Do guys like big clits?

Or is it a turn off? Mine is quite large, just under an inch long and it makes me insecure because it shows through my outer lips. My inner lips are small and tucked in though and I just feel as if my clit just spoils everything :(
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If the clitoris itself show that large it can look like a small penis and can turn some guys off. But your comments clear up that the clitoris itself is only visible for a little bit (90% or more is hidden inside in women) and the clitoral hood is what is seen. That can be long and extend forward farther than the clit is under it (the clit actually bends back toward the vagina near where you can see it). Many differences exist between women in the clit that shows, the clitoral hood, the size of both the inner and outer lips, etc. And all the differences are normal. But guys have preferences just like women do. So a guy may not prefer your appearance, but it should not turn him off. And another guy will get very excited over what you have.

    • So you're basically saying it's unattractive

    • No, No. I said different guys have different preferences. And that when the clitoris itself is huge it can look like a small penis. That is NOT what you have. In a comment to another opinion you said "My actual clit is pretty small and it only peeks out when I'm turned on." That is the most common and is considered attractive by most men. As to whether they find the length of the clitoral hod that is what is showing on you, I think most men are perfectly fine with that, too. And on a lot of men it is more than fine. Very attractive, actually. You are fine. Really.

  • Men like variety. A big clit is just another way to be special. The only thing that I see here that is in danger of spoiling anything is your self doubt. You need to look at this a different way. Think how empowering it would be to embrace this part of your body as a source sexual expression.

    Here is the kind of self talk you need:

    "This is a lucky man standing before me. Because I'm gonna ROCK HIS WORLD."

    Leave that man a beautiful memory. A memory he can associate with your clit.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm not a guy but I don't see how it couldn't be a turn on? It's larger so it's easier to find, easier to stimulate, and probably makes it easier for him to pleasure you and make you cum right? Plus, girls like big dicks so shouldn't guys like big clits?

  • I think if your with the right guy he's gonna love how you look
    He's not going to care and demolish all negative thoughts.

    • Hmm, I guess so.

    • @Hells88 You are not giving men enough credit here. The right man in this scenario isn't one that dutifully and lovingly overlooks her large clit. No! No! No! The right man here is one that drops to his knees in Thanksgiving that the universe has granted him this great good fortune!

    • How am I not? I'm not gonna sugar coat my opinion The right guy is gonna drop to his knees and praise The Lord. I'm simply saying what you are but in different context

  • ah, well, I think it is quite beautiful, personally :)

    • Aw, really?

    • yes!!! definitely.

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  • I LOVE BIG CLITS!! Unfortunately, I've never encountered one in real life, only in p*rn . I'm not a native muff diver but if she had a clit like you describe, it would be one of the centers of my attentions. Be big and be proud!!

  • 'Can' be a turn-off if it's too fat.

  • Hmmm. I guess I'd have to see it.

    • Well, it doesn't look like a mini penis that's for sure. I can't find a picture that accurately depicts it.

    • Oh okay. Should be alright then.

  • Not a turn off in the slightest.

  • Just more to dine on ;)

  • i'm neutral about it basically

  • At least there won't be problems finding it :P
    It's not a turn off to me.

  • There is many shapes & sizes with vagina's guys don't care trust me
    now i got fetish for hairy vagina's they are so sexy :P

  • I do, I really like it. I've looked for it in Google images but I can't find that picture that's just right.

    • Yeah most of them look like mini penises but mine isn't like that. My actual clit is pretty small and it only peeks out when I'm turned on.

    • Yeah that's what I was looking for, all the ones I found, I'm pretty sure are a result of testosterone injections or steroids or something.

  • Sounds hot and plus it's easy to find. All pussies are beautiful!

  • Nothing is spoiled. I bet most guys love that.

  • Personally I like it

  • they love it!

  • Whether big or small i love em all :P

  • Love them

  • this guy loves them

  • pussies are nice ! don't worry

  • I can watch it move as I push it around with my tongue👅

  • I can't say I've seen a big clit like that... I've seen large lips but not a clit like that- and have to say I'm a little curious now haha. If you like it then that should be good enough! Especially if it makes you a little more sensitive in the bed, that could be a turn on. Do you think it affects sex at all?

    • It doesn't look like a mini penis if that's what you're thinking, lol. I guess I can reach orgasm more easily during penetration because it rubs the guys penis as it goes in and out. So I am lucky in that sense :)

    • Haha well lucky you! And lucky him too, sounds like you guys should be loving it haha

    • OK so curious I looked up 'big clits'… those giant mini penis ones are the creepiest things I've seen in a while, so thank goodness you don't have one of those! Haha. That can't be real

  • It doesn't and certain guys will lust over giving you a BJ (I would). In the normal transactions of life, you need to protect it from abrasion by your clothes with suitable underwear and lotion. Not so different than circumcised guys.