Definitely difficult to navigate. Personally I lean to it doesn't count bc its not the same thing. I've recently figured out I may be bi, and whenever I tell anyone they usually wanna ask well do you have any experience with a man? I do technically, but not consensually. So obviously I didn't like it. But that's not because it was with a man, that's because it was forced. So that's not a good indicator of whether I actually like sex with men. So I think it makes sense, that can't count as real experience.
If you wanna include it ofc u can, even I do with the indicator "technically." But I don't include it talking to people irl. Unless I know then enough to trust them w it, which rn is like 3 people. I usually just don't answer with only a number when asked like that. I make it a full sentence to qualify what I mean. So like "what's your body count?" "I've fucked 4 women." Or "have you done anything with a man?" "I've never been curious about that when I was single. And I don't like cheating." If they don't like answers like that and push for specifics, then nah that's not ur business. I don't say anything else I just look at em until they get the hint that's all they getta know. It helps I'm not usually a kiss and tell now either.
BC is total bullshit.
It does not sort of count... anyone whoever mentions it should crossed off your list fast. They are idiots / assholes.
Just play it safe and you're fine.
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Why do you care? Body count is just like age, it’s just a number. It only means something if you care. To me a woman’s “body count” means nothing except that I know a low body count means I’m going to need to teach her things she doesn’t know, and a high body count means I’m probably going to enjoy the experience more because she knows what she’s doing.
Also how do you qualify it as a body count? Do you count oral sex? Anal sex? Fingering? Sex play with toys and a partner?
Anyone who cares that much about body count is so superficial that I would give them the chance to become part of my body count.
I consider only consensual sex to add to your body count. Sex that you chose to have. Having someone force themselves on you doesn’t count in my eyes because you didn’t choose to do it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would say no. Doing so sets it on the same level as having sex which rape isn't. Sex needs sexual PARTNERS: I can't find that between rapist and victim!!
Sorry you were forced... it is not right at all. It is your body and your choice on what you want to count or not.
PIV it what counts, forced sex is still sex, so yea it's part of a girl's body count.
Doesn't count. They weren't your bodies to add to your count.
Really sorry that's happened to you.
No for me sex is you agreeing to it being forced is sexual assault or rape thats not sex
First off, I'm sorry that you were forced. Second off, it's nobody's business what your body count is. If that's a deal breaker then tell them to go fuck off.
Rape is different from consensual sex
What does it matter, it's just a number.
Some are higher, some are lower.
The vast majority of people have a number.
More up to you if it’s to traumatizing then no
Force = rape. Would a woman who is raped be cheating on her husband? Rape should not count for that.
And every blow job, every anal intercourse, every dick in a club bathroom, every overseas duck, every dick that uses a condom, every dick that didn't cum inside you. They all count.
You should add those zo your police report count...
I did actually! Both went to jail
Good. I think you don't have to count those. But you are either straightforward about it to a guy or just forget it fully. Either one is acceptable.
Duh, the dick is in the vagina... not that hard to figure out.
I was forced and had no say= I enjoyed it but feel guilty about it.
I didn’t enjoy it, it was extremely painful and felt like my vag was being ripped open, I fought until I couldn’t anymore. You have a really warped interpretation of rape
Depends on if you enjoyed it or not
so very sorry you were forced
No, that does not sound like a good thing to do.
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