore. And yeah, it disqualifies it from being a one night stand, but I'm sure that the sex was good or else he would have ghosted her like guys do to me after sex. :(

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  • So, I do not believe in bad pussy. But bad sex is bad sex and use its a turn off.

    • So I may be giving them bad sex then?

    • Not as good as other girls?

    • No idea I can not say honestly.

  • We have known way of knowing whether you have "bad pussy" or whether you are ugly, because we've never seen you. All that I know is that it seems to jump in the bed with a guy pretty quickly and guys don't hang around.

    Where do you meet guys? What are your criteria for spending time with a guy?

    Why are you so eager to fuck every guy that enters your life? That obviously isn't working for you.

  • There's no such thing as bad pussy -- because if she's confident enough, she'll have guys falling at her feet one after another.

  • Your might just giving it to them to easily so they lose interest communication is key here find out what they are after before giving them anything.

  • Once you give a man pussy he has nothing to chase after anymore so he won't stick around

    • There's girls who get into relationships after one night stands tho? Lmao so those girls must be good in bed then?

    • She's exactly right

  • Do yourself a favour; stop saying or thinking about whatever the fuck 'bad pussy' is supposed to be and cut out any human who uses the term from your life.

    Problem solved.

  • No, "bad pussy" doesn't have anything to do with it. Sometimes people just suck

    • How is it a coincidence that I keep getting guys who "suck" tho? Yeah maybe once or twice it might be a coincidence, but after that shouldn't I start to look at what may be wrong with me?

    • I don't know what your vibe is like. Maybe something about how you present yourself is turning off more wholesome men. I once went on a date with a lady I met online, who I thought was super cool, but then we met in person and I totally understood why she was single and had a history of only dating sucky men. This woman had that "nerd turned hot girl" aesthetic going on, but she was this unbelievably rude and self absorbed person. Her opening round was rolling her eyes when our waiter walked up to the table. To be clear, I'm NOT saying that I think you're that kind of person. My only point is that you might be carrying yourself in a way that turns more desirable men off.

    • No im definitely not like that. I'm kind to people, especially people in the serving industry because I know what it's like. But I never even get taken on dates... so. I guess my pussy isn't even worth the fuckin dollar menu at McDonald's either.

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  • I don't know. I've never had bad pussy, nor do I just fuck `em and avoid them. Two of my guitarists did quite often!!

  • Can you describe your pussy? I can give a more objective answer then.

  • To me, bad pussy is pussy that stinks.

  • It's definitely not a "bad pussy". Reasons behind being ghosted could be many. But from what you've described it's not a "bad pussy".

  • Your pussy has nothing to do with it. You are meeting guys who don’t want a relationship.

  • You really want me to tell you like it is? There's probably nothing wrong with you or your pussy, besides the fact you fucked these guys before they even took you out on a date. You don't know how to pick a good guy and you don't value yourself. Try not fucking a guy until after the third date. People will value and respect you more if you value and respect yourself.

  • Well, I don't think your pussy is the problem, and you've been described as "pretty and a sweet person" and "easy to talk to and funny etc". In fact, you sound like quite the catch. So, I'd say its the guys you've been dating and having sex with, they're not committed to a relationship.

    You need to find someone who wants a relationship, and doesn't mind taking it slow. Not someone who sees you as good for a shag or two.

    Simples...

  • Dm me I have some questions

  • The problem is almost certainly your personality, not something physical.

    • But how? I literally don't double or triple text, I don't start stalking them, I don't start fights or anything. I was never anything but nice to these guys... like how is it my personality?

  • Please, describe what you mean by bad pussy.

    • Loose, dry, ugly, not pleasurable, etc?

    • Not as good as other girls?

    • I have not, in my life seen an ugly pussy. Dry is caused either by disease (lube is a thing) or the lack of arousement (charisma is a thing). So your next task is to describe an ugly pussy, and what not pleasurable means.

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  • It's not your pussy that's flawed, it's your attitude! You're picking LOSERS!

  • I don’t think it’s your pussy it’s the type of guy you’re getting that’s the issue

  • Make them date you for a while before giving them some pussy. It will weed out the ones that only want sex. They won't wait very long for it before moving on.

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