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Do guys pull out before they finish?

My friends with benefits and I hung out and I sucked his dick for awhile (he didn't cum) and then we had sex. It only lasted a couple minutes in missionary and he was grunting and I felt really wet down there and he pulled out. Then he started getting dressed and hugged me and then we said goodbye. I didn't say anything and just let it be. Then when I went home, I saw a small white spot come out of me but that's all. Did he cum? Why would he go all that way to fuck me without cumming?

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  • "We've had sex together for a couple months now. I've given him permission to cum in me since I'm on birth control. So yeah, he knows he can. This time it was shorter than usual, probably because it was late. But he started "moaning" (more like grunting) and he went pretty deep. But when I got home there wasn't very much cum. It was like a small white spot that came out. Which is fine, idc. But does it still sound like he came? I like making guys cum, I wanna know I did a good job. Lmao"

    I'm sorry but I'm going to just tell it like it is. If you cannot ask a simple question to your partner, like, "Did you cum?" then you are not responsible and mature and communicative enough to have sex. That's telling you straight.

    You're young and yes, there's lots of things to figure out, that you don't know. And this is an okay place to ask questions in a relatively safe space where strangers can help you. So kudos for asking, I guess. ?

    But you've got yourself a fuck buddy, and these situations usually don't go/end well. Being on the pill is not enough in a situation like this. You could get an STD that never goes away, and you become infertile or get painful genital warts, etc etc, and pass it along to who knows how many people. What if you get pregnant? Birth control is not 100% effective, and it depends on you being very exact with your routine. And I just saw a story on the news about a pill that has been recalled because women were getting pregnant while being on it.

    The very basics of communication have to happen. He's using you for sex, apparently you're fine with it, and you just want sex from him too, but this is not a good relationship (and I'm using that term very, very loosely, to include all kinds). You said he's a friends with benefits but FRIENDS don't treat each other like this, and they are not afraid to communicate basic information. So he's a fuck buddy, nothing more. These labels and euphemisms soften harsh concepts but don't change them.

    People who can't communicate the basics to each other shouldn't be having sex. Period.

    In answer to your question: No, I don't think he came. There would be a significant amount of wetness that would eventually come out of you. Semen is very elastic, viscous, and more noticeable than your own wetness. It's the same thing with an orgasm - if you don't know if you had one, you probably didn't. You know. But he's doesn't care about your orgasm, right, he just fucks and leaves. This is not a good situation. If you really want to continue in this situation ('situationship', to add another stupid euphemism here), you need to tell him, "Look, I'm ok with us just being casual, and having sex and pretty much nothing else, but we need to be honest with each other. I want you to talk to me more, communicate, otherwise I can't be in this. So, did you cum last time we had sex? And if so, I'm wondering why not?"

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  • I seem to remember reading this very same question only a short while ago.

    • Thank you for the MHO.

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  • No doubt, he came in you. If you are not on birth control then you might want to consider your options.

    Also, guys pull out before they finish as a courtesy. It doesn't mean you won't get pregnant from the intercourse if it is bare. Pulling out only reduces the chances of impregnation but doesn't rule it out, especially if you are ovulating.

    If he normally pulls out either he was being careless or doesn't care if you get pregnant. If you care then you should talk to him and ask him to wrap it up next time because his actions crossed the line and I wouldn't trust him if he made that decision without discussing it with you.

    Finally, he sounds selfish if he wasn't trying to get you to orgasm too and was just going to leave with his cum dripping out your pussy. I would seek a new friend.

  • He must have cum, but it seems kinda weird how he left like that. Hopefully you are on birth control? If not use a condom every time

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  • Pulling out is usually a bad idea. If you're not using birth control then you're rolling the dice.

  • You really can't ask him?

  • How romantic 🤣

    HOIST THE RED FLAG 🚩

    • Did he cum or not?

  • He didn't. This isn't hard.

    • He didn't what?

    • Like he didn't cum?

    • He didn't what? Please dont leave me hanging lmao

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  • I have a vasectomy so if it's going really good I will usually come inside her, but sometimes of course I love to shoot it on the face.

  • If we don't want pregnancy, we will pull out before ejaculation starts.

  • Of course he cummed in you. Cumming inside feels amazing. Most men prefer to finish inside, unless they're told not to.

  • I never do! What's the point?

  • I've never pulled out. With condom or not. Always balls deep.

  • I will had a friend in highschool that was so high he forgot to pull out and got his girlfriend now ex pregnant after that I decided to pull out every time😭

  • Yeah he came LOL

  • When he pulled out did you feel or see a bunch of warm cum shooting out of his cock all over your body or whatever?

    If not then the cum went somewhere. If you didn't see him cum he probably finished inside of you

    • He was inside of me and I felt wet and warm down there while he was on top of me then he pulled out and started getting dressed then left... I looked and a very small white glob came out of me and that's it. Why would he fake cumming?

    • When he pulled out of you didn't see him cum then it's cuz he came inside of you

  • He cummed inside you.

  • Most likely he did, at the absolute least precum

    • So if it was precum then that means he didn't have an orgasm?

    • IF it was precum. Did he thrust really deep before he stopped?

    • Oh god yes it was amazing lol

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  • I don't like to, I like to fill it up.

  • I ask permission before cumming in a girl always... and if I came in you, you'd know it lol

    • We've had sex together for a couple months now. I've given him permission to cum in me since I'm on birth control. So yeah, he knows he can. This time it was shorter than usual, probably because it was late. But he started "moaning" (more like grunting) and he went pretty deep. But when I got home there wasn't very much cum. It was like a small white spot that came out. Which is fine, idc. But does it still sound like he came? I like making guys cum, I wanna know I did a good job. Lmao

    • haha maybe he masturbated earlier and just didn't have much left in the tank?

    • Ok so he definitely came in me tho?

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  • He did cum. I have a question, message me

  • If it is a small spot it could be precum
    Boys can't control it

  • It sounds like he did, not many guys just stop without finishing

  • How old you are who dont know he cum inside you or not?

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