Do guy like girls who embrace looking llike a mess?

Cuz im tired of trying to look picture perfect like I dont have pimples and like i dont eat junk and stuff. I wanna embrace it.
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  • I voted "yeah", but not like an absolute hot mess with dirt and mustard stains on her shirt, or something. lol But it can be attractive and even downright sexy if a girl feels like she doesn't have to be this "perfect" thing at every waking moment of her life. Like, if all she wants to do is not dress up and wear makeup, and wear PJs or sweatpants around the house all day then that's all good in my opinion. 👍

    I generally much prefer girls who are casual and who don't feel the need to always live up to some stupid perceived social/cultural standard, and to just be whatever she chooses. In fact, a girl who is comfortable and confident enough with herself to give the finger to societal expectations can be attractive as hell in my opinion. But I've always marched to the beat of my own drum and never given a flying f*** about what people think, so it kind of goes along with my vibe anyway.

    I like both looks, but if she wants to rock a casual or "don't give a s***" vibe, I'm all in.

    • I meant to say: 'and not wear makeup'.

    • Cool, cause makeup sucks. I like the casual look on men too. I dont like when they dress up for no reason

    • @Jx7eurbr Same. I HATE dressing up. lol The worst is when people do it as some kind of "status" thing. 🤮 It's off-putting to me. I'm just a T-shirt/shorts/hoodie/jeans kind of guy. 😊 I've always been super casual and I don't like dressing up more than that. It just doesn't appeal to me. Nor do I want or expect anything more from someone I'm with.

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  • I enjoy women who like to dress their best makeup and the whole 9, dressing to impress. I also enjoy the same women who just like to feel comfortable and not impress anyone at the same time. I like women who enjoy both. I won't ever ask a woman to stick to one or the other. I will also let the woman I am seeing that we are going to on a nice date or somewhere that were dressing a little nicer for. Also on the flip side I would let her know she doesn't have to get all done up to go somewhere low key

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  • Define looking like a mess? Like unkempt hair, not being hygenic, etc?

    uhh.. there's a time and place for it.

    It doesn't leave a good first impression at all when it comes to meeting people or in a professional setting or public area

    . Looking like a mess should only be reserved at home in my opinion. If you do it elsewhere, notably in public, you risk looking like a slob, and people do judge.

    • Maybe just not using makeup, and not trying hard to hide pimples and stuff. But NOT being a slob.

  • Personally i think those who apply less make up are more honest in their life and are not afraid of hearing other people's saying BS about them

    • I agree

  • Its not really about *embracing* looking like a mess and more about having the *confidence* to be okay with looking a mess.

    Men find confidence attractive in women too. When a woman can be okay with the fact that she isn't picture perfect thats attractive.

  • We seriously barely notice that stuff.

  • Can be pretty cute tbh.

  • Nobody is perfect but purposely looking like a train wreck is nobody I would want to get involved with.

  • Whoah. You should never embrace eating junk food. Trust me. That's a road you do not want to go down.

    But yeah, if you want to quit wearing makeup or something, then more power to you.

    • I can't stop but i want to

    • The junk food

    • Well, just eat it in moderation, then; okay? But I will tell you this: it's MUCH easier to maintain a healthy lifestyle if you cut out the junk food completely. (Especially sugar!!) Because then you won't crave it as much. Your body will get used to eating healthy, and you will feel REALLY good! Trust me. by the way, eating healthy doesn't mean you have to go hardcore extreme on some weird diet. The main point is just to add more vegetables. Make vegetables the main theme of every meal and build around that. Experiment with various veggie recipes until you find what you like.

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  • You can still be cute and not have a ton of make on and you can still dress casually, there' nothing wrong with that.

  • Yeah as long as you're confident i don't see why they wouldn't

  • she sounds like a disgusting pig

  • It depends.
    Some women are naturally sexy and can still look good with no makeup, wearing a hoodie and sweatpants.
    Others could get annoying especially if they rarely brush their teeth or don't want sex because they've been too lazy to shower for a week and they don't feel sexy.