Do longer nipples look bad when braless because they are obvious?

Ok so my boyfriend got angered when I didn't put a bra on when people came over the house. That much was known about it

I was just being comfortable at home but he got angered because I didn't put a bra on after people came over so over the last few weeks I kind of got it out of him that he says that because I have longer nipples, it looks bad because it's obvious when I'm braless because of the nipples

Remember I was at home and people came over and I didn't know they were coming over. This was not out and about places. It was at home

I think he is being unreasonable but I thought I'd ask guys or girls since the only opinion I have is from him that larger nipples look bad so they need a bra

Does it look really bad if it's obvious that someone is braless because their nipples are longer and obvious?

Thank u! :)

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  • It certainly doesn't look bad. It actually looks fine.

    I don't see the problem. Everyone knows that women have boobs. It's obvious. Are boobs behind a shirt indecent? And boobs have nipples. Duh. Why would nipple points behind a shirt be indecent if boobs behind a shirt aren't?

    I don't know how bras became mandatory attire beneath women's clothing. I'm glad that more and more women are dressing for comfort, whether it's with or without a bra. I'm sick of prudes and perverts making women uncomfortable.

    Does anyone notice when a man's nipples are visible or make points behind their T-shirt?

    I celebrate women who are comfortable in their own bodies.

    It sounds like your boyfriend is old fashioned, jealous and possessive. He doesn't want anyone else looking at you. But that's his problem. You did nothing wrong.

    He needs to grow up and stop trying to act like your daddy. You're not a child. You can do what you want and dress how you please.

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  • We don't like our girl being overtly sexual in front of other men, particularly our friends. Now obvious nipples is, in our book, overtly sexual. I have felt awkward on the visitor side because you cannot but noticed them but you shouldn't. You are uncomfortably being roped in on perving on your friends girl.

    If you were going out somewhere then I would think it was your intention to get male sexual attention and were deliberately wanting to arouse them. You might just want to be comfortable etc but that is what I would think and it would anger me. It is a small act of infidelity. Small but still an act of infidelity.

    OK, it was a surprise visit but you should have put a bra on.

    I don't what long nipples mean - some girls can hang a belt on their nipples. But if they were obvious you were wrong.

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  • Not at all. We all have nipples, they are perfectly natural and come in all different shapes and sizes. I wonder why he thinks it is an issue? Very strange. We can choose to wear a bra, or not wear one. It is not really his opinion that counts. Personally, I rarely wear a bra and never at home. My mum, sister and many friends are the same. I think our normal natural shape and natural movement is great and doesn’t need to be concealed inside an uncomfortable bra. At home you should be relaxed, comfortable and braless!

    • I just noticed you are in the US. I have found a very weird obsession with making sure nipples don’t even show through clothing there. Strange.

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  • It looks amazing 👍 my nipples point obviously even through a bra anyway lol i used to go braless all the time when I lived near the beach but my husband loved it.

    Some guys are just more jealous and don’t like anyone else to see anything of their girl.

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  • In my opinion, I find pokey nipples to be quite attractive.

  • If you got cow utter nipples yeah they look bad in my opinion if not the nipples are fine but I think you should at least put a bra on or a sweater if men are around..

  • Women can go topless like men for all I care.

  • Look bad? No they don't. May not be what he wants but he's not in charge of you.

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    • Ofc!

  • Obviously you knew the look you were creating but it probably wasn't exactly the look your friends were expecting, not that they would have said anything there and then anyway.

    However, what was stopping you excusing yourself for a moment and putting one on?

    • Oh well I was not really expecting people to come over. I didn't see the need for a bra at home when they just popped over

    • Well of course that is entirely your prerogative. However, I feel I do have to side with your boyfriend on this occasion.

    • It sounds like the only one who was bothered was the boyfriend.

  • Mine are medium and I think it looks great to go braless!

  • No, they don't.

  • I don't think it looks bad. If you're comfortable not wearing a bra then I don't think it should be an issue. Just because you have longer nipples shouldn't be an issue.

  • I like the look of long nipples.

  • No heterosexual guy would think that. Long, thick nipples look challenging. Are you man enough?

  • This is definitely a case of your body, your choice. I don't change my clothes if someone comes to my home unless I'm expecting them

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  • The form of prominent nipples has never looked bad to me. Maybe he’s just embarrassed even though they were clothed.

  • If they're long enough to stick out under the bra - it would not matter if you wear one, or not :)

    In all other cases he could be well advised to notice that what others may only SEE - is what HE (only, I suppose) is blessed to play with.

  • Bad? No, not at all.

  • I think they look attractive. I also think it's your body so you can wear whatever you want. Hopefully he will accept that if you tell him you're going to wear whatever you want and he can wear whatever he wants.

  • I think longer nipples look great, The only problem iz thst I'd wBt to lick and duck on them when I can't nor should be thinking about you that way. Otherwise I think they're amazing.

  • I think it depends on what kind of reactions you want to get from other people. Are you trying to turn on the people who came to visit? If not, then you should of put on a bra or nipple covers. But if you don't care what kind of reactions your going to get, then do as you. It was in your own house. As for your boyfriend, that is another matter. His feelings are important too. You and Him will need to work that out between you two.

  • You would definitely be arousing the guys - I love pokies and long nipples. I would be polite and not stare or comment, unless I thought that is what you enjoyed.

    I loose tshirt or top that hangs off your boobs and nipples is a hot look.

  • Kate it is your body and your choice not your boyfriends. I say be comfortable and it was at your place. I'm a horny 18 yr old so of course I like the braless look... I think it is hot. Besides they are only nipples showing. Girls get to see guys with boners in their pants... what is the difference?

  • It's fine, I think. Nothing wrong with going braless if you want. Long nipples look fine and if it offends anyone they don't need to look. I've been to topless beaches where you see all kinds of nipples. Nothing to be self-conscious about.

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