Do guys like handjobs?

I was reading something a couple days ago that said guys don't really enjoy handjobs. Is this true? GUYS- if you do like them, what makes it better than just doing it yourself? If you don't like it, what causes you to not enjoy them? GIRLS- do you have any tips on giving handjobs and how to be a handjob goddess? Thanks in advance :)
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  • I don't agree with the view that blowjobs are better than handjobs. They're just different. A handjob can be very pleasurable IF the girl giving it is creative. It's not just making a ring shape with your thumb and fingers and jacking up and down. Get down in front of the guy. Stroke the penis. Take just one finger and stroke it lightly up and down the shaft. Even though it's not a blowjob, don't hesitate to lightly flick your tongue along the underside of the penis just below the head (the most sensitive part). Once he's fully hard, have fun just PLAYING with it. Bend it forward and watch it bounce back. Have him give you a "high five." When he's fully hard he can contract his PC muscle and make his penis move forward a little bit. Have him do that against your fingertips. Twirl your fingers around the head. Take breaks where whatever sensation you were giving dies down before you start another. (Approximately 5-10 seconds.) That builds anticipation for what you're going to do next. You can hold it firmly at the base where it joins his body and sort of rock it back and forth. Finally, after all this teasing sensation, you can use some lube or lotion and start jacking him off. First slowly and then of course faster as he gets closer to cumming. When his balls draw up tight you'll know he's about to pop. Throughout the whole process approach it with a great, playful attitude that tells him you're having fun.

    • Thanks😊😉

  • I personally don’t mind handjobs, because it isn’t that the girl can do it any better than I can myself, but there’s more emotional and physical attachment associated with receiving it from someone else rather than the fantasy in your mind when you’re doing it yourself. From my point of view that’s more important to me than the orgasm. Not to mention that the handjob can lead into other things happening, such as getting or giving oral sex on her or she performing it on you, or intercourse. It is the interaction that’s the point here.

Most Helpful Girls

  • here's a good tip: do it while sucking his dick lol. Dont yank or be too rough and it wouldn't hurt to move your hand more than just up and down when you're starting slow and teasing him (wrist action highly recommended) Its kind of hard to describe the motion i do but i have been called sex goddess on more than one occassion by different partners 👍 ask him what feels good!

    • oh.. a sex goddess huh? ;)

    • That's vivid

    • lol no other way to give sex tips than vividly

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  • In my experience, they are... okay for guys, but think about it for a second: why basically get jerked off when you are the one person in the world who can jerk you off better than anybody?

    That's why oral is better forever.

  • Its safer than a bj when he's driving so I can keep my seatbelt on. Handjobs have their place.

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  • I LOVE handjobs. I love it when she tells me that I'm not allowed to move or make a sound until I start to cum. I love it when she goes slow, and strokes me with a light touch and maybe just her fingertips. I love it when she talks dirty, telling me her darkest, kinkiest sexual fantasies and, because I can't talk, I can't say, "Oh fuck, that's too kinky for me!" I have to just lie there and listen. When I cum, my orgasms are more intense because I'm concentrating on not moving or making a sound. And, many times, my cum will squirt further, like all the way onto my face! I also love it when she tells me to open my mouth and stick out my tongue when I'm about to cum, because she will then try to aim my cum to go straight into my mouth!

    I hope this helps. nothingtosee@yahoo. com

  • Apparently a lot of guys don't like them, but I like them haha. They feel awesome and the situation is intimate in its own unique way.

    There is no comparison to doing it by oneself. Think of it this way: you can play with your own hair, touch your own face, feel up most parts of your own body, and hug yourself by wrapping your arms around yourself lol. But they don't compare to someone (whom you like) hugging and touching you, right? The same principle applies to handjobs. It's the mental aspect and excitement over the situation that makes it feel good (i. e. your partner doing it to you) rather than just the technical physical sensation.

  • If it's the only thing she'll do.

    True we can do it better (know what we like), Girls hands are always softer and the fact that she's doing it makes it better.

    It would be like you masturbating alone.. or having a guy that turns you on doing it to you.

  • No that wouldn't work haha

  • I do. Others do too. Maybe others don't. Mileage varies.
    Context matters.
    In bed with a loving, long term companion and a mechanical stroking from a bored, gum chewing masseuse in a rub & tug joint are two entirely different experiences.
    Any sexual activity is first and foremost a brain fuck.

  • I absolutely love it and prob more than a BJ too. I love hands and touch in general so anytime my girl put her beautiful hands down my pants she knows im done. The best is laying down and she takes a nice kama sutra brand nice smelling oil and rubbing it on me and giving me a very slow sensual HJ and daring me to last even 15 mins. A good woman knows how to and wants to learn her man and do everything to make him hold out and really enjoy the massage. Switch and mix up and massage the balls and underneath. Nails are always a plus on a girl too for more teasing and fun. I'd take a HJ any day!

  • i love hand jobs... i prefer to give them to myself though while the girl watches me

  • Yeah I give myself handjobs everyday.
    https://i.imgur.com/g7IsB.gif

  • Prefer handjobs over blowjobs. You can only do a few different things with your mouth. Your hands can do many more things to spice things up with your hands. My wife will entertain herself and me for what seems like hours she has a technique with two hands that makes me crazy. It is the"surprise" factor of a woman doing it for me than me doing it for myself

  • Depends on if the woman knows how to do it.

  • I can give myself a much better handjob any time I want. If a girl is there, I want her to do stuff only she can do.

  • Is the pope Catholic?

  • i dont like hanjobs

    and its better when i do it myself simply because one would know how to touch one's self.

    now if a girl would take the time to learn how to touch me the right way then i might enjoy it

  • Is this a trick question?

  • I like handjobs and if i had a girlfriend would allow her to give me one.
    I love fingering a girl and i love hairy vagina's. You want give a good
    handjob concentrate on the head of the penis, squeeze the head a
    little bit as you watch it swell, tell him how you like his size and how
    swelled it feels. My sister gave me my first handjob when we were teens
    something i do regret cause it was totally wrong but we shared a bedroom
    and beds were next to each other not far apart like they should be.

    • still can't tell if this is a troll or srs

    • @mick05 - I'm serious don't know about the OP

  • They're okay, but if that's the case I'd just do it myself.

  • yes please!

  • Love it. Love the feeling of someone elses had around my hard cock. Aldi they give me sonething hot to look at

  • A guy will like any method to get him to cum.
    Of course a BJ or sex is better. but yes handjobs are fun!

  • I love them it's the soft hands the massaging of the testicles the loss of control. The key is to avoid tugging too hard and too fast at the beginning. Stop and start slow down speed up keep him on edge gently run your hands up and down his scrotum. If you do this well he will shoot and nearly hit the ceiling. If you can find a clip see how Thai masseuses do it , I'm not joking when I say the sensation is quite exquisite, giving the handjob topless is a nice way to do it as well.

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