Do guys like oral more than actual sex?

[Anonymous]

A couple of weeks ago I gave my boyfriend a bj, he came and everything and since then he's been asking for me to do it more and more often he never really asked me to do it until that one time he came and now he's just been frequently asking, I didn't really think I was good at it, I don't mind doing it because I know he likes it & always returns the favor. He told me once that he'd love to wake up to me doing that, but I don't know how to go about doing that. Anyway why do guys like them so much? He would rather have that done then have actual sex (not the first guy to tell me that)

[truthbeknown]

Great question. Honestly, to me a blow job feels better and I have more powerful orgasms most of the time. Sex will always be great too and I can't go without it. I would like maybe 60% bj and 40% sex. I know this sounds lame, but there is less "work" when I get a bj compared to sex. Getting a bj sometimes is just more convenient. Like a after a long day when I am sort tired and blow job is soooo great. Not really in the mood for a full round of foreplay and intercourse. My wife agrees, sometimes it is just easier for me to go down on her, and she sucks me off.

[Theguyoverthere]

It's a personal preference. I notice some guys are extremely into receiving oral and some guys like sex. I hear more stories though about guys being "minute men" and stuff and not initiating a lot of foreplay. So I would imagine guys who like quick ones would probably like BJs where they can just lay back and enjoy.

[SandPlanet]

Some guys do, others don't. I can't blame either for their respective preference, both acts are great.

[psychobarbiex]

Depends on the guy. I've dated guys who didn't like oral, period

[Orion1084]

Receiving oral has always been somewhat difficult for me, so I very much prefer penetrative sex.

I also love going down on a girl, so it's not that I'm against oral, it's just that getting it doesn't really work all that well.

[Dionysos]

We love how a mouth feels. Being stroked by lips and a tongue is awesome. Suction is great too.

A vagina feels amazing, but a mouth can do thins it can't.

[wanttolicku]

I very much prefer oral to vaginal sex, the mouth can fluctuate suction and pressure and provides immediate and endless lubrication. I also prefer giving oral to penetration, so don't think I am only interested in my own pleasure. If I never got laid again, but still had foreplay, I would be a satisfied man.

[Shpongolia]

It's a very close race between oral and penetrative sex. When I'm tired and feeling fatigued, oral is better. When I'm energetic and pumped up, penetrative sex is better.

[wellmademachine]

Depends on the guy really. I like both myself. It also depends on how it is done. What you do for him may be not good to the next guy. Not that it matters since your with him. Every guy that likes blow jobs wants to wake up to a blow job. I don't understand what you mean, I don't know about how to go about doing that? Pull down his pants and start sucking his di$k while he is sleeping. He will wake up right away and pretend he is still asleep for a little while. lol. That is what I do anyway.

[Editor]

Looks like you have a guy who just really likes receiving oral from you. Some guys are really into it and some aren't, and there are a lot who sometimes are in the mood for it but not always. I think the atttaction is that she can stimulate him in more ways with her mouth than with her pussy, and he doesn't have to worry about getting her pregnant.

As for how to have him wake up with you sucking him, just wait until he starts stirring in the morning and go down on him. He'll wake up happy.

[jacquesvol]

I'm not in that group. I prefer sex. I like giving oral, getting it bores me.

[Anonymous]

I like getting oral more than regular sex. I don't think that most guys prefer oral more, but some like myself do.

[Anonymous]

I love giving oral and my man loves recieving it. I learned what he likes and what works and doesn't work. p*rn is a great tool :)

[Anonymous]

I can honestly say, I don't enjoy blowjobs.

[Anonymous]

No way, real sex is much better.