Do more women fantasize about getting raped?

Whenever i tell someone that i fantasize about the idea of being raped they are (more often than not) surprised but on porn videos i have seen lots of women that share this fantasy but none in real life? Is it actually more normal but my friends are too scared to admit it or is it abnormal?
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  • u say u fantasize about it and probably do a roleplay sex with ur boyfriend where u pretend he rapes u...
    but how would u feel if u actually got raped by some guy who looks like in real life and it wasn't staged?
    im jus wondering because iv been a virgin all my life... i was thinking about going into the girls toilets and when she's in there peeing i jump over the stall and put a knife to her throat and say "jus do as i fuckin say and i won't hurt u... now get ur panties off!!!"

    how would u feel if that actually happened to u>?
    would u really like it?>
    or would u be scared as fuck?

    i think ur jus saying you would like it... i dont think u actually would

    • if it was some guy who looks like me? i dont think u would like it... and no hot guys need to rape so get that fantasy out of ur head... realistically the only guys that would rape is 1s who can't get none... ugly fucks like me... im sure u wouldn't like that

    • I would be scared at first but once i get over the initial shock i think i would love it and i would play along so u keep hurting me

    • :D I WANNA DO THAT lol

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  • My unresearched opinion.
    It is not forceable rape/sexual assault. It is a subtle dance of assertive seduction resulting in reluctant consent, lacking fear and resistance. Lots of 1940's and 1950's movies display this.
    How a "good girl" engages in sex/intimacy without jumping onto it. The word "ravishing" or being "ravished" comes to mind.
    Modern feminist/misandrist women have ruined this.

    https://youtu.be/eV2Ex6z6uzs

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  • It's pretty common for both men and women. There was a study that roughly 60% of women have had these fantasies. There wasn't an equivalent study for men, but I did a poll & a roughly equal percentage of men reported this fantasy. Personally, pretty much all of my friends (both male and female) have had these fantasies.
    The poll I mentioned:
    Do you feel sexually aroused by FANTASIES of people doing things to you, against your consent? ↗

  • Nah, at least not me, I'm sexually dominant and always on top.
    On the other hand, my boyfriend is submissive, he fantasizes about getting raped by a girl.
    That's why we started role playing, and we both like it, he plays the "victim", and I play the role of "rapist" ;)

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  • It's normal. Most every woman of the dozens I've been with eventually confess to some form of forcible sex fantasy and then we role play it. Great sex is had by all. I love playing a rapist though it has no connection to who I am in "real life."

  • If that was so why are so many women screaming RAPE?

  • It's not uncommon.

  • No. It's more like domination play. Nobody wants to be raped in real life. In their head/fantasy, they are controlling the scenario. In real life on the other hand, rape is very scary. That person has some kind of power of you, and they are forcing you with sex without consent!

  • I want to be fucked hard and rough sexually but not raped. I give consent and trust whoever is fucking me

  • I did have those fantasies. I always felt disturbed afterwards.

  • Yes, so much that s cea years ago I set up a 'rape' in a park, but never had the guts to go ahead with it. I was a dumb bitch

  • Amazingly, yes, lots of women have rape fantasies.

  • I'm not trying to get beat up or anything but the idea of being forced to have sex with someone and being forced to make someone cum is super hot

  • Yes I do

  • Yes it is normal.

  • It's the number one female fantasy, so the overwhelming majority of women have it too.

  • First of all you don't fantasize about rape. What you're talking about is consensual non-consent. Secondly it's an experienced kinksters cup of tea. Take 1 step at a time.

  • Stop watching the pornos!
    seriously it destroys your natural sexual proclivities
    Women are attracted to power and dominance, hence why they watch it to get off.
    But its not something you want done to you, so its not a fantasy. Stop watching porn

  • They confuse ‘rape’ with being swept off their feet by a dominant male who THEY ARE ATTRACTED TOO and he has his way with her regardless of her consent but rest assured she is not fantasizing about Balding joe schmo who decides he’s going to rape somebody tonight

  • Literally every girl wants to be raped. You're normal.

  • Rape fantasy is normal. Wanting to get raped not normal. The idea of the guy taking you against your will is exciting to many girls, partly because of the safe word.

  • Porn isn't normal

  • Almost all women fantasize about this. It's one of the most common female fetishes.

  • Only servants do this.

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