Do guys always end up masturbating at home if they didn’t end up having sex after makeout session?

I recently started dating a guy and he is the nicest guy you’ll ever get. But after our make out session which don’t end up in sex, he is usually a bit irritated which I feel.

I don’t know if it’s the build up that’s causing it or he didn’t like it or it’s me who is overthinking. It would really help if you share your thoughts on this.

I just want to know if he is sexually frustrated and then maybe end up masturbating. Does this happen to you?

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  • He is frustrated , Girls don’t understand men for the most part when it comes to intimacy and affection , A guys brain is different from a girl’s brain , his brain is wired to his penis , When he is turned on his brain is sending signals to his penis to make him erect , Most girls assume a guy can just get erect for the hell of it and that’s not the case at all, he has to be turned on to get his blood flowing , when she gets his blood flowing he is ready to bang the shit out of her but when she decides she isn’t in the mood he is sitting there with blue balls so if he doesn’t release that pressure he will be hurting down there and become frustrated and miserable , he will also feel that she doesn’t value him and that he is in a one sided relationship , which can cause conflict in your relationship, Basically it’s ok for you to initiate sex with him when you are in the mood but not ok for him to initiate sex with you when he is in the mood , and that’s where men get frustrated and feel his girl doesn’t care about his wants , or he feels she doesn’t value him , Relationships only work when you both prioritize each other and value each other , Sacrifice for each other , If he is initiating sex with you don’t shut him down all the time , A guy expresses his love to a girl through intimacy and affection , that’s how we are made , Girl’s always assume the worse that all he cares about is getting laid and that she can be anyone , That is where girls are wrong , He wants to have sex with you because he values you and wants to be closer to you , if he was just thinking with his dick then he would be buying prostitutes just to get off , a man that values his girl only wants her and for it to work she needs to value him , when she constantly denies his attempts to have sex with her , he will eventually feel unvalued by her , opening doors to being interested in someone else that wants to make him feel wanted and valued. You girls need to stop using sex as a way to get your way , only giving it when it’s convenient for you , when a girl with holds sex from her man she is only setting herself up for disaster , You girl’s need to get that to do list out of your heads , meaning oh he didn’t do this for me so he isn’t getting sex , you are damaging your relationship by doing that , when you make him feel wanted and valued he will have no problem doing the same for you and completing your to do list.

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  • If you have an extended make-out session with a guy, but don't have sex with him, then you are effectively "blue-balling" him.

    What that really means is that the make-out session gets him extremely aroused, which causes his prostate gland to go into overdrive making semen in anticipation of an ejaculation, but when that doesn't happen, his prostate gland is over-full, and as soon as the endorphins (hormones that mask pain) wear off, which happens quickly, then his prostate gland will be swollen and sore and extremely tender, and the slightest bit of motion can cause extreme pain and cramping.

    It can take anywhere from 30 minutes to 4 hours for that pain to go away enough that it's no longer a problem, but even masturbating can be difficult because you're starting off sore and tender - which is why guys want to FINISH if you start them up in the first place, BEFORE the endorphins wear off.

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  • That is different for every person?

  • Not that I can recall. However a girlfriend I had in college when she and I were both 21, would after she got home. We never had sex because she felt she wasn't ready for it, which I understood. But she would get home after we were making out and feeling each other up, and masturbate while talking to me on the phone. She never told me but I could tell by the sounds... I never let on that I knew... LOL

  • A long session of making out results in "blue balls". Masturbating is the best relief.

  • Not always. But if it was an especially sexy session, I might need to.

  • I do short and simple I just need more in my life lol

  • No Or not animals

    • Voice command error I mean no we are not animals

  • We do it when we’re just horny, with the anticipation of getting laid and not make any guy disappointed and horny.

  • Nope. I’m married make out sessions don’t happen anymore 😂

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  • Yes. He's probably doing with or without the make out session. We just love jerking off.

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