My boyfriend shared his fantasy of watching me get felt up by other men. Surprised me mostly as I always thought men were naturally possessive of their women.
SOME men fantasize about watching their girl get felt up…I DO.
I have realized that I have a “hotwifing” kink: that I get turned on by (FOR ME: THE IDEA OF) my woman flirting with/being physical with other guys.
“Hotwifing” & “cuckolding” are similar — but not exactly the same — terms; both terms describe when only ONE person in the couple has “partner-approved/allowed” sex with someone outside of the couple’s relationship.
Note: the distinction between “hotwifing” & “cuckolding”is this: a “cuckold” gets sexual pleasure from the humiliation of seeing their partner have sex with another person, and with “hotwifing” (and with “hothusbanding”) there is no humiliation involved.
According to the following article…
https://www.allure.com/story/sex-acts-defined “
“Cuckolding is when a person in a relationship stands by as their partner has sex with someone else. There are many ways to cuck [but] There is usually an element of humiliation involved…”
And, the following source…
https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/cuckolding#cucking-vs-hotwifing
…says: “Is [cuckolding] the same thing as having a ‘hotwife’? No, though people often use the terms “hotwife” and “cuckoldress” interchangeably. A hotwife scenario is more about sex rather than emotion, power, or control. Instead of humiliation, hotwifing seems to center on pride. The partner is proud of having a hot-to-trot partner and her sexual adventures, and happy to share.”
Also:
The following source…
https://www.sexpert.com/hotwife-or-hot-wife-the-ultimate-guide-to-hotwifing/
…says this: “While hotwifing may sound like cheating, its not. It is a form of ethical non-monogamy, where the husband is fully aware of his wife’s extramarital affairs and not only consents to the practice but also encourages it to fulfill his fantasies…”
Note: although the above article discusses a husband & wife, nowadays the term “hotwifing” is also used in the context of bf-gf relationships too.
Most guys do not, no. We are the exact opposite, in fact.
We are naturally possessive, protective, and territorial when it comes to women. Not in a "women are objects" sort of way, but in a "she's with me, so get your fucking hands off of her" sort of way.
There are men who have a cuckold fetish, though, that enjoy the idea of their woman and another guy. I don't understand it, and would never be able to do that, but it sounds like your guy is closer to that side than most guys.
You can't expect to get a real answer from a site like this. It's a drug, and it's addictive. When the brain combines jealousy with excitement, it wants more of the drug. I'm not judging, because I don't care. I've talked to tons of guys, and wrote a paper on it. I believe that at least 90% of guys think about it, but maybe 1% act on it.
If you want to understand more about this, just find sources with people other than this site. It's the fastest growing fetish in America. (I don't know about other places)
Interesting! Thanks! Let me know if there is a link to the paper.
It was never uploaded, it was just a school thing. But seriously, look for better sources, and you'll find out he's just braver than most. I'm not saying this is good or bad, because it's not up to me. My advice is not to do it, because it's a drug, and he will want to increase the dose.
I did. I didn't have actual sex with another guy but my boyfriend asked me to watch how i give someone else a blowjob. I did it for him because i feel like i wanted to give him that experience. We agreed on some rules. I got to choose the guy, which we found in a hotel lobby on our holiday. We went to the room, hardly spoke with the guy... gave him a drink. I dressed up in lingerie. My boyfriend was sitting on the chair the whole time and I started giving the guy a blowjob. It was a strange experience.
How old were you when this happened? And was it a “spur of the moment” thing, or had you & your boyfriend talked about you doing that for awhile? And was your boyfriend jerking off while watching you blow the other guy?
@Gagname I was 26, it was with my ex. At the hotel is definitely in the spur of the moment but we talked about it for some time since it was his fantasy and he would mention it in dirty talk.
No he didn't jerk off but we has sex after the guy left.
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I want 100% exclusive with my partner. No sharing.
That is just odd to me. It sounds like he’s not invested in you. As if what you have is temporary.
Real men don't, it's beta males who fantasize about crap like that, they might be gay also.
There are for sure some guys that are in to it. Personally I haven’t thought about watching my girl get felt up by other guys as much as other girls. Id much rather it be a girl. But I am also pretty possessive.
Men are naturally possessive however that jealously one gets when been possessive can also lead to arousal in multiple ways.
The most common way is the guy claiming she's his reinforcing the possessiveness.
However one of the others is someone else instigating that jealously in the first place.
So in reality both fantasy's actually are driven by possessiveness.
It’s not normal and irs weird. You should be concerned for your own safety
I hope not. That would be weird🤣
Not all men but some are cucks its like a kink
I'll kill a guy if he tries to feel up my wife or touch her in any sexual way.
Eww no
Nope.
The guy who talked about the difference between hotwifing and cuckolding, understands the dynamic. There is a world of difference between the stag/vixen relationship, and the cuckold/cuckoldress relationship. A stag/vixen relationship, is a male-led relationship. (hotwifing) The male is dominant, and leads the relationship. A stag is NOT a cuck. A stag is VERY voyeuristic in nature. I seriously don't know a single human that hasn't experimented with threesomes or moresomes. I realize it's taboo on this vanilla site. A cuck/cuckoldress is a female-led relationship. The man has zero say in anything, inside or out of the bedroom. A cuck wants to be dominated and humiliated. A cuck craves humiliation, and loves to be deprived of sex. A cuck loves his cock to be locked in a cage. That's his thrill.
Nothing is wrong with either dynamic. You like what you like. Do men fantasize about watching their girl felt up? Some do, and some don't. A dominant stage might request it. A cuck has no choice in the matter. In either case, it's just a different flavor of kink.
Cuckolding and Hotwifing are the fastest growing kink on the planet. But it hides in the shadows, and that's for obvious reasons. Go on Google and look into it. Tons of guys fantasize about this, but it comes in two distinct flavors. Just say no, or choose your flavor.
By another woman maybe but any redblooded male would deck any man that touched his woman.
Sounds like your boyfriend is maybe gay.
I fantasize about her feeling some bulges up, but not the opposite, she can touch, they can't, like stripper code.
Except for truth or dare I have never had a guy watch another guy feel me up.
Hehe. Didn't realize that the TorD feel up was actually a real thing :)
They either want to see or feel.
Yes, I know they do... Just didn't realize anybody let them.
I don't think most do. I know that I don't.
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