I am not sure to be honesty. I find older guy in their 30 want a relationship but doesn't mean guys our age will some want a relationship. I know a few guys who got married right after graduation and are still together and have kid and etc. Not everyone is unlucky even if most of the time i doubt that good holly hearted people exist... i find myself bumping into gag member that true pure amazing wonderful intelllenge hearts who just give and give and give... so there has to be hope. If your not sure about a guy don't go all the way give it time. Don't pressure yourself to someone else standard... I wouldn't hurt myself like that if he does understand or he bitchy about it than forget it... love should always care about u.
It's probably your age. But you're probably also just seeing the surface of most guys. And you may be looking at all the wrong guys. Look harder and deeper. You'll find a guy who wants a real relationship with you, including lots of great sex. (It took me quite awhile, but I did!)
well, I have always wanted something like that, im 23 now.
It depends on the guys surrounding you, if you want to know if a guy is truly into you you must not give it up so quick, get to know each other, if he makes time for you, constantly, for months and is nice to you, then there is a pretty good chance he really likes you and wants something more.
If he just hits you up to mess around, then you are going to be a fuck buddy.
Pay attention to his actions, but remember, wait MONTHS to really now what are his true intentions, because there are some big liars out there.
Yes, we do. You're just meeting the wrong guys. I think that you'll have a higher chance of meeting older guys with the mentality you want, but you can find young ones too, you just can't give up and keep looking.
It's so discouraging because anytime I try to take it past flirting and try to get to know them more and try to hang out outside of school it doesn't work. I don't know. Like they just want to flirt with me and touch me but don't want to actually get to know me.
I see, I understand that it's disappointing, but I'm sure that one day you'll be able to find ou who's willing to get to know you. But, like I said, you may have better chances older guys, like maybe 20+
I guess so. Are college guys the same as high school guys? It sucks that I'm so inexperienced at this age.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It might be to do with your school and not your age because my old school had nothing to do with that. maybe wait for some more age since guys take a bit longer time to be mentally mature i would personally say age 22+ of course the higher the more mature but be warned there are some that are still immature.
Yeah. I mean of course some guys are in relationships and have been for a long time (long time being months since we're only in HS) but I guess it just hasn't happened for me yet. I've met guys here and there but of course the ones you like aren't the ones that are paying attention to you haha. And for the guys that I have flirted with, well that never went anywhere. Anyway it just seems the majority of guys just like to hit it and quit it.
The era has changed if you really like to maybe talk to more people on the girls ask guys website, most the people here seems nice, who knows maybe you might meet one of them in real life
Think of it like this...
Guys are in a meaningful relationship from day... With their dicks...
Whoever else contributes to that status is a bonus, at 18 I'd imagine you may have a while still to wait... Or look at different guys... :P
Yes, they do. I've been with a few.
Yes of course! Sex is just a perk but I want a mother who can raise the shrute young to their fullest potential!
When the 97 years old and on a respirator
Ha! '
Would be great if I had a girl that was a friend. Most girls expect me to ask them out or a one night stand or something like that. Can't I just hang out with a girl without dating or have s... e... x. Speaking for myself I would love to have a friendly relationship with a girl that's more then sex, it is hard to find though.
WHERE ARE THESE GIRLS AT... WHERE? (as I lift my fist in the air looking up, while my dog looks at me and tilts he's head 0_o)
Not all guys only want sex. There are men who want meaningful relationships.
For me personally, seemed like I matured pretty early, so Is the only form of relationship I wanted since say when I was 12, a meaningful one I mean.
Late 20's, LOL. You have to find a nice guy ( the quiet guy). ALL the guys that hang out together in a group... are the guys you are talking about above, the frat boy mentality.
It takes time. When you know girls are mature enough to be in relationships. You know how screwed you can be if your relationship fails. At your age, unless the girl is amazing, the relationship is most likely not gonna be very good for they guy, while sex is always great, even if the act itself isn't the best, you don't have to deal with relationship problems.
Older women have their shit together and are more mature, ergo, they're relationship material.
I guess same with guys. Maybe no one really has their shit together at this age and that's why so few meaningful relationships exist at his point
This point*
Guys are ready for stuff at different ages. I wasn't interested in girls until I was 17. Even then I was frigid af and nervous.
At 20 I still haven't been on a date. Let alone had sex.
If you count a drunk kiss a kiss then I have kissed.
Younger dudes primarily want sex. It's just nature.
As we mature, we want something more.
I want a relationship, I'm holding off having sex until I find the right girl and marriage.
Well, it'd be nice if the SF 49ers would win another Super Bowl.
Sex is the last thing I want in a relationship. I want trust and companionship and all that good shit.
where are the guys like you in my life
Hmm I'm sure they're around. We just don't get noticed as much because we're less gung-ho lol
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Yes, but you gotta get to know them and find out because a lot your age they don't
It is different for each guy. But most 18 year olds are just like you describe. Not all, but most
Yup, from what I've seen yes
then just keep looking. They're out there
here's the problem.
guys want/need sex but the greater majority women we meet aren't very suited for that role.
do you know what the response for men who realise this is? they sleep around until they find a good chick whod stay loyal and know how to treat him.
the ones lacking entitlement and double standards. a smart attractive good chick.
these are hard to find beleive it or not.
also, you're dating kids. naturally, 80/20 rule apply on the dating world as well. 80 percent of the women want the top 20 percent of good looking successful men, but these men have other options. this leads to corruptions and immaturity (fun/half committed)
its ok for a women to tell a guy to change and be a man right? women also need to make themselves and patiently wait
Hm. This makes a lot of sense. I would definitely go all out with a guy and I plan to remain loyal however I have to find a guy who I know would do the same with me.
sorry i meant the role of a gf/wife on the second sentence.
here's another problem beyond how you might think youd be when you find this great guy. some people just keep wanting more. without constant challenge and respect, women often fall out of love or cheat. being loyal is only defined during the hard times not the good. love and commitment. devotion is almost the same thing... its not really a feeling in my educated opinion. cheers, good luck
Ask Tim Tebow, then ask the Woman that dumped him for not pumping her nonstop like a pornstar lol
Are there any girls who are just interested in having some fun without complicating the fuck out of things?
Yes there are several girls (especially nowadays) who are perfectly okay with being promiscuous as well. That's why those promiscuous guys can be promiscuous.. It takes two to tango. Just depends on the person.
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