Do I need to have a body of Instagram models to look sexy?

Can I still be sexy to men even if I don't have a body like them? 😕 I am slim w medium? butt and wider hips but my breasts are kinda small.. Something around B cup and small C cup. Yeah.. pear shape ig. I always see men drooling over huge breasts and big butts and it seems like I'm not good enough...

Do I need to have a body of Instagram models to look sexy?
Do I need to have a body of Instagram models to look sexy?
Do I need to have a body of Instagram models to look sexy?

Should I get implants? Like D cup or E cup? I'm embarrassed for my body. I want men to find me sexy and hot not only cute because I have small tits and smaller butt!

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  • You're not good enough. It's true if that's what *you* tell yourself. Let me explain if I came off harsh:

    These are pictures, many times edited, air brushed, and covered in filters. Some of these women have plastic surgery to enhance their features. Online, the things that catch attention are exaggerated, and that's what gets the most attention. Tell me: are these women average? A bunch of plain Janes? No, they're exceptional, that's why they get the clicks and likes. With the tap of a screen, any guy can look at the craziest proportions, but that doesn't mean men as a whole require these caricatures of the female form.

    Men are complex and their tastes vary; what's attractive to some isn't to others. Personally I don't like big butts, I find the sexualization of the buttocks disgusting. Other guys would call me crazy, and some guys would adore your behind more than you're comfortable with. I don't know what you look like, but your description matches a few women I've had sex with. That shouldn't be the reason you suddenly stop worrying though, I'm just a stranger.

    My point is: real life doesn't care about how you look, you do. Don't hold yourself back saying you aren't good enough, your idea of cute is someone's idea of hot. Implants or no: there's someone out there who wants you in bed as soon as he sees you, but you won't know until you have the confidence to try. When you look at real life couples in the world: you'll see a diverse array of people who look happy. Some you don't want to look at, some you envy, some you wish you could steal from.

    They're all different, and many of them are happy. There's nothing about your looks stopping you from joining them, so take the time and find the qualities of yourself you like. Try a new look, talk to a therapist, or just take a spa day, whatever it is that doesn't require you permanently changing your whole body to chase a fake ideal, do that. Desire comes from within, all you have to do is find what makes you sexy before a man does.

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  • the male standards for women ain't really that high. peer pressure doesn't persuade men as much when dictating who is or isn't attractive.

    being decently attractive is enough to attract a man. having a good attitude would keep him there. she don't even need to have domestic skills.

    now if you're referring to men who are the cream of the cream at the top, that's an entirely different story.

    • I'm sure if I had huge tits and big ass men would give me more attention than now 😕.

    • that would depend on what type of man you're trying to attract yes those things would get you attention but not for the reasons they would want

    • So I don't understand why women think that a big ass and big tits are such a big deal. I guess I need to ask you. Where are you getting this idea about the way men see women's bodies? I myself am not that turned on by big tits and ass. Big tits and ass come from porn made by guys. Is just a fantasy and not real. I think they look totally artificial and just not very attractive all. And those guys are pretty superficial. Who wants a guy where looks are his top priority? I dig woman who don't feel the need to change their bodies because they're confident and feel comfortable in their own skin. I would take a woman with your body type over any of those artificial women anytime.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Instagram bodies are nice, but so are natural bodies. In fact, natural bodies are what the Instagram bodies are trying to emulate but because they are not natural, it looks so obvious. Take a four month hiatus from all forms of social media.

    • There are plenty of people in real life that look like all 3 of those women naturally. Why do some women continue to insist otherwise?

  • What makes you think all Instagram models look like that. Most don't.

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  • No you do not but it is helpful.

  • The annoying thing about Instagram is that it is a thirst trap and then girls sit there thinking that is all men are attracted too and all too many guys question why their girls aren’t looking like the girls they see. In truth all guys have different attractions and though they might get caught in some of those dumb traps they usually are actually attracted to something totally different.

    • Hope it's true then..

    • Also… like I’m assuming your picture isn’t one of the ones on the post. But it sounded like it could have been for sure! Your body sounds very attractive from the description you gave. I honestly would be shocked if you are having issues with attractiveness over just timing or personality clashing. I know that is often a bug hindrance when it comes to young love and several young woman grow to believe themselves unattractive when in fact they are breathtaking only had a bad timing.

  • Please don’t try to look like the women in these pics. 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

    And quit looking at Vogue, People, and whatever other nonsense/smut you’ve been looking at that has you convinced that your body isn’t good enough.

  • You look awesome to me! I am getting hard looking at your pics! I would love to make love to you! I will be masturbating to your pics today!

    • That's not me. Those women are ig models..

  • You are good enough your body is fine

    • Do what makes u happy as people say

  • Not at all. Sexy is mostly attitude.

  • I prefer small breasts the most. B > A > C. All of those are > D and larger.

  • 1. You didn't post a picture of yourself, so no one can form and opinion of how you look.
    2. Never get implants for any reason, implants are worse than flat.
    3. Out of the instagram models you posted, I only find the third one attractive, so models are not of equal quality when it comes to any given person's opinion on looks, so do not count them as a teir you have to compete with.

    • What exactly attractive do you find on the third girl?

    • Pretty much all of her. Head shape, thick scalp hair, thick eyelashes, normal eyebrows, wide eyelids compared to face, rounded nose tip, rounded cheeks with soft undefined cheekbones, small rounded chin, weak jawline, low hairline/smaller forhead. Breast size and shape compared to torso, hourglass figure that looks top heavy (bigger boobs, smaller butt), hip bones invisible and collar bones subtle from evenly distrubuted body fat, toned thighs that aren't huge or twiggy, petite arms, no visible body hair.

  • Sometimes a guy will get married, and the woman doesn't treat him the way He wants to be treated. Another woman, at work, comes into his life, and starts treating him better then his wife. The woman at work doesn't look as good as his wife and yet He decides to have sex with her. The next thing you know He's divorcing his wife to be with the woman from work. This is a true story. You see, there is more to it then just how you look on the outside. You got be able to click with the guy, and build love. If you don't have that foundation then all the beauty in all the world won't solve your problem.

  • Stop comparing yourself to other women.

  • Nope, being confident is sexy.

  • No you don't. women with petite bodies are sexy too. You just need to have self confidence and know how to make your positives pop out

    • Guess I won't be self confident with my current body. But surgery can fix that soo...😅

  • Do not get implants

    • I am sure you look just fine

    • I'll probably get 😅 I want to be more confident.

    • Gravity does not like big boobs, and they cause back pain. I am sure your boobs are big enough and pretty

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  • You sure do, babes. Thanks for sharing.