Do I have any hope at getting married and having a family?

So, I'm almost 34, recently divorced. My first husband was my first.

I basically left because he was a narc, cheating, being abusive, his teeth were breaking and falling out because he didn't brush them, he embarrassed me behind my back, didn't shower, drank two bottles of wine a day, constantly started fights over nothing, ate steak every night and the kitchen smelled like roadkill, he was into really weird stuff, he spent all his money on game boards and dolls, had a sex doll made out of a pillow that sat on the bed, and prioritized people that he met on the internet I've me like two weeks after he met them, and also had a porn collection on his phone and was obsessed with his ex. He left me with nothing.

I'm cute and slim and hopefully people like my personality. I look really young for my age. Twenty year old guys try to ask me out all the time. I have a good job that pays the bills and is not a career.

Would I be able to get a smart guy with no kids to marry me? Someone who's faithful who would treat me well? Someone who wants a couple kids and to enjoy life with me? Or even just one kid. I'm willing to date up to 15 years older than me. I'm just wondering how bad the market is.
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  • Firstly, sounds like you had a lucky escape, glad you got out of what sounds like a bad, if not outright abusive, relationship.

    It's not impossible to find what you're after, I don't know you or have seen you, so going to refrain from commenting on appearance or personality directly but from your description I can't see any reasons to "give up".

    There are loads of single non-parent guys out there, especially in your age range (not counting the 15 years older) and it seems to be increasing. As long as your standards for their appearance isn't sky high (like most seem to have today) then I think you have all the luck in the world ahead of you, and I hope you find someone who will truly appreciate you.

    • That's very sweet, thank you!

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  • Yes, go find the right guy that you describe. It may be harder to find over 30 but you will.
    i have a 29 yo friend who is looking for someone like you for example.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I didn't get married until I was 39 and I had my twins at 40. You absolutely still have a chance of marriage and a family. Just because it didn't happen to you when you were younger doesn't mean it can't happen at all!

    • Bruhh, this made my day. 🤗

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  • sorry that happened to you. Yes it is possible to find that. Just be careful on some of these sites.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • yes.

  • It seems like nothing he did was your fault. You just have to take time off to recover from the trauma that you experienced in your marriage before you re-enter the market.

  • Hey :) I’m 34, I have 2 girlfriends already but there is room for a third to join us. 😘

  • You have to know yourself first. I have never dated because I have not seen a woman who can get past my particular dealbreakers.

  • Er, yes. The amount of people I know that have been married 2 or more times is pretty much all the people I know. Its very normal to be married multiple times and have kids from more than one partner.

  • Do you have any kids?
    How tall are you?

    by the way I am single and maybe...

    • I don't have kids. I've had some not very great experiences dating online, so I want to avoid that. Thank you, thought! 🤗

    • good luck then.

  • Yes you do

  • You may have a hard time finding someone older than you that wants kids.
    If that is really important you should date a few years younger.
    Let guys know up front that you are looking for someone to start a family.

  • You are welcome, if you are willing to relocate

  • Damn I am so sorry that happened to you I do hope you find the man you are looking for. Also someone that is willing to love you and share moments with you. But I know guys like me you definitely wouldn’t want

  • you can find :) follow me?

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