Do guys believe they’re that good in bed?

From plenty of experience guys would exaggerate on how well they are in bed. When in actuality it’s horrible or just okay. I feel as though sex is great when I get an orgasm. I mean for women it takes concentration to even accomplish that during penetration. But my question fellas is, are you sure your good in bed?😂😂
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I think the orgasm gap is real. There are reasons women are themselves responsible for it, but male selfishness, laziness, and ineptitude are probably the most important contributors.

    I would be suspect of any guy who boasts. When people show off, it’s usually because they need to.

    For me personally, the real fun of sex is in seeing my partner exhausted from pleasure and I would be suspect of any partner who didn’t have the same attitude. I want nothing more than to be good in bed and I think there is always room for improvement, especially where reading my partner’s response is concerned. I’m aware of and put into practice things I can do to stay in control of my own orgasm and last as long as she wants. When it comes to oral sex, I genuinely prefer giving to receiving.

    Another contributing factor is that female sexual response has not been the subject of enough research. For example, it’s only in the last few years that we’ve had a 3D map of what the clitoris really looks like. (It extends deeply into your body.) Researchers still aren’t certain of all the mechanics behind “squirting”. (Despite that, most of GAG *knows* exactly what it is.) So I like to keep up with new information and educate myself on things that affect my love life. (Menopause, currently.)

    tl;dr… I strive to be nothing short of awesome for her, but it can’t be the best time, every time. And there is always room for improvement.

    • At least you take all of those things into consideration ‼️ Honestly some men are just selfish when it comes to sex. I’d rather be celibate these days lol

    • It might be more about finding the right ONE guy. You mentioned “plenty of experience”. If one night stands are your thing, I could understand why you’ve had bad luck finding generous lovers. There’s really no reason for a guy to invest himself into getting you off if it’s casual or a one time deal. It’s kind of a everyone-for-themselves kind of thing.

    • No I don’t do one night stands people I’ve actually had real relationships with and people I’ve dated

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  • So far I haven't received any complaints. I am NOT sure if I am good or not. For certain, I am not 'superman'.
    I don't need or want a 'rating' anyway. But sometimes I wonder if I was able to equally return the pleasure that was given to me.

    • At least you know, that you don’t know. Most women lie because we don’t want to bruise anyone’s ego.

    • Hmmm - you don't need to be 'brutal'... but a little hint here or there would help each side?

    • Your right lol

Most Helpful Girls

  • It usually just means they are insecure when they're bragging that much. The trick then is to take control. They can't do much wrong when they do exactly what you ask/order. If they're actually insecure, chances are high that they don't have a problem with being told what to do in bed. It can help them get actually better and more confident.

  • Oh yes I know what you’re talking about. They pump it out for 5 minutes after 10 minutes of foreplay & then say how amazing it all was. Or make me sore, dry & bored waiting in them to cum after an hour +. But it’s hard to be able to tell unless they show you their skill or lack of

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  • People I've been with have enjoyed it. I'm not selfish, I put in effort and I try my best to make sure the girl is getting excited and feeling pleasure. But of course, the next girl I'm with might say I'm shit. I don't really worry too much lol.

  • From my experience the ones that boast about how good they are are the worst in bed.

  • It takes a lot of practice to be good at anything and that includes sex. It's hilarious how many guys who've done little more than hump their pillow boast how great they are.

  • I’ve never been with someone who bragged over his performances. I think those kind of guys are the ones who are worst in bed. 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • Great question 👍

  • I am very undistinguished in intercourse. My primary weapon is modest has a light trigger. That makes me limited in positions and prone to not doing much for her. When I realized I wasn't going to get any better, I studied "fingering" and cunnilingus as science. I would test out what I read on the net or saw in AV and filter out the "chaff". With rare exceptions, I can deliver a ground shaking orgasm in under 15 minutes and sometimes keep one going (multiple surges) for several minutes, leaving her exhausted and fulfilled. Yes, I am that good at it. It's not bragging when you can back it up.

  • I totally agree, happens to me every time. Im always nice tho. 😂😂

    • Me too‼️‼️‼️

  • My question is, if you feel like all the guys you've had sex with are horrible or just okay, how is it that you're failing to notice that the common denominator here is... you?

    • And what would that be? I’ve never got an complaints if anything every single one of them wanted to come back for more

    • A guy wanting sex isn't special. We want it way, way more than you, on average. You getting no complaints (because how often does that happen? you yourself are complaining to US, not to THEM; they may have done the same thing about you just not to your face, who knows?) and them coming back doesn't mean anything; it could simply mean that they don't have any other options at the time.

    • Someone seems a little touched lol but I said what I said period. I know I’m not the problem 😂😂

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  • Some guys do, other guys, not so much

  • lol. This coming from a woman who really just has to lay there. I usually give a girl and orgasm when we're having sex.

    • Actually I’ve put more work in than 75% of the guys I’ve slept with. Most couldn’t last long, or their stroke just isn’t what it could be. Don’t get me started on oral. I shouldn’t be spending 30mins to an hour sucking dick when I only get 5mins or less with some tongue action below

    • Sounds like you make shitty choices.

    • Pretty much lol

  • Will never know

  • I don’t beleive. I know.

  • I would like to think I am then again I say the same thing about my partner we both have had many partners but wasn't till her that I had actually gotten some things never had with anyone else and she says the same thing

  • I know I'm good in bed based on what my past girlfriends told and showed me and my friend told (I told her how to eat and play with pussy) and her girlfriend love it (her first girlfriend she ask me for advice)

  • All I can say is I do my best

  • most guys are below average.

  • I don’t know about all men but I’m pretty good at what I do. 😌