Do men express their love through sex? Is it true?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

Men MOSTLY express their love through work and sacrifice, whether that's earning money, providing protection (often at risk to himself), or doing difficult tasks so you don't have to. He'll even do things he hates doing - maybe going to visit your relatives (who, perhaps, he doesn't relate to or get along with) to make you happy. Yes, sex is also another way, but not the primary way. You need to understand that plenty of men will have sex with you even if they have no other interest in you, so sex should never be the measure of a man's love for you.

[Asker]

I am glad to see that some men have good thoughts here. Those who do not look at women only for sex, who understand the true meaning of love.

[Bricealan]

Supposedly, men give 'love' to get sex... and women give sex to get love... I sure hope that is not true, as that means we use each other to get what we want sexually/relationship wise, and that is sad to think about.

To believe that, is to believe that SEX and LOVE are mutually 'exclusive', and that we can't have both, with our mate. Men should be able to express their love for their mate and MANY ways... not just in the bedroom.

If a man truly loves his mate, and makes sure that she knows that, it seems that sex would always be a part of the relationship.

[Asker]

Great answer

[Asker]

I am glad to see that some men have good thoughts here. Those who do not look at women only for sex, who understand the true meaning of love.

[Bricealan]

Well, thank you. I am sure my attitude is also held by others also, BUT it takes some living to really understand what we are talking about here. True, some men look at women as sex objects, and that can be really pathetic on every level... A MATE, must be looked at as a 'life partner' for men to have a realistic view of the value of a woman in their life.

[Leapfrog00]

This is such a good question. I see you're onto us guys! lol. Yes, some of us do express our love through sex. Every guy is probably different how they go about doing it.

I know when I'm having sex with her, I like to caress her face, kiss her neck lightly, and stare into her eyes, instilling my feeling into her soul. When I'm inside of her, I feel like I'm sharing a part of me with her, and I feel that it's my way of showing how much I love her. Also, if I cum inside the girl, I feel like I'm giving her apart of me because I love her, and I wouldn't just do that with anyone. It takes a certain level of trust to have unprotected sex.

[inhua]

no. women express their love to men through sex

men express their love to women by doing everything else

a man can fuck a woman he hates or a woman he's not attracted to at all. a woman can only fuck a man she loves and is attracted to

[BoopBoopBeep]

All dogs are mammals but not all mammals are dogs. When we care about someone, we use sex as a way to show it, but we don't have to care about everyone we have sex with. I didn't even like some of the people I had sex with and they didn't like me.

[TheThingALing]

No that false. I think you were referring to how men feel loved in a relationship through sex with their girl

[Summeroflove]

If it’s after marriage. But before marriage. Oh probably not. They’re just getting off

[Asker]

So after marriage men express it through sex?

[Summeroflove]

Yeah Asker. If someone waits until marriage to have sex. Likely there is a deep romantic bond.

[Asker]

I like that kind of men. Wait till marriage and have some purity in your love.

[Summeroflove]

Exactly! That’s how I am. Now I don’t need a virgin. But I do need someone who is on the same page as far as morals and personal beliefs go. Divorce is so high because people marry for the wrong reasons

[RespectfulGuy]

Yes, I agree with this answer. I may not say "I love you" a lot, but I truly view sex as an expression of my unspoken love.

[Summeroflove]

@RespectfulGuy ehhhh. There is a lot of other ways to show someone you love them. If you’re only respectful to get sex. Women can pick up on that

[Summeroflove]

And they know it’s disingenuous

[Asker]

@summeroflove agree

[Summeroflove]

Yeah it’s really sad. A lot of people become bitter with the opposite sex. But reality is. It’s a people problem in general not one or the other. Still a lot of great people. As far as being disingenuous goes, at least most women do legitimately appreciate a nice gesture. But there is some “nice” guys who feel they’re entitled to sex by doing something nice for a woman. It’s creepy and they always turn into real dick heads when they don’t get their way

[Asker]

I am glad to see that some men have good thoughts here. Those who do not look at women only for sex, who understand the true meaning of love.

[RespectfulGuy]

Glad that you accept our replies. TBH, I was bad at communicating emotions and often misunderstood as cold and heartless. But hey, I do care and sincerely, my expression of love is via sex, which (regrettably) sometimes, women thought as creepy.

[Summeroflove]

Thanks Asker. Yeah I don’t only want sex there is some men who want to use women for sex. Yet get so angry when they’re used for money etc etc… Honestly I think it’s disgusting to look at someone as a sexual object I just wanna find someone I love and marry her and then we can…. Do other stuff if they makes sense

[Summeroflove]

@RespectfulGuy ehhhh. It’s normal to find overly sexual behavior creepy. Unless she’s well… a slut.

[Dargil]

I changed her tire in a driving cold rain in the dark after driving 20 miles. That is an unmistakable expression of love. But I also do it when I give her my best, most eager cunnilingus.

[RavVid]

Of course we do.

[FilmGuy93]

Nope. Not primarily. Men love sex, but we express our love through other means.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats one way yes, but I also have no issues talking about how I feel about anything.
I'm still a virgin (I'm picky), but sexual affection would be the primary way I'd express love if I had a wife.

[Iron_Man]

Through everything

[Asker]

Everything for example?

[Iron_Man]

Of just been together doing things in life everything

[Jamie05rhs]

In a relationship, yes.

[clampfan101]

I am more eager to experience romance than sexuality. I of course want both, but romance is the love language I wish to speak the most.

[dudeinohio]

All depends on the guy. Sometimes or sometimes not.

[savagewolf22]

Sex is just a reflection of love...
The more intense passionate sex the more deeper the love is...😊

[Twalli]

I do that to some degree with my girlfriend because everything else falls short.

[Kelly6]

true

[abc--123]

Yes we do

[Anonymous]

Not really. Men show their love by sacrificing, doing things for and providing for their woman.

Men give love to get sex, and women give sex to get love. That is a universal fact.

[Anonymous]

Very rarely. It is wam-bam thank you ma'am with most guys.

[Guardian45]

Who are you dating?