Do guys like being dominant during sex?

Depending on who I'm with, I can enjoy some rough sex. I like getting choked, being spanked, having my hair pulled, etc... I do also like pegging and delving in to the more 'dom' side of things as well, but that's another matter.

I know plenty of women like being dominated, but do guys actually enjoy doing it? Or if you do it, is it more to make the woman you're with happy?

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  • in my own opinion for example u to be submissive its so hard for u to build a long term serious relationship cuz most of sub girls who i met enjoyed being dominated but after they orgasm they change the way at all They feel remorse for having insulted themselves, as you mentioned, such as pulling hair, treating her like a cheap animal, slapping her, etc... Then she tries to evade and not engage in more meetings to preserve her social value and personality among people in society...
    to me i like really both..
    to be down on her enjoying being dominanted by her then suddenly i change it and take the control to make things hotter and make her close to cum "wet" i enjoy trying everything in the relationship

    • thanks for the mho

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  • most guys yes its how we are built from the ground up.. but not all and some woman are like that too, but most woman like a dominant man in sex department how about you.. lets hear what you think and be honest.

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  • A lot of guys these days aren't into it I think largely due to the social climate of today that is largely against men being aggressive. Back in my college years, rough sex and guys into domination was a huge trend. It was easy to find men who wanted to dominate you for their own enjoyment, and they didn't care what others thought of their tendencies.

    I miss that kind of social climate, and the kinds of encounters you could easily have back then before everything got so complicated and political. It's tricky to find a guy now who'll actually admit having a desire to dominate. Just read a lot of the responses here. They are very different from the responses you read in the much older posts.

  • I think most guys are willing to switch it up between being dom and sub

    • Define what sub is though. If it is like worshiping her. Kissing her feet and letting sit on your face that is fine Her wearing Strapon is entirely a different thing.

    • @turnpost being sub us just letting the other person be in control. The acts a couple does it up to them and aren't really sub or dom in my opinion

    • These names can be complicated. Its like I would want to give her control so she can prove herself to me. (that is just foreplay scenario) So I am Domming from Sub?

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  • I don't. Actually I think I prefer it the other way around.

  • I am more sub myself.

    • That does seem to be the common thing, most people are submissive. Maybe it's something to do with feeling desired. In what way are you submissive? Do you just like the lighter stuff, like the other person being in control during sex, or do you participate in things like pegging as well?

    • I like going down on a girl, a girl rimming me/teasing me, and yes I love being pegged

  • Yes, yes, yes.

  • FUCK BDSM

  • I think it depends on the individual. For me I would say, sometimes. It would depend on my / our moods, desires in the moment.

  • Most guys

  • In general, Yes. Most guys enjoy feeling powerful and having sex in a manner that elicits certain responses from a woman would make him feel like he's in control.

  • Best both worlds

  • Yes, i am a very dominant guy

    I would treat a you like a princess but fuck lşke a whore, follow or dm me

    • Id spank u very hard, pull ur hair, handcuff you, and make u choke on my D :))

  • I personally like to switch and enjoy both sides.

  • What a dream girl. I certainly like to switch things around too

  • Mostly yes!

  • Yes I love it

    • What is it you enjoy about being dominant?

    • I can't tell you the feeling. Lol

  • Yes thankfully majority of guys are dominant!

    • And yeah you are right, I enjoy seeing my submissive girl enjoy more than my enjoyment I do get a pleasure seeing her helpless and submissive to me, but it more about her being happy when I dominate her like she fantasizes

  • My husband is and we both love it.

  • Oh no I am scared of that.

    • Why are you scared?

    • I have to treat a woman respectfully.

    • Are you that dog guy? But that's fair enough, although if it's something agreed upon by two consenting adults I don't think it's disrespectful. It can be very fun to try these things!