Do men love Sex?

Question

Does the emotional attachment, the efforts or pleasure varies in context of casual or serious relationships?

Sangita93 · Accepted Answer

Nature has designed sexual activities and sex as one of the most pleasant and enjoyable thing between men and women with a specific purpose. Nature wants to encourage men and women to encourage them to enjoy sex as much as possible to produce babies so that lives on earth go everlasting. This is the first and basic thing why men and women both love and enjoy sex.
For most women emotional connection take precedence over a physical connection, but for men sex is one of the many ways he shows love. Men’s hunger for sex is not selfish, men look at sex as a path to reach mutual satisfaction, render pleasure and thrill to their partner and improve as a lover. At the same time, sex is one of the most crucial reasons why men want to be in a relationship in the first place. Sex or the prospect of sex makes them attracted to a woman, love comes into the picture well after the attraction episode. Men need to have sex in a relationship because it shows his manhood strength. This is how men see that the relationship is alive and strong, and when that is missing he starts to panic. He needs sex to ensure that you are happy together and that you are both getting what you need out of the relationship with one another. Relationships and sex are not mutually exclusive; it is the one thing that keeps you connected. Sex shows him that you make him a priority and that you will always care about how he feels. Even if you have a fight, you may use sex to reiterate that connection. In his mind, you are showing that you are close to one another when you are physical with one another.
The importance of sex in marriage is paramount and cannot be undermined. He needs to have sex in a relationship to show that you are a well-aligned couple. Sex is a way to stay close with his partner. A man’s ego is very fragile. Sex is tied to his ego and it motivates him to keep him going. There could be loads of other important tasks and decisions to be made on a daily basis in marriage. But, for the health and longevity of the relationship, sex must always be prioritized.
Sexual bliss is a great booster in relationship and marriage. When you are sexually satisfied, and you praise your partner for performing well between the sheets, you contribute hugely to their sense of self-worth, while also cementing your bond. When you share positive affirmations with moaning with him, it not only takes the pressure off but lets him know that you deeply love and care for him too. Men manifest in both the emotional and physical aspects of a relationship through sex, - he wants it all the time. Sex is the language men use to express their tender loving vulnerable side. It is their language of intimacy.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

For individuals it will greatly differ.
I tend to think of sex being a mix of Physical and emotional.

these fill a clear glass cylinder green is physical and blue is emotional

for most people’s it’s probably 75% green 25% blue

for others is 50-50 and as you head towards Demisexuals blue starts dominating and green reduces.

Anyone say 25% abs above gets the attachment.

now with a casual one a lot may be below 25% so the attachment is pretty much physical.

when dating, friends with benefits, or a relation ship. Then it’s higher and emotional attachment is in place.

For Demisexuals, they need that blue to be very much past 50% heading towards 75%

very high % Demisexuals are usually unable to have casual sex, thry need that emotional attachment.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

A lot of men say that they love sex. But I don't know how a man can say that he loves sex if he's on top of the girl for two minutes and he's done. First of all how does he even call that sex
When making love to a woman I'm screwing a woman fucking a woman sex with a woman. From start to finish you can do it a few different ways and all those few ways are pretty selfish you can make love to her and make it all about her and take her to someplace you've never been before and that's a bonding experience that's when two energies become one interweave themselves to each other and it is beautiful and when you can do it like that and make her have two or three orgasms that's better than having sex and loving sex

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Yes, we love sex, but it's not just the act and we don't always crave it. It has to deal with having a partner and loving companion that wants to share the act with us and emotional bond and connection. Having a woman to hold in your arms is not only soothing in a sense, but it feels great to have that bond in that present moment.

RealMarek · Answer

As a general rule, yes. The level and type of pleasure or satisfaction can vary depending on the type and health of the relationship. There are always exceptions.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I like pleasuring with my fingers on a girl and get the same in return If she doesn't like oral sex that is also fine with me and I like girls of any race / culture / religion

exitseven · Answer

yes, I have enjoyed it over the years.

Iron_Man · Answer

Most men just want to get laid I like the romance

Caliguy88 · Answer

Yeah, I certainly love it. And yes, the relationship can make it different. A girlfriend I usually go in more romantic style, while someone that is just a hookup is a little more dirty and thrilling the first time. Don’t get me wrong, the dirties stuff I have done is with serious relationships, but takes some time to get there.