Guys, do guys only give head to women their attracted to?

[Anonymous]

if the answer is yes or no, please explain why it would help a lot. intrigued to know :)

[Wubs3000]

I wouldn't give head to someone I wasn't in a relationship with. And I wouldn't be in a relationship with someone I wasn't attracted to. So no I wouldn't

And even if I had a one night stand, it wouldn't be with someone I wasn't attracted to

[IAteTwoFullHams]

I mean, probably. I don't know why I would be in a room with a woman who had her pants off of I wasn't attracted to her.

That said, I'm not stingy with the head. I'd probably do it for someone I wasn't very attracted to simply because she asked and I wasn't really doing anything else.

This has never happened, however, because women are not typically in the business of casually asking their friends and acquaintances for head.

[Asker]

i see thank you :) appreciate your response a lot. that's the thing, i didn't ask him lol i'm not 100% his type and the lack of effort he puts in tells me that i'm not high on his list. he has also walked ahead of me when pretty more skinnier girls walk by so. he does show signs of attraction toward me.. but he makes little effort to flirt over text or.. much.. so when i heard somewhere that guys only give girls they find attractive head i wanted to see if that theory rang true. i didn't ask this guy to go down on me... he just... wanted to.. i was like wow.. are you sure.. damn ok. haha. saucy minx haha

[Asker]

lack of effort meaning flirting, flirty banter.. i will be the first to do anything like that and he will reciprocate a little but.. it's not... at a level that i would like it to be but meh

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Well, some guys just aren't that chatty. Different love languages and all. Maybe you want him to say "I really like you" and he assumes he's expressing that just fine with his tongue between your legs.

[Asker]

he doesn't compliment me or.. give me much indication he's attracted to me. that's why i'm asking these odd questions haha. i know im not his type completely and i also know he only wants sex with me and not a relationship, that's fine. but i like to feel desired and almost craved. it's so sexy and gets me even more hotter for the person in question. you're right tho. perhaps it's just his love language (or.. sex language so to speak)

[IAteTwoFullHams]

It's not always easy to admit you desire and crave a woman. It's a really vulnerable thing to say. It kind of puts her in a position of power over you. It also sets expectations really high, like now I can't merely have sex with her, I have to ravish her like I'm trying to slake an eternal thirst. Alcohol helps, though. It's way, way easier to tell a woman how hot she is when I'm a little bit drunk.

[Asker]

he has said he has a crush on me before, but soon as a better looking chick comes along he's mr loverman, puffing his chest out like a blowfish. so that's how i know i'm not 100% his type. that was 3 years ago when he said that to me.. and he has never complimented me since. nor does he make much effort to have that playful teasing in text (now and again that's all i would like, not all the time) so what you're saying is you don't want to make a woman feel like you crave her because then you feel like you always need to ravish her? ravishing her should be something that turns you on and fuels more passion to the sex, not something that is forced lol and in the case of the woman's side.. she shouldn't always expect to be ravished but instead mix it up. with me.. if a guy makes me feel like im a fking goddess that he can't wait to get his hands and tongue on... it fuels my desire to do more for him in the bedroom.. sometimes it will make me so horny i will simply push him on his bed and give him a bj. getting him off, would make me happy, then... when he's next ready.. hopefully he returns the favour ^_^

[vampireelf]

I prefer to go down on wlmen i am attracted to. But i got a huge obsession for pussy eating. When i meet a woman who shares this obsession, its more important to me then feeling attracted to her.

[ArtemisSilver]

Usually only in an ltr after testing.

[Ironic_Method]

Yes and they have to be clean.

[Asker]

thanks for the response, do you have any info on why guys don't go down on girls they don't find attractive? x

[Ironic_Method]

Well going down on someone is pretty intimate. I personally wouldn't want to even kiss anyone I'm not attracted to and that's even less intimate.

[Asker]

i see, so even if she's a little bit attractive and say... if you hadn't had sex in a while and was kinda desperate still no? he did it randomly without me even asking and.. he doesn't give me much indication that he finds me attractive.. and keeps me kinda guessing if he finds me hot or not. i know im not 100% his type but i still like all the other stuff that should come with being attracted. like flirty banter.. which he does but.. only if i start it first and he doesn't make much effort. last time tho.. when we kissed and my god.. shit was passionate as hell i didn't expect it lol guess he's attracted to me woop :P

[Ironic_Method]

I might have sex with someone I didn't find very attractive, but I personally still wouldn't go down on them. Sounds to me like he likes you.

[Asker]

i see, sweet hehe thank you ^_^ he's attracted... cool. thanks for your response xxx

[Sparkie460]

I wouldn't be with someone I'm not attracted to. There has to be some type of connection between us before I get between her legs.

[Asker]

thanks for your reply :) x

[Sparkie460]

You're welcome

[Mangospacho]

I do but I’m sure there has been a male throughout history who wasn’t attracted to the person he was eating out.

[Asker]

oh i'm sure, but i'm wondering is it a common thing for guys to go down on someone they don't find attractive.

[Mangospacho]

Probably not as common as full on sex. Unless he was so drunk he didn’t remember who he was going down on, I’d say he was attracted to you.

[Asker]

he def wasn't drunk, he's more into weed and so am i :P sweet so i'd say he has the hots for this sexy curvy chubster. hehe

[Mangospacho]

I would say he is attracted to you. Sounds like you got a good one. 😉 Keep us posted.

[Asker]

good one hahahaha you're kidding right :P he's too nonchalant for me, but you can't help who you're attracted to so :)

[Shy_Steve]

No, Us Straight Guys love giving head to a Woman because we love Vaginas.

[LoyalAffectionate]

Ok. You're either stupid or completely don't understand sex. HEAD only exists on a PEEENIIS!

[Asker]

wow, don't even need to sleep with you to know you fking suck in bed. good luck with that hehe :)

[Anonymous]

Yes, I will only get into bed with a girl I'm attracted to. As long as I'm willing to go to bed with her, though, I will go down on her.