I don’t “expect” sex on the first date, but I do, of course, want it. I am always hoping for it.
Nowadays, I often meet girls and arrange dates online. So, it’s easier to manage those expectations up front. Ideally, I want the night to end in my hotel room. We don’t need to have intercourse that night—but I’m hoping something exciting happens.
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LickwidSkieXper 4
1 y
I'm sure some guys do, but I'd venture to guess the majority don't. Personally, I wouldn't like it if a woman tried to have sex with me on the first date because that'd make me wonder how many other guys she's been with, what kind of value she actually puts on sex & relationships, and if she has any STDs.
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OfMiceandMenGuru
1 y
I never expect anything on the first date other than try to get to know the person. Not even a hug or kiss. I have to know we are compatible first before any physical stuff comes into play.
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EmmaMaryMaster
1 y
Considering they're always being led by their knobs, it's what they naturally expect!
However more often than not, what they want and what they get, can be two very different things!
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Twalli
1 y
Wanting and expecting are not the same thing.
Adam1978Guru
1 y
Only if you have that reputation and he is just after a hookup. Never in a relationship courting. If you do it in the later you are more likely to be shifted into the first category.
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mrmonogamousXper 6
1 y
Well, I certainly never did. If someone was willing to have sex with me before at least a month and a half of dating, I would not want to continue in that relationship. That level of promiscuity is not attractive to me.
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WanderingLoveWizardYoda
1 y
No...
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slatybMaster
1 y
I don't expect it and may not want it. On a first date I don't expect anything except civility. This worked for me when I was dating. I never had to ask. Women let me know what they wanted.
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KaiidiraXXper 6
1 y
Some do I have found. I am sure even many who dont expect it would take it if offered
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iSensei
1 y
Yy i dont expect that
PrinceWalnut
5 mo
I don't expect it but certainly wouldn't say no
mobiusforninerYoda
1 y
No.
I casually dated a girl who came to my house on our third "date". She undressed to her bra and panties and I still turned her down.
She told me "this has never happened to her before". I kissed her head and said she's "better than that" and i took her home.
I beat myself up over that one... for a long time.
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Wade12345Xper 6
1 y
Not at all. Quit watching Charlie Sheen re-runs.
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oddwaffleYoda
1 y
No but we really want to know if you are open to it by the end of the first date. Send a clear signal of some sort and not the dubious "not sure". Don't go on a second date if you don't like what's going on.
Too many women just go along for free meals and never have any intention of progressing forward. It's worse than getting scammed. The guy got strung along like a fool.
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BricealanGuru
1 y
No, and I feel that is REALLY PRESUMPTUOUS for a guy, any guy to feel that he is entitled to have sex on a first date "Because I spent a lot of money" ?
I have been 'lucky", I suppose, in that I have had sex on a first date on many occasions, and on others, received a hug and kiss, and a "Thank you". I never expected to have sex on a first or a second for that matter, but if it happened, all the better.
"He who expects 'nothing' is never disappointed"
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HighValueGuru
1 y
Men that want an exclusive LTR don't expect sex early on. Men that just want to use someone for casual sex want it right away. The reality is though that the majority of good men are family oriented want someone that isn't past 30, so you are far more likely to encounter guys only looking for sex.
My advice would be to try dating single fathers if you want someone for an exclusive serious LTR. I hope that helps.
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JdjfjcjjXper 6
1 y
I never expect its certainly the goal
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DargilMaster
1 y
I wouldn't want it and would decline it. That includes a "thanks for dinner" blowjob.
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RavVidGuru
1 y
I wouldn't but I might try it on.
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sheenagwapaExplorer
1 y
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Fireguy17Guru
1 y
I never did or do expect sex on the first date. it can and has happened, it really just depends on who you are with and how the evening went. Sometimes it just sort of happens, and you are pretty much undressing each other with your teeth before you get into the house. Other dates it can take a month or so before one or both of you are ready to have at it. Sex will happen when it's the right time and not before.
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I don’t “expect” sex on the first date, but I do, of course, want it. I am always hoping for it.
Nowadays, I often meet girls and arrange dates online. So, it’s easier to manage those expectations up front. Ideally, I want the night to end in my hotel room. We don’t need to have intercourse that night—but I’m hoping something exciting happens.
I'm sure some guys do, but I'd venture to guess the majority don't. Personally, I wouldn't like it if a woman tried to have sex with me on the first date because that'd make me wonder how many other guys she's been with, what kind of value she actually puts on sex & relationships, and if she has any STDs.
I never expect anything on the first date other than try to get to know the person. Not even a hug or kiss. I have to know we are compatible first before any physical stuff comes into play.
Considering they're always being led by their knobs, it's what they naturally expect!
However more often than not, what they want and what they get, can be two very different things!
Wanting and expecting are not the same thing.
Only if you have that reputation and he is just after a hookup. Never in a relationship courting. If you do it in the later you are more likely to be shifted into the first category.
Well, I certainly never did. If someone was willing to have sex with me before at least a month and a half of dating, I would not want to continue in that relationship. That level of promiscuity is not attractive to me.
No...
I don't expect it and may not want it. On a first date I don't expect anything except civility. This worked for me when I was dating. I never had to ask. Women let me know what they wanted.
Some do I have found. I am sure even many who dont expect it would take it if offered
Yy i dont expect that
I don't expect it but certainly wouldn't say no
No.
I casually dated a girl who came to my house on our third "date". She undressed to her bra and panties and I still turned her down.
She told me "this has never happened to her before". I kissed her head and said she's "better than that" and i took her home.
I beat myself up over that one... for a long time.
Not at all. Quit watching Charlie Sheen re-runs.
No but we really want to know if you are open to it by the end of the first date. Send a clear signal of some sort and not the dubious "not sure". Don't go on a second date if you don't like what's going on.
Too many women just go along for free meals and never have any intention of progressing forward. It's worse than getting scammed. The guy got strung along like a fool.
No, and I feel that is REALLY PRESUMPTUOUS for a guy, any guy to feel that he is entitled to have sex on a first date "Because I spent a lot of money" ?
I have been 'lucky", I suppose, in that I have had sex on a first date on many occasions, and on others, received a hug and kiss, and a "Thank you". I never expected to have sex on a first or a second for that matter, but if it happened, all the better.
"He who expects 'nothing' is never disappointed"
Men that want an exclusive LTR don't expect sex early on. Men that just want to use someone for casual sex want it right away. The reality is though that the majority of good men are family oriented want someone that isn't past 30, so you are far more likely to encounter guys only looking for sex.
My advice would be to try dating single fathers if you want someone for an exclusive serious LTR. I hope that helps.
I never expect its certainly the goal
I wouldn't want it and would decline it. That includes a "thanks for dinner" blowjob.
I wouldn't but I might try it on.
dear not jealous at qll 🤣🤣🤣🤣 of this image
I never did or do expect sex on the first date.
it can and has happened, it really just depends on who you are with and how the evening went.
Sometimes it just sort of happens, and you are pretty much undressing each other with your teeth before you get into the house.
Other dates it can take a month or so before one or both of you are ready to have at it.
Sex will happen when it's the right time and not before.