If a guy uses her for sex and then ignores her afterwards, she then messages him saying that she is hurt and feels used, does he even care that she is upset or feel guilty about what he has done?
I think this question touches on human psychology and it's applicable to both guys and girls.
1) if the person was badly hurt before and many times, then I think when the person learned the skills to manipulate another's mind to do something (like sex), there's probably little or no remorse/regret.
2) if the person was hurt before, but still able to keep a conscience, then after a successful manipulation (for sex), the person may justify the act (like I was. Hurt before too) or / and feel some regret. Action wise depends on which part of his conscience takes over.
3) case there the person is not hurt, but a player, then if the person takes it as a challenge or "cheaper than prostitutes", then likely the remorse is little or none also.
3b) not hurt but manipulate "just for fun", then perhaps TV shows are true, that these may apologise and work out a common ground.
4) finally a newbie and instead was hurt, the seed of revenge is sown. This may mature into a Player or someone you described.
I think I'm case 2. But I don't play with others feelings.
Most (not all) of the men who do this are men in the top 10% of the attraction scale as rated by women, and they tend to be players and narcissists, so, no, they don't care at all. The only person they care about is themselves. They don't take women seriously or have any respect for them as a rule.
Occasionally, a man outside of that group will do this, and he's either also narcissistic, or he knows the woman's promiscuous past and has put her in the "for recreational use only" category. Finally, a small percentage just screw up or panic and just ghost her because they don't know what else to do. Some of these men might care about her feelings, but none of the others I described are likely to.
Most "relationship men" don't do this in the first place.
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The key point there would be using, whether it's for sex, money, attention, whatever. If you're using someone, it's a stretch to even look at them as human. More so they're a tool, either a one time expendable, or something to keep being used like a lever.
How they feel only matters as long as they're useful for amusement, usefulness, pleasure, what have you, once that's expired, they're used, and they no longer matter. There's probably only 3 or 4 women over the last 20 years for me personally who haven't been used.
One thing I've found is after you get used yourself if makes you a lot more likely to grab onto other people and try to hurt them, and dehumanize them as may have happened to you. Then it just becomes a habit you don't think about until you have to think about it because there's someone you don't want to lose.
If you used somebody for sex from the start why would you care? I don't get how you doubt this
Speaking for myself, I feel bad when this happens. …but not so bad that I change how I behave sexually.
That's not a "guy thing" that's a "that guy thing." If he felt guilty he wouldn't do it. Or he'd reach out. Same as every other person out there. Do women that falsely claim rape feel bad about it? Do women that don't tell the father the kid's not them feel bad about it? See it's not a "guy thing." Both sexes do F'ed up stuff and no they don't feel bad about them or they wouldn't do them. The ones that WOULD feel bad about it don't do it to begin with.
Excuse my bluntness but at your age, you should know the game by now. You might have even been married before and not had to deal with this. We can talk about his likly abusive nature that all guys seem to exhibit, or we can understand that sometimes the grass is dead on the other side
In my experience they come back for more
"Use her for sex" ? How did that happen? Did she have sex imagining that it would lead to commitment?
That doesn't work.
A woman can't trade sex for love or commitment. If she has sex because she wants to have sex, then she can't be used.
considering lady has pleasure nerves same as everyone the phrase "used" is wrong. such messages would be considered "manipulation" and not feel bad. also ignore due to busy so she is either lying to manipulation or misunderstood wrongly.
No because he got what he was after , if he cared he would of showed that he cared
My guess is that some of them don't!! All they care about is getting some pussy!! Once they get it, they want nothing more to do with you! I should know, I had 2 guitarists in my band that were like that!! Even if they WERE married or had steady girlfriend's, they STILL fucked around!! As soon as they got that pussy they were after, they never wanted anything to do with her again!! Even if the girl came back for more!! It just baffles the fuck out of me why so many girls are so INCREDIBLY fucking stupid to give up their pussy to guys like these but, when they have someone like me who's kind, loyal, caring, very loving and wants a LONG-lasting relationship trying to win their heart, they want NO part of THAT!! But, they SURE KNOW WHERE I AM when they need a shoulder to cry on when the guy they DID pick treats them shit!!
If they cared, they'd be honest and upfront about their intentions in the beginning.
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