Do men care about a woman's orgasm?

Of course I know not everyone is the same, so this is why I'm asking; to get opinions from a wider audience.

I'm just sharing what I've experienced.

Most of my sexual experiences were when I was a teenager. I'd find that some of the younger guys loved the idea of making a girl cum, but they were way too excited in the moment and how it felt for them, and so it never really led to me having my orgasm.

I'm 24 now and I've only had 1 sex partner since I was 19. He was okay, he did want to please me, but he didn't really know how to work my clit or anything (even though I would try and show him numerous times) so again, it didn't happen. I kinda just gave up on that and enjoyed the P in V instead.

Is it just a case of most men don't have the effort/ enthusiasm to help a woman reach orgasm during sex? Or is it just not no.1 on the to-do list whilst in the act?

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  • One of my biggest turn ons is going down on a woman. I can do it for as long as she likes and it makes me happy to give her pleasure. It's important for a man to be patient and make sure his partner is also getting a lot of pleasure too.

  • When I am in relationship and it reaches that level, her getting hers first is my #1 priority, as many women just cannot climax during intercourse.

  • I know I do!

  • You sound difficult, women I get with aren't so picky and it's easy to make them cum.

  • I want to make my girlfriend orgasm so much, that I don't care if we even get to the actual sex as long as she gets off and I feel good.

  • Only if they care for them more than their own orgasm.

  • yes i care 100%

  • I do every time. I don't like to cum until I know they are ready for the session to be over

  • I can't answer for everyone but that is the only reason to make love is to give pleasure to the other person.

    • and some of that falls on you does the word Communcation a word that is used in a relationship tell him talk to him after all this time you both should know each other completely.

  • I care and love to watch a woman cum

  • I care, it’s hot to watch a girl orgasm and I like to do that for her

  • Love watching a woman's face as she orgasms

  • without that a sex is failed one!

  • Fuck yes I do

  • I feel bad for the women who their partner doesn’t know or care to help them orgasm too. It’s not just about us cumming! Lol.

  • Some guys are selfish or don’t have the patience, they usually care but don’t know how to get her to climax as fast as it happens to us, it’s best to use oral as foreplay so she doesn’t take as long during intercourse

  • I personally do, that's the priority

    I can cum like 10 minutes or so into the session, much easier than her, but if I do so it won't be enjoyable for her

    So I always put in effort to restrain it and when I get close to cumming I do oral for her so that she gets close too and I kind of cool down at the same time

    Then in missionary style we both orgasm at the same time, once she orgasms, I would let go and within few strokes I would cum too

  • Why do you expect him to work your clit for you. He's already doing all the hard labor. Take some ownership for your own pleasure.