Do guys feel nervous the first time they have sex with their girl?

Question

If you haven’t had sex, do you feel nervous about having it? Do they even think about nerves or is it just automatic?

Carolynn · Answer

I think it's automatic. You will automatically do whatever your body and your heart and your mind tells you to do. It's not a spectator sport. Hopefully you're not going to get graded on it so just be natural. Like I said it'll come to you.

DevikaButts95 · Answer

Yea of course.

passinby · Answer

I feel more anxious excited bliss and I think there is some adrenaline in play. I don't think it is so much nervousness but being highly excited and being in a cloud state. I mean there is nothing better than exploring a new woman and the, I think, endorphins that go with it. Once she accepts me sexually, such as a caress of my groin, any nervousness that might have been is gone and it is all automatic for me from there. Some first sexual encounters I only remember flashes, frames, that are permanently burned in, and I don't drink, drugs, anything.

davidrees · Answer

Definitely some nerves before the first time, especially if I'm super in to her, it's important that the sexual side of our relationship works as well as the non sexual side.

One night stands - not really an issue, we're clearly both just scratching an itch.

Ninja99 · Answer

I haven't had sex my first time yet and the thought of it alone makes me nervous.

sawno · Answer

I will probably be nervous the first time, i expect it to be imperfect and awkward so if its anything better then that it will exceed my expectations. And if its like that then ill use the oppertunity to explore her and do better next time.

slatyb · Answer

I'm a little bit anxious the first time with any new partner.

Iwearyouwell · Answer

Since I found my sexuality in my twenties I haven't had that type of experience. If you want someone to respond to you physically take them where you want to go along the way discover what it is that keeps them interested in going with you. People respond positively to confidence most of the time as long as it's kind and thoughtful and you remain a gentleman she will let you turn up the gentle and go places that you never thought you two would ever go just hours before. Let your horses run free just be sure she's able to ride with you comfortably

airylnovatech · Answer

Yes, it is.

Dargil · Answer

Sure. You want to get it right and getting it right is guesswork.

icedragoom · Answer

Having sex for the first time is a scary experience at least the first time cause you don't know or at least for a guy any way we don't k ow if we are hurting you how long we can last and don't know if we are even good at fucking

Cricket74 · Answer

God yes! How can I put it in without hurting her. Foreplay. Is it too much. Do I treat her delicately or rough. How the hell does it go in. Where the blasted hole? Let me tell you all guts are a wreck the first few times.