Do men like to cuddle after sex?

Do men like like to cuddle after sex?
I know lots of guys make fun of women for enjoying it, but they surely have the same desires for it, don't they?
Yes
Vote A
No
Vote B
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
Girl Guy
0 1

Most Helpful Guys

  • I know for a fact that many men don't - but I do and always have. To me, it's part of the whole experience of sex, and not cuddling after is like - say, having a burger with no fries. It would just seem incomplete.

    Some guys look at sex as "ALL ABOUT ME" and they just want to bang a girl and go back to whatever else they were doing (or eat, or sleep) - they don't particularly care if the girl enjoyed it, and probably prefer it if she leaves immediately after. Those guys aren't going to cuddle. LOL.

    But other guys LIKE to cuddle - and most of those guys also CARE about the girl and not just about themselves when it comes to sex - so it's a completely different mindset.

  • Cuddle cuddle cuddle cuddle. Cuddling I'd like my favourite I will cuddle my girlfriend any time if I really care about someone and have a good connection cuddling is very nice and relaxing and just yes. Cuddles. All I need most of the time tbh

Most Helpful Girls

  • I voted B for my boyfriend because it's just not his thing. We often just lay there before we find the motivation to move again. It's not really cuddling.

  • In my experience they friggen love cuddling. Sometimes it can be hard to disentangle myself to go pee.

    • That sounds a lot like me 😂😂😂

  • I like to cuddle up to my guy. I think he enjoys it. He usually falls asleep with me on him.

  • Some do certainly love but as I experienced most fall very soon asleep after orgasming.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

6 33
  • Yes but only with each other. Once we leave your place we go and cuddle with our guy friends <3

    • lolol nice.

  • I need that

  • Yeah but men are really tired after sex it takes a lot out of them lol

    • Not the most worthy fact of mentioning dude... you should stress the point that the effect of oxcytocin in men is that of a sleeping pill and in women - requirement for bonding... Im not saying I dont like cuddles, I do, but the hormone induced sleepiness has a more difficult to fight against effect on us than simple physical exhaustion

  • Hell yeaaaaaaa ofc with my hands on her butt

  • They do :)

  • I like to. But that's me. :)

  • I love to cuddle before and after. Something about the warmth of my lover makes me hard.

  • i just wanted to see what guys said xD

  • I love to cuddle, almost a must. But there are some guys (and girls too) that don't like it. It boggles the mind as I don't see what there is not to like!! lol

  • I'd say yeah. I mean cuddling is a comfort after so absolutely!

  • I am still a virgin, but I love physical touch, so cuddling after sounds amazing to me :)

  • Cuddling after sex is the only reason I have sex :P I'd rather cuddle instead of, but people seem to enjoy it more if you've had sex first *shrug*

  • Yes if i had sex with a girl, i would love to cuddle afterwards.

  • I've no clue. I'll have to experience that for myself when I'm older, but I do not think so, as I doubt the outcome.

    • what do you mean you doubt the outcome.

    • To explain it, sorry for my rudeness, lol, when I doubt it, it means I don't think it's going to happen and I'm cynical or pessimistic about it, plus I am touchy feely with being touched, as I flinch and fidget when that happens, but I do not mind initiating the cuddling as I've no problem with it unless when comfortable.

  • Cuddling is always on my mind. After can be more intimate but I like that.

  • Totally!

  • Usually. It really depends on how the sex was though. There are some times that you just want to lay there with her forever, and others that you just want to smooch her goodbye and call it a day.

    • I love the "lay with her forever" thing

    • @MMarina Trust me, I love it too! Especially when she's laying on my chest like a pillow and I have my arm wrapped around her.

  • Nope i just wanna sleep

  • I know I do.

  • I personally do but I’m a Virgin til i find the right one and i like cuddling period yes I’m a guy but I’m not a overly masculine guy

  • Show More (19)