Do guys care about the size of a girls labia?

Question

i'm quite self conscious about the size of my labia. it's not HUGE but it's not small and it's wrinkly and it's darker than my body and I don't know if that's normal.

so my question is, do guys care and are they turned off by ugly looking vaginas?

CallMeDave · Accepted Answer

I really don't think that what you're describing is unusual at all and it's nothing to worry about.

I had a girlfriend that didn't like hers either. I still was quite happy to look at and touch her there any chance I got. Sure, guys might have a preference for how a certain body part looks, but any guy that would reject you over something like that is a very superficial guy that you don't want to be with anyway.

Let me ask this. Do you have a preference for a guy's height or eye color or hair color or how muscular he is? Would you reject a really nice guy that you liked because he has brown eyes when you prefer blue? It's kind of the same thing. It's really not a big deal.

Dargil · Accepted Answer

Not sure there is such a thing as an ugly vulva. Most just look purpose driven... for intercourse and oral. Unlike boobs which have often been publicly visible and have been "selected" by men for millennia, vulvas pretty much remain secret up to the point of contact and are not a deciding factor. Every once in a while you see one that looks sculpted by an artist, with "perfect" intimate details and can be both stunning and strongly erotic. Hot a few pics on the drive, but these are rare. No healthy vulva would ever turn me away.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

This question has been asked about a dozen times in the last few days and having seen them I can tell you that most guys couldn't care less.
Of course there will be guys that prefer one way over another but the majority doesn't care.
I'm sure your vagina isn't ugly. We all look different. We all get insecure over our boobs or vagina or ass or whatever meanwhile most guys, again have a preference, but in the grand scheme don't much care one way or the other.
You're fine darlin. Don't worry about it so much.

Hannajenky · Accepted Answer

If that's their biggest worry then you probably dont need to be with that guy anyway

SmoMan71 · Answer

It makes an aesthetic difference and some guys have their preferences but I can’t imagine that it would ever be a deal breaker for anyone.

TadCurious · Answer

There have been a lot (a whole lot) of questions on GaG from girls worrying about their labia. Here are the facts: Approximately 1/2 of girls have inner labia (labia minora) that extend past the outer labia. It's very, very common and perfectly normal. There's nothing wrong with it. And it's also normal for the inner labia to be somewhat wrinkled in appearance, with varying shapes, including one side being different from the other. And it's also perfectly normal for the labia to be darker in color than the girl's overall skin tone. None of those perfectly normal things make a girl's vulva ugly.

areyaready4this · Answer

To answer your first question, ues men care but not necessarily in the manner you may think. I personally prefer very large, very dark labia and am turned off by the 'neat and/or tucked' labia.

To answer your second question, as i stated previously many men prefer large labia. So, dont be so quick to judge us (men) on what we like or don't like. For some, your labia are a dream come true!

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

It makes no difference to me , I would accept a girl for whom she is and i look for a girl with a great personality.

yourdarksecretx · Answer

It's normal lol

Heclingybad · Answer

You’re making my mouth water and getting me horny...😋🤤

genericname85 · Answer

don't prefer big ones but i they aren't a deal breaker either so i'd say it doesn't matter. the color thing is just normal. i don't think about it.

geislert · Answer

I promise you we will love you. You are fine.

vjedi · Answer

I promise yours is still sexy. I wouldn't hesitate to enjoy kissing and sucking on it.

Cellestial · Answer

Not at all

2opaz · Answer

go big or go home

Steve37 · Answer

Some guys have a preference for large or small labia, but I've never heard of a guy who got that far and stopped because a woman's labia weren't his preferred style. For a crude comparison, think of it like food. My favorite food is a nice juicy steak but that doesn't mean I'll turn down a slice of pizza😀.

mytrumara · Answer

I like big labia and I cannot lie, You other brothers can't deny, When a girl walks in with an itty bitty vag, And gets it in your face You get strung.