Guys, Do men care about vaginal and anal appearance?

[Anonymous]

I've been told I dont look like women in porn and that I should have surgery and put bleach on it. I just want to know do guys actually care about that stuff? My areas are dark and not pink and “tight” is what he called it. And my acne is disgusting. I dont ever even want to have sex ever again I am terrified. I just…I really do need to know. Do guys care?

[Anonymous]

The reality of it is, yea appearance is everything but the guy should be happy he’s getting to the pot of gold at this point! But honestly it doesn’t matter to me much anymore. I’d say the younger guys and girls it would.

[Opinion Owner]

But don’t worry about what everyone else thinks. Just do what u like and what u think is best for yourself.

[Asker]

At this point being alone is whats best for me apparently. I figured that would be the case.

[Opinion Owner]

Aww I’m sorry to hear that. Wish we could talk more if you wanted to.

[Opinion Owner]

For ur update: yeah anything to make u feel worse because of them breaking up with u

[Berethor]

Most guys don't care, pussy don't have to look good, it have to feel good, surgeries are bad.

[Asker]

Thank you. I forgot about that. Never did get a complaint about the feel of it.

[Berethor]

That's sad, a man never told you that he think that your pussy is feeling good?

[Asker]

I mean they never said I didn't feel good. I have been told it feels awesome.

[Berethor]

Good, so if it feels awesome then stop worrying about how it looks, it don't matter. :)

[PositiveFlight]

The good ones don’t care. Well let me rephrase by saying that good guys do care but because they love you for who you are, they actually find you beautiful the way you are and don’t expect some porn oriented look with the woman they love. Porn and fashion is a complete disservice to love and relationships because it paints an unrealistic picture of fakeness. Trust me, if a guy is judging the intimate parts of your body on some standard that is based on lies, get as far away from him as possible! You don’t need that type of superficial toxicity in your life.

Make room in your life for a man who is honorable, respectful, and mature. Someone who doesn’t have a benchmark for your body that is based on absolute rubbish. I would actually be turned off if I was with a girl and knew everything I’m seeing on her body is actually modified or fake. I want the correct skin tone and color of her parts as it is naturally, I want the pubic hair on her, I want the natural and unmodified breast size, I want a natural bum size, etc. I want her to just be simple and comfortable in her own skin. Anything else is unfair and objectification. That’s not love at all!

[molonski2]

I certainly do , and love the detail of a little bleach , and a very well kept vagina and anal , I think its extremely important.

[Dargil]

So far as they are healthy, I do not. If you are talking about dark pigment, it is common.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes guys care, not so much regarding color and whatnot but the acne is a huge problem. Thats a medical issue, you should get it cleared up.

[Asker]

I've tried.

[genericname85]

i mean akne is never a visually appealing thing. and looks do certainly matter but preferences obviously vary. so just cause one man didn't like what you have should not make you conclude that you're obectively ugly. you were just not his cup of tea.

[Alex-Snow]

I could care less

[NerdDG]

I'd really care about a hot pussy ^^

[dudeinohio]

I don't care at all.

[2021biguy]

Guys don't care about what color your pussy or butt hole color is😊

[REX_JSWL]

Most guys are not but Guys with different fetishes can be selective
Like If someone has a foot fetish and you give them dirty feet then it would be a turn off

[Asker]

Fair.