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Do guys even go down on girls anymore?

I'm really confused... this guy I have a big crush on moved away. the past 2 times I seen him he wanted me to suck him. Which I was happy to do... but then both times he said he was tired and didn't wanna do anything back to me, but promised he would the next time he seen me. Well both times he never did come back to do it he just went back home in another city. It's been 2 years since I seen him last, and he is coming to visit. He has told me before how much he's wanted to go down on me, and today he says we'll i just want u to suck me the first time I see you... then maybe the second time we can have sex. Which also kinda worries me cause he always left right after.

I tell him, well you should be doing stuff to me first since u did nothing to me the last time, and he's like "well I don't really wanna go down on u... that makes me uncomfortable"

so one I don't know why he even promised me he would and two I kinda feel just like I'm a sex toy now that he will just throw away after...

I've never once had a guy go down on me but they always expect and literally beg me to suck them... Why is it like this?
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  • Some guys do, and some guys don't, unfortunately. Some are also just really selfish.

    Personally, I love going down on a girl. There's almost nothing better, and I'll do it as often, and for as long, as she'll let me. Even when she's finished, I still want to. I just love knowing that I can give her that kind of pleasure, and I enjoy giving.

    It's also intensely erotic for me, and the guys that don't/won't do it have no idea what they're missing. Looking up at your girl from between her thighs, seeing the expression on her face, hearing her moans, making her orgasm with your tongue; there's nothing like it!

    Damn, I want to eat a pussy right now. 😂

Most Helpful Girls

  • You have answered all your own questions, save one that is pretty self explanatory.

    First, he doesn't like doing it to you, he only likes you doing it to him.

    Why didn't he tell you that before? ... because then you might not have done it to him and he was horny.

    When guys are horny their brains cease to function as they transfer to their testicles for a time. Later, they will realize that they should have maybe handled it differently but by that time it is too late for you.

    As for the present time with you wanting what he has already told you he cannot provide, let me ask you a question... can you change the stripes on a Zebra?

    Do guys even go down on girls anymore?

    Now you know all you need to know.

    Go find a guy that will be ready, willing and able to provide you what you want and need. There are plenty of them out there... trust me!

  • It sounds like he’s just using you for blowjobs when he’s in town. He says it makes him uncomfortable, but tell him you won’t suck him unless he licks you first. Be insistent, but not demanding. If he really wants a blowjob from you bad enough, he’ll go down on you. If he doesn’t, he’s probably just using you and will go find another girl who will suck him without any expectation of reciprocation. If you’re okay with letting him finger you to orgasm before blowing him, that seems the only other option you have than disconnecting from him or continuing to let him use you as a blowjob toy.

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  • I hate to break it to you... guys are selfish. But also, they are not sure what to do... no one has ever taught them how to "eat pussy". I mean guys are pretty Basic... touch, touch, cum... I think that You should make it your 'goal in life', to train as many men as possible how to eat a pussy... train 1 a month enlist all of your friends to join the Crusade TATEP... (Teach All To Eat Pussy) you GO GIRL... I will pay you, to teach me. I'm sure after 2 or 3 lessons I could get my degree in Pussy eating

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  • It's all give and take. What you offer to the table and how you follow through is all on you. Play your cards right & you will win.
    Essentially, don't put out unless you are going to get what is promised in return. Play the game, tease a little, don't be afraid to call it quits in the middle of the game if he isn't playing fair. Simple as that.

  • The guy is clearly using you to get off. He does not care about getting you off!! A man who truly is in to you will make sure to get you off first, before you even begin to get him off.

    This guy, you need to leave; he is not into you; he is only into you giving hm what he wants!!

  • Mine does

    • Braggart...😉

  • I've never met a straight guy that didn't like eating pussy

    • Always liked sex but didn't enjoy eating pussy.

    • @Mac-One no offense but I consider that kind of gay to not like eating pussy

    • I've known a couple of guys who were pretty insistent on not eating pussy. And I could speculate, but I might be stereotyping, so I won't.

  • Sounds like a selfish tool to me. If you only get to see him once every long while, I'd move on real quickly and forget about him. You're only torturing yourself; he obviously doesn't care.

  • It's just him, he's using you. Most guys love going down on girls. Ditch this loser.

    • Yes...

  • There's no extrensic benefit for a guy to do that. My tongue, lips, and neck CANNOT EJACTLATE. Ridiculous

  • What a selfish asshole 😂 if he isn't going to give you anything in return then the sex will probably be shit too. Why do you even like him?

  • I don't know what kind of guys you've dated, but I can tell you we older guys love to give oral to our women.

  • do this, he satisfies you first, then you do him, not before, no way he goes first, or he does you first and you say you are too tired to reciprocate and tell him next time.

  • The vagina is really complicated and maybe he is just nervous about how he will perform. I would be more than willing to go down on my partner for as long and as often as she wants. I couldnt really care about me getting off as long as she gets off first.

  • Why keep letting this guy use you? There are plenty of guys who will go down on their girlfriend. You should find one of them. How do you know when you have found one? When you find a guy who wants to or is willing to go down on you before doing anything else.

  • Always enjoyed sex.

    • Girls would you French kiss the guy after he ate your pussy? Would you enjoy the taste of your pussy?

  • Some guys will get away with not eating their girl if they can. If your guy is like this, let him know you will gladly blow him each time he makes you cum with his tongue beforehand.

  • Oh hell yes I always go down on the girl before penetration I love to eat pussy my favorite

  • Let the man speak “Shit, Christina Aguilera better switch me chairs
    So I can sit next to Carson Daly and Fred Durst
    And hear 'em argue over who she gave head to first
    Little bitch put me on blast on MTV
    "Yeah, he's cute, but I think he's married to Kim, hee-hee"
    I should download her audio on MP3
    And show the whole world how you gave Eminem VD” 😳 lol

  • First - the guy is using you.
    Second - girl, you don't know what you're missing. You really need to find someone who doesn't have his hangup. You should have experienced that way before now.
    But, to answer your question, most guys don't mind. Some do, but they're in the minority.
    I'll just suggest you make sure you're clean. Doesn't have to be freshly washed and/or douched. But clean. I'm not trying to suggest you're not. I don't know. Just a word of caution.

    • This!!! Totally agree

  • Seems like you always give in.
    If he doesn't pay the toll he doesn't get to cross the bridge to happy land.
    Simple.
    He has to earn you.
    Otherwise he's just using you.
    Don't be an enabler for a selfish prick asshole douche.
    He puts out or gets out.
    Fuq him.

  • Any person man or woman who won't give oral doesn't deserve to receive oral. .

  • Guess you picked the wrong guys XD

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