Do guys prefer virgins for wives and if so, why?

[Anonymous]

[D_Bone_Steak]

Virgin... more likely to pair bond, less likely to have to listen to some dude brag about how he banged your girl. Yup... there is perks to a virgin that I can see. Oh she might not know how to suck and fuck like a whore... that's something you can teach her over time, it would be sort of fun getting her good at doing it.

If I had a choice... yeah... I'd go for the virgin chick. I'd know I'm no getting compared to hundreds of guys and all that shit. I can respect her... I mean, a key that opens every door is a good key, but a lock that can get unlocked by a stick with some shit on it is a bad lock. It's sort of like that with chicks... if she's going to slip and fall on a penis every week... she's sort of not what you want if you actually want a committed relationship with loyalty and all that.

Look at the sacrifices made as well. I get with some slut that's probably going to cheat and take half my shit... who is the dumb ass? Are you going to say it's her for leaving a nice guy or are you going to say it's me for getting with a street hoe who can't turn down any sort of attention?

Women have their problems too is all I'm saying. We're made out to be so bad, but women are out there even more so doing more bullshit... they cheat more than men now... doesn't that say something? They're in relationships and having sex more than men now (because they're all fucking the same guys)... doesn't that say something. I mean I'm not complaining because I'm one of the guys you girls cheat on your men with on the regular... I'm top 5%... but you women are shit. Why should I settle for shit? And you women say the same shit and then cheat on perfectly good dudes to come fuck me... and I simply hate your gender after seeing what you sluts get upto.

give me that virgin and make her a midget... a midget clown. I'd work hard to make her happy and she'd at least be happier with me than some entitled slut that probably had a tit job.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I think the main difference between our genders... I can settle down after an ultra-high body count. A woman simply cannot. She gets her numbers rolling, she's probably not going to slow down until she hits the wall and nobody wants her ass... except for meth and other drugs. ... and cats. Like I said... you give me a loyal midget clown... I'll work hard for her. She will be special. You give me the village bicycle that everyone has had a ride on... come on, we all know some kid is going to steal my bike. ... even if I lock her up outside.

[Miristheiss]

Yes.

Why would I agree to be a husband and allow her full access to all of my wealth and home and pledge my fill life to her and take on all of that responsibility and have children with a woman, take her to my family's home and spend holidays with her and my family, take on the risk of divorce and division of assets and alimony when she's already given it up for FREE with some hot guy at the bar or let some losers try out all of their kinks on her all for a couple of dinners?

Endless studies show women lose the ability to pair bond the more they have sex, they are less satisfied in their relationships, they divorce more, have more baggage... the more partners they have.

Why the hell would I sign up for that?

If you want to be a modern, sexually liberated woman. Go be one. We'll F you.

If you want to be a wife and have a life long connection and commitment then be a traditional woman.

F this dumb delusion that you are going to F around like a "modern" woman and then flip a switch and turn into a lifelong, content, loyal, committed, traditional wife with the 30th guy you've F'ed.

That is the BS lie they've been preaching for 40-50 years. All of those millions of people and thousands of years of male/female relationships they didn't know what they were doing. Only us "modern" people know how to have successful relationships.

Go make your career the number one priority in life. Go drink and party and get wild and be drunk and get that out of your system. Go explore and be sexually empowered. Go let tons of guys take you home for one night stands and have threesomes and have sex with everyone you go on more than 3 dates with. Then, after you have done all that for 10 years... then go find some safe fool to pledge all of his property and finances and legally get access to all of his stuff to settle down with. That is how to be a good wife and have a healthy long term marriage.

Modern society has figured out the best way to have healthy, life long marriages and how male/female relationship best work. All those that came before are fools.

Your grandparents and great grandparents who were married for 50 years and raised 2-4 kids, they were simpletons who didn't know anything.

[WhereIsMyMind]

I think most people don't care in western society, as long as you don't hand it out on a plate to anyone that wants a piece. It's hypocritical for men to want only virgin women if they are not virgins themselves.

[Apple1996]

I don't think so. Many men don't care about a womans body count. At least the decent guys don't care..

[Rush_hour]

Who's a decent guy?

[Lliam]

Not me. I wouldn't even consider marrying a woman unless I knew were were sexually compatible. I like grown, heterosexual women with libidos.

I don't give a fuck about virginity. I think placing value on female purity is lame.

None of my girlfriends were virgins. I never asked them or my wife about their body counts and none ever asked about mine. I just knew that they were they type to want exclusive, infatuated relationships and not to have sex with random guys. They were selective and had self respect and self esteem. My wife and I both had full lives before we met and I'm not interested in her sexual past.

[D_Bone_Steak]

How many times have you been cheated on bro?

[Lliam]

@D_Bone_Steak. Never. And I never cheated, either.

[D_Bone_Steak]

That's the answer I expected. Once you are... you won't be the same. Hope you're not... but take a look around... we all get the bullet at some point or another. There are just a few like you that haven't and the rest of us, the majority of us, it's happened and our attitudes change a little after that. You're age 69 though... I'm guessing you dodged all this new shit and have been settled in a relationship or something? ... I mean, I'm just trying to wrap my brain around how you could think it could be that easy in this day and age. Don't you see what I see with the younger dudes... they just get cheated on for basically any reason at this point.

[Lliam]

@D_Bone_Steak. I still think girls who have never had a boyfriend are abnormal. They are either religious or have sexual hang ups. Our values wouldn't align. I'm just talking about normal girls who have been in relationships, not promiscuous girls who fuck for fun. One of the most ill advised things I can think of is marrying someone who has never had sex or a relationship. How could someone expect their first partner to turn out to be the person they want to spend the rest of their life with?

