Do men get emotionally attached through sex with girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Everyone knows that women do, but do men too?

[Anonymous]

Of course men can become emotionally attached through sex!

Not all people are affected the same, and men might be generally better at suppressing it than women. Also, society expects stoicism from men, so we’re not as free to express emotions that aren’t anger and rage.

But neither of these factors mean we aren’t susceptible to the same feelings that women experience, nor does it mean we feel them less intensely.

Ever watch the question feed on here for how many people complain or wonder or speculate that they or their no-strings-attached sex partner has caught feelings? It comes from women and men alike.

I noticed this about myself in my late teens. It’s why I resolved early on to only have sex with a woman with whom I was close. Sex was great just by itself, but it was so much better with someone I cared about. And I didn’t want the pain of potentially getting attached to somebody whose focus was having novel partners.

[kkirk4442]

A man may, or may not, get emotionally attached from sex. Some men do, under some circumstances, other men can have sex many times with a woman, and feel no particular attachment. Sex is not a reliable way to form an attachment with a man.

[JuneLady]

It's a bit different I think, but yes, they do.
Both men and women release oxytocin during intimacy, but they have different roles and affects in men and women. In women, it results in a deep, resounding bond with that person, essentially draining out the rest of the world besides them. In men, it results in a surge of territorial instincts, protective feelings. So his bond is different from yours, but he does bond.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

nope

[axaynaik04]

@JuneLady How does vaginal intercourse feels like for you?

[Aurora1010]

Yeah, even through sexting etc a little. At least I experienced it with someone.

[summiter]

Of course. Giving each other great orgasms and being naked with each other does the trick.. even for guys.

[exitseven]

I do. I always do.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

I know I do

[genericname85]

No. If there's no attachment, sex won't magically create attachment for men. I'm not a spokes person for all men. But that's my experience and what i know from other dudes that i talked with about that.

[Twalli]

Not all

[FireFox01]

No. If a guy is not already attached, sex won't make them more attached. But they will still have sex with you if you allow it.

[Asker]

And if they are, then sex will make them dependent?

[FireFox01]

Not in any ways, unless they are the type of person who can't get a girl. Sex is not the make all end all for a guy.

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

nope

[Seppel]

I guess not as much as women do.
Maybe some so some not.
So many girls are saying how many guys legt them after sex it can't be the same for everyone

[Asker]

I’m talking about sex with your girlfriend.

[abhi75757]

Yes men get

[Anonymous]

Sometimes but not usually

[Anonymous]

I know I do.

[Anonymous]

I don't know maybe I mean sex can require you to be quite vulnerable.