Do guys ever feel like women are using them for their dicks/sex?

Like I recently started seeing a guy and we’re having sex every time and I kinda have been initiating and making a move maybe early in the date or something and I’m afraid I’ll give off a vibe that im only into him sexually but I am not. I am into him a lot and just also very much sexually too.
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  • Not really. women don't usually use men for sex, they use them for their money. So he probably doesn't think that. However if its a concern, you can talk to him about it, it doesn't even need to be serious or anything, make a joke about how you would like to do something other then sex with him but his sexyness keeps distracting you. Guys get this too, he is into the girl but all that emotion comes out as sexual desire (or touching and cuddling which turns into sex).

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  • Yeah I get sick of it. Every girlfriend I've ever had has been like this. I mean, I'm not just a sex object, some mindless piece of meat. I have feelings too, you know? Even my girlfriend now, I wish she'd love me for me and not for my massive schlong.

    • Aw sorry to hear some women can’t control themselfs sometimes..

    • @Just21 I just seem to have that effect on them. Sometimes I wish I wasn’t so sexy but I can’t help it. They only ever want one thing from me and it’s terrible.

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  • As long as there is more to the "relationship" than just sex he will be good with it. And even if there isn't chances are he is good with just the sex only dynamic..

  • I never felt that way, because I was always in a caring relationship for a while, before any sexual activity.

  • Yeah. Though guys usually don't complain about that.

  • So first of all most guys tend to be too oblivious to even consider that we're being used for our dick, the exception being pornstars which should be kind of obvious since it's what they get paid for. That being said even if we were to come to that realization it would be more of a matter of pride for us rather than oh my God she's using me. So yeah, don't worry about it.

  • I think that is a first. No we don't think. We are more concerned about women coming after our money

  • So tell him that.
    I have been used for sex by people I actually liked, and it sucked.

  • Never. Women use me to lift heavy things and other "manly work" but never for sex. Which kinda pisses me off because if those guys are good enough to fuck, they might as well pick up your shit too

  • Yea but most like sex so much they won’t say anything. When a girl is always on laying with my dick and wanting to have sex I’m in heaven

  • then ya should go for it and let em know but do more non-sexual things for em than sexual so he don't get a hook up type vibe comin from ya and every thing should be smooth sailin from there

  • I don't mind being used for my cock

  • No, just money

  • Guys want to be used for love and sex.
    It's all the other shit we get used for that bothers us.
    I feel bad for guys who would marry a woman and put up with her sleeping around because why would anyone want to be used for money and as a token husband?