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Do guys with small penis avoid sex?

My ex had a small penis. I tried to initiated sex with him two times. First time we was making out and carrasing. I put my hand in his pants to jerk him. He was hard but turned soft when I touched him and was weird about finger me. He seem he didn't like to touch me or I touch him. Then I stopped to go sleep. I tried once more time. I broke up two weeks later because I wanted to start sex but seem no to. Was it me or he nervous about small penis?
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  • Yes , men with small penises (ex. 4 inch length) DO have fear about sex and its normal. Some of them are trying to be sexually active and some of them will never going to have sex in their lives.

    They avoid getting oral sex and getting touched down there because they DO feel embarrassed about their small size. In general everything equal or smaller to a female palm is changing a lot the way that sex can be approached and take place and most women would feel awkward having anything to do with that size.

    This is about a 15% to 20% of men that are not passing the female palm test and most of them choose to be sexyally inactive from a very young age and die alone , living a life with pets in their houses. At the same moment society choose to ignore this problem for 2 reasons
    No 1 , there is not fix for this (forget the surgery it adds less than half an inch)
    No 2 , we DO accept that not everybody is compatible with relationships for many reasons including the length of the penis.

    In fact there is a really small amount of men that will try to approach a women , when they know that they are small and its only a 1% to 5% of all of those guys out there. So at least 3 of 4 small penis guys are out of the game... and my opinion is that maybe this is the right thing to do. Body connection with sex in an amazing way to feel happiness in this life and its normally sad when a man has a disability to connect with a woman's body but that's life ,... and lately women are very open about the size that they enjoy to feel inside their body so hopefully next generations will give children with even bigger male organs as a result of females partner selections.

  • 99% chance he was self-conscious. I was really self-conscious about my penis size and avoided sex because of it. I don't even know what I was thinking because it turns out I have a big dick, just a grower & possibly a moron, but I was really concerned with feelings of inadequacy and choosing no sex over sex because of them.

    I would say it was him being nervous. I know it was him being nervous. You sound like a good girl. It's difficult because it probably wouldn't have helped for you to tell him "I am ok with your dick being small". Maybe you could have playfully said 'next time you better be hard' when he went soft, as if to suggest you are ok with his penis and want it all the same. I don't know what else to say.

    • I was offended. I thought I turn him off. That why I broke up soon later.

    • Ah, I'm sorry to hear that. He wasn't turned off by you. He wouldn't have been hard at all if he wasn't attracted to you.

    • Is it normal for guy to go soft if he is attracted to girl he's with?

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  • I'm not sure the cause. The important thing was that it wasn't working so you moved on...

  • He may have been nervous about having sex not a small penis. Was he a virgin?

    • He was 29 and very attractive. I doubt he was virgin.

  • Not at all; I just concentrate on what I do well. I've become an absolutely amazing asslicker and I can bring virtually any woman to climax that way. I also encourage her to date real men, and I often pay for her dates with other guys. I love licking her clean after she's had sex with a real man and I often serve her as a maid and personal slave, as well.

  • He was prolly nervous about his small peepee. hahahaha

    • I think that was problem now. I feel bad for not giving more time.

    • He prolly thinks that was the reason you left him too. So sad.

  • Probably not, everyone can be horny m?

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