Some call it a stereotype, others call it just plain natural fact:
Guys like girls with bigger breasts.
Some are even willing to say that women with larger breasts actually enjoy sex more, when compared to their smaller-breasted brethren.
Yeah, I know, here come the "it doesn't matter!" screams. Well, if it doesn't matter, why is the subject of breast size such a commonly addressed topic here at GaG? Why are girls asking if guys think their breasts are too small, and why are so many guys flat-out admitting that yeah, it kinda matters? One question involved the possibility of "small breast shaming" and that's a little worrisome, because it means young girls still - and perhaps forever - will always be self-conscious about their bust size.
Let's start with the scientific (oh, don't groan, it's not that boring). If it helps, I'll toss in this casual vid before we go down that road:
Most experts say size really DOESN'T matter
If you do a little research, you'll find that most experts - or even those who are only "experts" 'cuz they have lots of sex with women - claim that breast size doesn't give them any extra enjoyment in bed. And women will say the same; their bust size doesn't seem to have much of an impact. Most experts advise a man spending time pleasuring a woman's breasts regardless of size, and despite every single guy claiming they know exactly what to do in that area, they might still have a lot to learn.
Hey, come on, education is good. Check out this article from Men's Fitness.
Moving on, the woman's perspective:
Ladies say size doesn't matter...on both sides?
It has been hip to say "size doesn't matter" for years. When women say it about a guy's penis, the guy just assumes she's lying. When a guy says it about the size of a girl's breasts, the woman assumes he's lying. So, the obvious question should be:
"If everyone assumes the other person is lying about the importance of size, is there some truth here...?"
Think about it. Sure, it's a stereotype to say that guys with bigger penises and women with bigger breasts "have more fun" but if deep down, secretly, women like guys with bigger members and men like girls with bigger busts, doesn't that mean they've experienced greater pleasure due to size? There's always a kernel of truth in every stereotype, isn't there? If both sexes are being completely honest with each other, maybe we'd find that the sexual experience really has been amped up thanks to things being...well, bigger.
So, can we say that these GaG poll results aren't all that conclusive because stereotypes are getting in the way?
Maybe it's not the size of anything, but the technique and skill that matters most...maybe
Or, we could just forget the superficial stuff and make it easy on ourselves: If you want to have a great time in bed, you have to practice. It's just like anything else; the more you do it, the better you'll get. And size on both sides won't be much of an issue, right? I mean, skilled lovemakers can have a blast in the sack regardless of penis or breast size. That being said, should we argue about the initial appeal? Girls don't get boob jobs to look less attractive to men; of course, they get enhanced so they look more attractive. Maybe reality bites, you know? I refer you to this AskMen article.
So, no matter how good you are, it won't matter unless you get into bed. And to get into bed, there has to be an initial attraction...and that initial attraction does have something to do with a woman's breast size, right? Not to all men, though...damn, this is getting more complex than I intended. ;) Just for fun, here's a vid on college girls and their reactions to the "size matters" issue:
Maybe there's no way tell if breast size actually enhances sexual pleasure, but we do know it matters to most (both men and women). This Debate.org question says 64% of men care about breast size and let's face it, not all guys are being totally honest, so the percentage is undoubtedly higher.
Where do my fellow GaGers stand on this touchy issue?
What Girls & Guys Said
13 30please do spend a lot of time pleasuring breasts
This is funny. Most people don't even know how long an inch is unless they use tape measures all the time.
Yes of course but it should be proportionate to her body... but I think big doesn't always mean better
What the hell? Since when does breastsize determine the quality of sex? :O
Yes, guys like big boobs, and big butt. It doesn't mean the guy will be with her.
I like big boobs, most of the exes were regular size, and we didn't break up because of that.
To me it's sensitivity that matters. I was married to a 34 D and the sex was terrible. I lived with a 34A and you could Crack walnuts on her nipples and they were directly wired to her honeypot. When I was younger I bought into the bigger the better but now size doesn't matter.
Am I really the only one who doesn’t care about boob size? I find that kind of hard to believe that I’m alone here!
I have big breasts and this is a load of bull shit
I have pretty small boobs and my boyfriend knows im insecure about them and i was talking about getting a boob job and he said bigger boobs are better boobs :P :/
I'm so sorry to hear you feel insecure about your breasts. In my experience small/smaller natural breasts are more of a turn on to men then bigger implants, also I've heard you can lose a lot of sensitivity if you get implants. I'm sure your breasts are perfect the way they are :)
@Catscratch thank you, i appreciate that :)
Your boyfriend is a boob. If you get turned on when your boobs are stimulated then they're big enough.
As a woman with larger breasts, let me tell you, they might seem good on paper or in theory, but in real life, they can be a pain. Yeah, they are awesome for filling out clothing, but really a good push-up bra and confidence can do that for you. And there is a flip-side to the clothing, I am 5'2 about 105-110lbs and I have 32DDD breasts, finding clothing is ta bitch, my bras never cost less than $70 and they are not sexy (like my grandmother has sexier bras than me, Nuns too). Most guys, while appreciating their mass, find them rather cumbersome as well for any activities. If you were to get implants, I doubt you would probably jump a large size such as mine, but they will change how you look and feel. If you really feel that implants would make you happy, by all means get them. But never do it because you think that your boyfriend would find you more attractive. But, in my opinion, your boobs probably look amazing on you, and I hope you can embrace them. There is no master boob size:)
@aimeestuart.. Before my BR I could have beaten you easily as I was a 34FF.. I couldn't agree more with what you have written especially about purchasing bras.. I used to have mine custom made purely to get the correct and proper support and comfort I desperately needed.. Five years ago these were costing me around the same price that you are paying for yours now. And just one more thing I would like to add, and that is, it is only when you have a reduction done that you will/may lose some sensitivity in the nipples, as I have sadly experienced.
Hell yea tits size matter lol She was a 3/10 and then grew up to 8 so yea it matter
For me I like massive breasts
A big butt and large breasts is always a plus
im a small tits guy
YESSSSSS
yes, it does.
Obviously breast AND penis size matters to EVERYONE.
Everyone has preferences, and if someone says "it doesn't matter unless it's too big or too small" then IT FREAKING MATTERS.
As long as you dont care about my penis size your good. (Im just around average)
Nice take that
It does play a part.
Bigger boobs does make her more attractive.
During foreplay, bigger boobs are nicer to fondle and play with.
During sex, bigger boobs tend to move and jiggle about a lot more than smaller ones especially during hard and fast thrusting.
Big tits are a major turn off for me.
I would rather small firm tits with no stretch marks, visible veins, or sag.
Is your aversion to large breast based off just those things? What about natural large firm breasts with no stretch marks, visible veins, or sag?
@aimeestuart Natural large breast are not firm, they sag naturally and stretch marks are a by product of them hanging.
Go on InPrivate browsing and google "small boobs nude" and you will see hundreds of web sites loaded with pictures of naked small boobs. Yes, there are some guys who actually prefer small boobs and it is not just one or two guys.