Do guys really feel some type of way when they cum fast?

[Anonymous]

I ended up having sex with my friend and he finished fast but not right away. And after he just kept saying that he usually plans stuff like this out & that this was unexpected. He was telling me how he would’ve done some freaky things to me if he lasted longer. And he sent me a message later and in it he said something about how his performance was bad. Thoughts?

[Alexdude52]

Well, was is bad to you? And from there just let him know how you felt about it in regard to him thinking he was bad. Him thinking that way makes perfect sense, you can tell he really wanted it to be perfect not just with you, but for you. He wanted to make you feel loved and appreciated but feels like he failed and did bad because he did not get to do the other things he wanted as a result from "finishing quickly".

[ND4SPD31]

Yeah. We don’t like to cum fast, at least I don’t. I’d rather take my time & enjoy it & hopefully make her cum first.

[msss98]

Id take it as a compliment

[zoanero]

I assume they probably feel disappointment.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, it's a bit upsetting.