Do guys really like anal or is it exaggerated in porn/media?

I've had multiple partners but no one has ever asked me to have anal sex. But all I see in media, is how much guys enjoy it. I talked to my friends as well, and they all told me that no guy has ever asked or wanted to have anal sex. So is it a myth perpetuated by media/porn? Or is it really true that men enjoy it? If you do enjoy it, how do you think it's different from vaginal sex?
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  • It's not a thing for me. I'm kind of averse to poop and, honestly, it seems kinda gay. Either that, or it is a desire to be super dominant. I don't get it.

    I think you're right that it's something that has been popularized by porn, as if it's the Holy Grail of sex.

    I did anal once with a particular girlfriend. She was hypersexual, orgasmic and uninhibited. It got carried away in the moment one time when I was fucking her doggy style, pressed my thumb against her butt hole, and said "Okay?" She said "Uh huh", so I stuck it in. The thought of filling her completely was erotic. She had a particularly pretty butt hole. So then I asked it I could fuck her ass. I just wondered what it would be like. She conceded, so I put on a condom, used some lube, and fucked her. I don't know if she had ever been fucked in the ass before but she took it like a champ. It was tight and felt good, but I never asked to do it again and neither did she.
    I preferred fucking her clean, pink, warm, snug, responsive, self lubricating pussy. I love pussy juice.

    I do have to say that, once I found her vibrating dildo, I would sometimes stick it in her ass during doggy style. THAT felt amazing and made her cum like she was possessed. It made me cum really hard to. And I'll admit that there was also an erotic aspect to the idea of stretching and filling her completely.

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  • It looks like I am one of a very few men, that were asked if I wanted to try it. Of course, I did, and like the 'DUNCE' I was, I did not know enough to lubricate her rectum prior but did have enough sense to not just 'plow in'.

    Not sure to this day, why she asked me!

    After that, we had anal sex many times, starting with her on her hands and knees, and afterward with her on her back, with her legs very high up so I could penetrate her anus and her vagina if I wanted to switch back and forth.
    I think the attraction, for guys is to be able to penetrate that small, crinkled opening with their penis, AND initially, it is very tight, until the sphincter is stretched a lot.
    To attraction may be 'dimmed' some when she has to stop and go to the bathroom.
    I confess, I did like it and still do, but not sure the practice is good for the woman, in view of it stretching the sphincter too much.

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  • It is mixed.

    Many guys tell me they want nothing to do with it and others only want that and a blowjob... lol

    Do guys really like anal or is it exaggerated in porn/media?

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    Do guys really like anal or is it exaggerated in porn/media?
  • They do like it, it's not just porn. I've been told it feels very good but not as good as vaginal. One big component of anal for men is the power dynamic of it. The girl is completely helpless and totally submitted in that setting.

  • Guys are just happy to be in any warm hole. Generally they'll prefer vagina but if you offer anal most will take it.

  • Yeah I like it. It’s different and adventurous.
    I think 2 things…most guys don’t want to admit liking and most are embarrassed to ask.
    my girlfriend and I only figured out we liked it by slowly experimenting and playing around

  • I have never had Anal sex and I don't have any desire to try it. No woman I have ever slept with has ever requested that we try Anal either.

  • Nope it's not a myth, we do like it, well some don't, but a lot do. Some are just scared to ask for it.

    • I think she means straight guys.

    • @EnglishEuropean You should be in a comedy club..

    • I'm hear till Thursday. Try the veal.

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  • Anal is enjoyable for some guys but it’s not a large portion. It’s tighter but the vag and BJ feels better if done right…


    Never go to porn to understand men’s sexual desires.

  • Honestly a massive dick up a girls ass is just great in my opinion. I love analling a girl. So kinky

  • If this is a serious question, you're watching too much porn. It's an act

  • It's overrated, only attractive because it's taboo

  • It's a myth. Probably most guys are not interested. But the ones that are watch a lot of pern.

  • It's not half as fun as it looks on screen.

    But you've not dated any assmen, and it shows.

  • I do like anal sex, is it better than vaginal sex? It's not to me. If she enjoys anal sex, I will definitely stick my dick in there otherwise I'm quite happy sliding it in her pussy or her mouth.

  • Everything in porn is exaggerated... porn is not reality!

  • I know plenty of guys who like it

  • Never tried it, never will. If a new partner asks for it, it is our last date.

  • Most guys that i have been with liked doing anal

  • Apparently, a lot of guys do. I really don't understand what the attraction is. They might as well fuck a guy! One smelly asshole is as good as the next!

  • It's definitely exaggerated, but I do enjoy anal to a certain extent.

  • not all but now a days its kind of a trend to like anal n get into it

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