Of course I know not everyone is the same, so this is why I'm asking; to get opinions from a wider audience.
I'm just sharing what I've experienced.
Most of my sexual experiences were when I was a teenager. I'd find that some of the younger guys loved the idea of making a girl cum, but they were way too excited in the moment and how it felt for them, and so it never really led to me having my orgasm.
I'm 24 now and I've only had 1 sex partner since I was 19. He was okay, he did want to please me, but he didn't really know how to work my clit or anything (even though I would try and show him numerous times) so again, it didn't happen. I kinda just gave up on that and enjoyed the P in V instead.
Is it just a case of most men don't have the effort/ enthusiasm to help a woman reach orgasm during sex? Or is it just not no.1 on the to-do list whilst in the act?
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