Do guys get offended when you rub your clit during sex?

I always seem to rub my clit during sex just to give it an extra boost but I feel like guys get offended like they're not doing a good enough job. Do they not mind it or is it a turn off
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Not for me - I think it's hot. I dated a girl once who liked to do that all the time. I was really hot during missionary when she would look into my eyes in a state of total pleasure as she rubbed her clit. I really wish more girls would do it too because it helps them cum during intercourse which is hard for some girls to do. Or it may be hard for them to cum like that with me because I'm not big down there. I don't think its an insult either way and I personally think if your guy's on the small side it will boost his ego to get a girl off from penetration IMHO

  • It can be difficult for women to orgasm from penetration alone, so I pretty much expect them to rub their clits during penetrative sex. I think nothing of it (except that it's sexy and that she's into the sex for her own sake and not just for mine, which is also sexy). The only time it would bother me is if I'm rubbing her clit and she pushes my hand away to do it herself, as though she is unwilling to guide my hand into rubbing it the way she prefers.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Not at all.
    It's pretty similar to when a girl is giving a head job, and the man
    pushes her head up and down (for that extra boost).
    No one should take offense to it unless they are childish.

    If anything,
    your man should SEE this and start rubbing your clit in certain positions during sex (since he NOW knows its something you like).
    He can sort of use it to his advantage.

  • I do it sometimes. My bf doesn't get offended. Some positions feel better for him, and vice versa. If we're doing a position that feels better for him I do it.

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  • Yes very offensive...LOL!! I'm kidding. That shit is hot. I'ma get mine she better get hers. XD

    • "I'ma get mine she better get hers."

  • It is a big turn ON to watch a girl play with her tits or clit.I would not get offended at all, actually greatful for the extra hand, as you can't be everywhere at once.I love it when a girl strokes herself off then sticks her wet finger in my mouth to taste. When getting head, I sometimes caress my balls while getting sucked, my girlfriend says i shoot more jizz and it feels more intense throbbing on her tongue

  • I do this because it helps me to cum, I've never had a guy be offended, they mostly like it.

  • I think they find it a turn on

  • It's friggin sexy.

  • they shouldn't

  • No. Glad you can help out.

  • I wouldn't mind.

  • No, its hot when a girl rubs her clit..
    because that means she is excited...

    And its not an insult

  • I'd never have a chance to lol!

  • One of my xgfs always did that to make herself orgasm. I didn't mind cuz it made me climax when she did since she got all tight.

  • Offensive :( let him rub it for you.

  • What on earth made you think guys would find this offensive? lol

  • They like it ;), the guy I mess with wants me to do it everytime

  • This is completely O.K. and sexy.

  • No its hot, and if it helps her get off why would I dislike that?

  • i've done that a few times and slipping my finger in side me with his dick that's hot and guys like that

  • no. I know some, if not most girls, get off more on clitoral stimulation.