Do people in friends with benefits situations talk every moment possible?

i have a guy that we have been talking and texting everyday he always starts the conversations, we talk about everything and he always asks me to come see him even if we don't hookup. i am so confused about what's going on...is this a normal friends with benefits relationship to talk daily and get to be very close friends...
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  • I think you know the answer.. no. only to "meet up" or sextual texting/foreplay before meeting up. You don't want to get attached... if you want to date, date. If you want to be fwb, keep it casual and don't do things to make you close/attached(cuddling, texting all day).. because with that comes jealously.. usually one person is more into it than the other and one is bound to get hurt. why aren't you dating? remember the reason and know that it could never happen, (unless you both want a relationship)... otherwise don't get involved, stop it now, and if he gets upset explain you want nothing more than sex and a casual friendship.

    • so very true. we have been texting for about 2 weeks so its still new but I did not think he should be texting so much if all he wanted was fwb.

    • well as long as you're fine with it there is no real problem, things will probably fade out or get more intense... just get to know each other better and see where it goes..

  • Its not a normal FWB relationship. Usually in a FWB relationship, its strictly physical. You don't talk much unless its about sex or meeting up to have sex. And when they see you, sex usually is obligated to happen. Do you want it to be more with him? If so, ask him what's going on between you both. If you are happy with a FWB relationship then leave it as that.

    • this guy and I are super close and we used to talk a lot when we worked together but did not exchange numbers til I left. he tells me how much he misses and and yes sex does come up in our conversations but its not all we talk about. he told me even if we never had sex he would always text me because he wanted me as a friend. I am very confused when it comes to him. we have a huge age gap between us. I really don't know what to do

    • You should ask him. He could see you as a friend before a FWB which is why he's acting that way.

    • thanks so much. yeah I love him to death as a friend and we did fool around today but he still stays the same and we don't need to to still talk

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  • That is not a normal FWB relationships

    FWB are only in contact wen they are DTF

    He's probably into you if you been txting a lot let him know if he wants a FWB relationship or a actually relationship.

    • well he told me today that he has wanted me for a long time and when we don't talk he misses me.