Do men really only care about sex?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Two answers:

1. If a woman is pursuing a 10% guy (and most women are, whether they realize it or not), then, almost always, yes - it's just about sex. Those men are rarely looking for relationships, and most of the time, they're very up-front about that, but women routinely dismiss or ignore those words because she doesn't want to hear it, or believes she can change his mind.

2. If the only thing a girl has to offer (that men want) is sex, then the only thing he's going to want her for is sex.

Most girls quickly figure out that they can get male attention by offering, or at least advertising, sex. It's like a cheat code - it virtually always works and takes minimal effort. But what most don't seem to understand is that this isn't going to get her RELATIONSHIP attention - ONLY sexual attention. And, yeah, offering easy, casual sex can get her guys that are above her level, even FAR above her level - at least while she's young - and so she can share the elevated lifestyle that many of those guys enjoy... for a little while. But those guys never consider her "relationship material" and will never take her seriously.

A girl who has been ran through by 10 or 20 or 50 other guys is never going to be taken seriously as a relationship partner - she has none of the things men who want a serious relationship are looking for - but she can still be valuable as a sex provider to a man who is single. But that's ALL she's ever going to be to him, because it's the only thing of value she has to give in return for what she's getting from him.

The problem is that a lot of women who have put themselves into the position of sex providers have convinced themselves that they are actually girlfriends/potential wives, just because a higher-value man is spending time with her. The truth is, that men never saw her as being on his level, and never took her seriously as a relationship partner - he was merely content to trade some of his attention, money, and lifestyle to her for casual sex, and casual sex is all she is to him. TONS of women are in exactly that position. Some of them are fully aware, and are okay with that trade, but a lot of them are delusional and think they're on a path to a forever relationship, and those girls are going to get a hard lesson in life.

The fact that a man will have sex with a woman doesn't mean ANYTHING about her status as a potential relationship partner to him. Men can and do separate sex from love and relationship interest, and most are perfectly capable of having and enjoying sex without any serious connection. Most women can't do that, so they project the connection between sex and relationships onto men, even though for the men, those two things are NOT connected. They may overlap, but they are not connected.

HighValue · Accepted Answer

The promiscuous ones that will never be good partners and use people do. The good men want much more than just sex, but they will also have much higher standards for the woman (her morals, her past, etc.) than a hook up kind of guy does.

If you are having sex early, like within a few weeks of being with the guy, you are likely to just get used for sex. BUT, once you have had casual sex or have kids from someone else, the good guys won't be interested anyways. Choose your partners carefully.

QuadDamage · Answer

Insecure ones whom are yet to find out who they are and what they want in life might.

Statements like these are a load of jizz people make because they are hurt. It's also very age dependent, even though folks in all ages can be immature.

summiter · Answer

Not really but it is still pretty high up on the list!

Berethor · Answer

It's exaggeration, but men sure tend to more sexual than women, most asexuals are women.

Reece12345 · Answer

Some do. Some don't. I'm sorry if you've run into too many that do. There are lots of them, for sure.

Lionman95 · Answer

No but for many guys sex is the way to create intimacy. So sex is important to bond physically with a woman. But there are also guys that just think about sex because they´ve watched porn for a long time or they´ve heard guys talking about how many women they slept with.
So I would say that a louder minority just things about sex.

SnowedIn · Answer

Some but not all.

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

No. We care about lots of things that we hope will make women more interested in having sex with us.

BradleyinOK · Answer

There are those out there that do, but a lot don't also.

Summeroflove · Answer

Some do. Some women too. Not all men

TadCurious · Answer

There are some men who look at women as only sexual objects, but not all. There's a lot more to a real relationship than sex.

RavVid · Answer

No. But we care about it most.

DavidRaul · Answer

Half of them do

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Women like dick just as much as men like pussy

Akam93 · Answer

Some do

JPresidente · Answer

Sports and food are good.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

We like food also ;)

Sparkie460 · Answer

Obviously I don't since I haven't had it in a long time but I'm still with my wife

TheNameIsRob · Answer

No we like food too lol. We care about more than sex

LiamJHayden · Answer

Some do, most don't.

clampfan101 · Answer

Not all guys are those infamous low-life idiots you hear about. There’s plenty of wonderfully kind men that want true love and can also enjoy being casual friends with women.
I’ve honestly been friends with multiple girls, and the one girlfriend I’ve had meant the world to me before she passed away. Although we talked about wanting to eventually get married, we never even got to sharing our first kiss. I knew I wanted her without so much as a kiss. Although she was quite beautiful, I valued her for herself and will always remember our close friendship.

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