[Billlewis]

No, I want her to be as experienced as possible, and I want to be as close to being a virgin as I can.

[LazerBean]

Most men don't really care.

[Berethor]

Yea I would only marry a virgin, I don't want to marry a dirty ho that would likely cheat. :)

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[LazerBean]

What's your body count by the way

[Berethor]

Why should I tell it here? I am not a player I would say, all you need to know. :)

[LazerBean]

Because being loud about hy you require from others while not wanting to talk about what you offer is what feminists do.

[LazerBean]

Also I'm curious as to what your statistical marriage fail rate would be, and that is based on your body count.

[Berethor]

You married, it easy for you to talk, I don't want to talk about myself but I dislike hos.

[LazerBean]

You dislike hoes but kinda seem like a hoe. Kinda seems silly and counterproductive. Only people who have a shameful history wants to hide their history.

[Berethor]

Men get shamed for being virgins you know, that's why man is like a key. :)

[LazerBean]

Must be bad if you're really trying that hard to deflect. Men only get shamed for being virgins if they are too low quality to keep good company.

[LazerBean]

And if men who were filthy whores were really so valuable, then they wouldn't have the highest divorce rates.

[Berethor]

Because the wife find out about the many side chicks that the chad have. :)

[LazerBean]

So because she finds out that he isn't worth being married to anymore so she takes half his money because his money is all he's good for? Yes I agree. So I guess you already accepted that your marriage is going to fail then.

[Berethor]

I am only going to marry a virgin so my marriage is not going to fail then.

[LazerBean]

Are you not smart enough to realize that chart is based off of YOUR own body count, not your wife's? Your body count is two, then your marital satisfaction just decreased nearly 10 points as opposed to if your body count is only one at marriage. It gets worse the higher that your body count is. Additionally, if you do not marry the first person that you have sex with then the chance that your wife will divorce you just increased by 66%. And gets worse the higher body count is. So what is your body count? By the way you act, I'd say you already know that your odds are pretty bad.

[Berethor]

You think that I am player but I am not, I want a virgin and I am worthy of virgin.

[LazerBean]

If you aren't a virgin then you are a whore, and a whore is all you deserve and a whore is the only one who will want you. That's why you're already old and still unwanted.

[inhua]

yes they do unless they have no options

[BoopBoopBeep]

Many do. I am not one of them. I've no interest in marrying someone I'm not sexually compatible with.

[strateguy632]

i doubt any lady older than 20 is that, in the west... but i definitely would prefer someone who saved herself for "someone who she loved and would commit."

[MementoMori777]

Yea I do prefer it, she's just at her purest and I believe since I've kept my purity, it can make the bond a lot stronger

[Seriouslyitsnotjayy]

Text me?

[MementoMori777]

Sure Why did I get a dislike tho wtf 😂

[exitseven]

It really would not be an issue. I would prefer somebody with a similar body count to my own.

[Goofy9009]

I would be open to dating /marrying a virgin woman.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes.
I'm not saying why because this question has been asked and answered already many times, please refer to the search bar before posting a question.

[DextroShade]

Yes, for multiple reasons:

• It ensures paternity for kids I have with her
• She won't have any STDs
• She won't have baggage or trauma from previous relationships or hookups
• Women who marry as virgins are 80% likely to stay married

[D_Bone_Steak]

Straight facts... Stright gangster in my book my dude. You logical mother fucker.

[Huntingnfishin]

If you're in the Middle East probably. So she can't tell how tiny your dick is my only guess why guys like virgins

[BarryLiverstone]

I don’t

[Sunnybeach123]

I would have no problem either way.

[hardboiledink]

YES, it's all in evolution. If you were a guy would you want a SLUT who could possibly down the line sleep with other men and you end up taking care of the baby not knowing if it's yours?

OBVIOUSLY men prefer virgins and girls who haven't been around the block like a whore

[Seriouslyitsnotjayy]

If you’re a virgin , you can say this but if You’ve probably had so much sex then you’re a whore and you need to shut up

[hardboiledink]

U mad? In actuality it doesn't matter as much for men to be promiscuous. Go read about 100 books on primate evolution and evolution and you will no longer be the self-righteous ignorant fool you are. You think what you believe is what humanity is? How foolish, narcissistic, and selfish you are. Again go start with primate evolution books, evolutionary psychology, and Darwin then you won't be the name calling lame who has no real knowlesge

[Miristheiss]

@Seriouslyitsnotjayy That is up to the woman. Men and women are different and look for and value different things. A woman is 100% free to be with a man, find out he's slept with 10 girls prior and say that is a deal breaker and WALK AWAY. Overall, women just don't care that much about a man's past. Men do. Most men don't give a rat's ass how much money you'll earn in the future and we don't dump girls because they aren't ambitious enough and they won't be a high enough earner in the FUTURE. Women do that. Guys care more about a woman's sexual past then women do about a man BUT women are free to care all they want. Most just don't care. Women care about a man's future and his earnings and career. Men and women value different things. Quit trying to act as if we are 100% the same.

[kellytheman]

Nah I don’t really care if they are a virgin or not if I really love her to make her my wife I don’t care if she already had sex. Besides at my age it’s kinda find a woman my age that haven’t had sex at least once.

[Sasha0426]

I think mainly for relationships, many men wouldn’t mind virgins. Now, if you wanted just hookups, men in the hookup world would want someone experienced.

[BigDog1989]

Different guys like different things hun

[AimeeKyle]

Some may…me personally, no. I would rather be with someone with experience…. and at my age, it’s unlikely to find a virgin (my age or in my perceived age range).